what if your mother in law and your wife wont allow you

United States
October 17, 2009 4:18pm CST
how would you feel if your wife and mother in law refuse to let your parnets talk to you? or husband and his mom there other day my son's wife and mother in law refuse to let us talk to our son which didnr help at all, whats worst he allow them talk to us like dirt and ran his own sister like dirt too and agree everything they said to us and was rude to us
6 responses
@silverglint (2001)
• Philippines
20 Oct 09
I think that if your son really wanted to talk to you then no one can stop him from doing so. unless he is sort of "brainwashed" by his wife and MIL or he is afraid of his wife. it is pretty unusual for a woman to be more dominant than the guy. Do you think that your son is aware of what his wife and MIL is doing and saying to you? Maybe that is the reason why they won't let you talk to him so that he will not find out. Maybe you should find other ways to communicate with him without the knowledge of the other two.
• United States
20 Oct 09
sadly he knows everything they said to us and about my daughter and agree with them, and all of them taking the side of the guy who sexaully assulted my daughter and my son pretty made her to be easy
@JenInTN (27565)
• United States
18 Oct 09
That's ridiculous! How dare them not let you talk to your son. If I were you...it may be time to let your son lay in the bed he has made. We talked about the girl and mother being very controlling sometimes and how your son will see someday what he is allowing. I can't believe it is still happening.
• United States
18 Oct 09
yeah you are so right, he allows them to talk to us anyways they wanted and even ran our daughter into the dirty and then he talked about her like she get around and is taking the this guy side who sexaull assulted her. and oh this takes the cake him and his mother in iaw wants us to sit and talk with the guy and get his side. me and my wife was like are you F**** kidding?
@buping (954)
• China
9 Nov 09
oh, it is not a good thing. i do not know why your son's wife and mother in law refuse to let you talk to your son. i think misunderstanding between you is so obvious. it never happen to me, and i think what you could do is all of you should sit down talking about what is happening between you and try to resolve the problem.
@suzzy3 (8357)
19 Oct 09
That is totally out of order saying someone cannot talk to their parents.It goes against nature and will make the partner miserable.If my husband forbid me to talk to my Dad I would hate him for it.I think people should think very carefully before they start running people down especially if they are supposed to be the people they love and want to make happy. I cannot stand bad feeling and will do almost anything to stop that type of behavour from the out set.
@taztheone (1726)
• India
18 Oct 09
I don't what he is doing is right. Parents are the ones who is the very reason for his existence. It's because of the parents that he is what he is & one should never forget that. It's true that human mind does move a little towards the place where he get some new love. But I believe they will come back to their parents after realizing the love of parents, which is actually the real love. Happy Lotting
@Craicha (801)
18 Oct 09
of course feel bad and disappointed about it...