Good look, or charming personality?

@ample03 (403)
India
October 6, 2009 3:05am CST
I am attracted to charming personality rather than good looks. I think good looks are hidden into mind. Do you think charming personality is just as important as looks? Or does it only the looks matter?
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7 responses
@hexeduser22 (5853)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
When I was younger my standards are very because I thought I look good and i deserve someone beautiful also. As time goes by I realized that I really don't look that good and the reason why women loves to be with me is because of my personality. I look deeper into one's personality rather than her looks because I believe in the saying that "looks can be deceiving"
@ample03 (403)
• India
6 Oct 09
Hey hexeduser, The same happens with me. When I was child I used to compare myself with Silver Screen heroes. But After growing up I came to know that I do not look like them but I have a bit personality and I can protest when someone does anything wrong. And all my friends and parents love and like because of my personality also. Yes looks can be deceiving, as I have already told that looks are like books with excellent cover pages, you never know what is really inside it, right?
@Archie0 (4669)
6 Oct 09
Depends upon the woman's level of maturity I suppose. Looks and body fitness fade with time. Fame and wealth can be here today, gone tomorrow, especially these days. But personality, character are forever. A smart woman knows the best indicator of a good man is to observe how he treats and respects his mother, because that is how he will treat you!
@ample03 (403)
• India
6 Oct 09
I have seen many beautiful girls living together with guys who do not match to their looks. I guess those girls look at their inside not outside actually. But the preference always differs. One of my friends says she would never like to be with a man who is not handsome and good looking.
@inutme (372)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
In the long run, personality always wins. But of course, you can't deny the fact that we always check out what's on the outside at first. But well if you ask me to choose between someone who doesn't look so yummy but has great personality versus one who looks really yummy but with 0 personality, I'd of course choose the first one, hands down =)
@ample03 (403)
• India
7 Oct 09
Yes, my vote always is for good personality. And it is in built in a person. Can we ever think that personality be manipulated. Its not possible. So its natural also. And personality enhances beauty and looks, don't you think so?
@inutme (372)
• Philippines
7 Oct 09
Yes of course =)
@shibham (17025)
• India
6 Oct 09
hi ample. i think that good look is an external part where we have too many chances to exaggerate by various type of chemicals. so it is overlooked by me. but charming personality is an internal part and this is the factor that we need to judge to find out the reality of that person. thanks.
@ample03 (403)
• India
6 Oct 09
Yes Shivam, Don't you think Looks are almost like a book with a great cover page having no good contents to read?
@shibham (17025)
• India
6 Oct 09
100%
@roberten (3131)
• United States
6 Oct 09
Internal beauty is what attracts me most but that is not to dismiss the benefits of physical beauty. The problem is that external beauty very often fades while internal beauty often blossoms with age. I personally prefer long-lasting internal beauty because it enriches the heart and causes it to grow fonder as the years go by.
@ample03 (403)
• India
6 Oct 09
Sometimes we find people who has both good looks, humanity, good nature, romance and personality. That is very rare to me. On the other hand I have found so many people who are really gorgeous but they are boring and not bright. If someone has charming personality, it automatically enhances looks. Dont you agree with me?
@geebobuk (135)
6 Oct 09
Ideally both but at the end of the day personality is the most important as your relationship will not last, if that is what you want, based on looks alone. It is natural to be attracted to someone if they are nice looking but there needs to be more than that for me to make it worthwhile.
@vopols (204)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
Good day my friend ample03 Are you talking about having a relationship here or just purely attraction? If you talked about attraction yes I am indeed and maybe almost all of us like good looks even though some of us may say that it is not important but deep inside we want someone that is beautiful,pretty and most of all hot.For me good looks are just plain cover or mask from a person and it is not really the basis of everything especially when it comes to love. I strongly disagree about love at first sight that's not really the point it is attraction on the first sight or plainly first impression.Looks matter for people who are inexperience when it comes to love because there are people either men or women who already have experience a of girl boy relationships but base on their experience of the pain that was done by their good looking partner somehow they've learned that look are just look it is purely a cover on the whole personality of a person. We may see several pretty girls but yet there partners were quite ugly as compared to them sometimes we do question them on to our mind how did these pretty girl attracted to an ugly man. Women are not that selective when it comes to choosing a partner or a boyfriend what women likes the most is someone who can be make them secure and be safe always while men are more selective than women. If you are talking about relationship well looks don't really matter it is the charming personality of an individual which matters the most.
@mohan89 (242)
• India
6 Oct 09
now a days looking good is matter of seconds throw some bucks in parlour they'll just change u totally. looking good is a temporary factor if today a person is looking good tomorrow he's ugly. but charming personality remains permanently along with you till you are alive.