Have you ever felt like committing SUICIDE ?

@krajibg (11936)
Guwahati, India
November 14, 2009 1:24am CST
Life is beautiful and dreams are lovely. But in the practical life this does not happen always. Life seems to be a burden and hopes are like burned out case. This is terrible. Whatsoever is your position today - happy or sad this is a fact that at least once you would feel like committing suicide. This is not particularized but a universal fact. If not now there would come time when you would realize the authenticity of this fact. By the way have you ever felt like committing suicide? With love Rajib. `14.11.09
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@ratyz5 (7829)
• Philippines
14 Nov 09
Honestly, it has indeed crossed my mind that committing something like that would release me from everything. The joys, the sorrows, struggles, and so on with those other emotions that we get to have through the multitudes of experiences that we can face but, even though that anyone's existence can be simply extinguished, it might be just be just selfish act as other who have known me would be greatly troubled. Then one can argue about those who really don't have any importance to others. Does that mean that it is alright for them to end their lives as no one would even be bothered about their absence? If religion gets included in the arguement, many points would lead to it being a fault that we should not ever commit and that the punishment would occur in the after life which isn't a good venture to consider. If one is suffering in the real world, why end it and suffer endlessly after? At any rate, our existence would only have as much importance as to how much we value our own well being. Be it one who lives afluently or one who lives poorly out there and enduring hardships, their existence is upon themselve.
@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
14 Nov 09
Hi ratyz, Very well explained response. your point was indeed to highlight on those who do accept this easy to compromise with life. But is it a compromise at all? They should think hundred times before taking this steps as there is no look back once you are in the act.
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• Philippines
15 Nov 09
Not in a million years, dude! Stay happy krajibg. Don't let that idea come into your head again.
@syankee525 (6294)
• United States
14 Nov 09
i can sadly say i did try it and thank God i failed at it, and then i thought about doing it again because of my dad made me feel worthless because he didnt care i was getting tons of test done on my brain to see if i had a tumor or not. and he told i am relayable. so i was goint to run my car into a tree and leave him a note saying now i hurt you like you hurt me. but i stopped and thought about it screw him he's not worth it i have my own family to think about not him. but i do suffer from depression and i often find myself battling it. i am in my 40's and i have so many medcail issues i am dealing with and being told i pretty much have a body of an 80 yr old man. i am in pain 24 hours a day 7 days a week. and i am dealing with money issues as well. but i think me killing myself is a punk way out of it. ive always been a fighter and will keep fighting until i die by God choice not my. i remind myself everyday it could be so much worst and there are people out there got it way worst then i do. like i told my wife and my therpist a week ago, my life isnt nothing but some kind of pain, metal, pshcail, emotion pain with things going on in my life. but killing myself isnt the answer. but if God wants me today or next week i'm ready to go because then i wouldnt be in pain no more. but killing myself naww not the answer because my wife needs me here, so do my kids, grandkids and others as well.
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• India
14 Nov 09
No i ever felt like that.life is very short we must tske things sportive.we must enjy the life.we must deal all the problems we have then only we can survive.we must come across all woes and worries.life is not full of happies,all will have troubles,when we face them and withstand then only we are successful in our life unless we are not.some people in anxiety commits sucide but they only loose everything.once they think for while they can survive
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@cfmedrano (240)
• Philippines
15 Nov 09
Before I did but somehow, i am afraid of hurting myself. i cannot afford to slash my own skin. But when am mad and with so much problems, i throw things and won't mind if i destroy them.hehe happy mylotting!
• United States
15 Nov 09
That is a good outlook. My skin is messed up and I have to cover up alot but that is because I did not stop to think like you did. The anger overtook me. I did not think about the looks at work or when you go to the doctor they ask where did all the scars come from. Then they don't wait for you to answer because they all are at the wrist or arm. They know.
@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
14 Nov 09
I’ve had times in my life when I certainly considered it as an option to whatever I was going through but always decided that it was not the wise solution. I have suffered from depression most of my life and didn’t know it until recently and now that I do I am being treated for it and life is good again. I have been fortunate enough to have always found something no matter how small to hang on to when things got bad and I saw no point in living. These days I have discovered that I can be happy and I have a child and that is enough for me to know that I would never harm myself, take away her mother and ruin her life; I just don’t have that right and the thought of leaving her is enough for me to stay right here and deal with my issues because I have a lot to live for.
@jbfong88 (50)
• Philippines
14 Nov 09
this year, almost everyday!
• India
17 Dec 09
Hello my friend krajibg Ji, You are absolutely true in your visualisation of this climax in anyone's life. My hubby reminds me of his situaion, when he tried twice to commit, but his own concious made him to fight against all odd situation and come out in flying colors. I believe such people lack in morale courage. May God bless You and have a great time.
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
16 Nov 09
No. Even do there are many trials and problem that I face to make me distressful daily. I don't like to think that way of troubling my life. We suffer from many irregularities in life then you add another. How can we make life better when it be lasted in just a minute. Life is the only that left for a poor person like me and I don't want this lost in that manner... We need to remember that only hope will remain for people who have nothing left in this life...
@bunnybon7 (37205)
• Holiday, Florida
15 Nov 09
as i've told many people many times when they talk of this, i've tried it at least 3 times and God meant for it not to happen yet. when i finally met my last hubby in '95. i was so glad it had never worked. for i would have missed the best years of my life with this wonderful man, my soul mate. even tho it only lasted 7 and a halph years i wouldnt trade them for anything.
• United States
15 Nov 09
Yes I have. I still think about it. Although when there are times I don't think about it and want to live forever I relized this is not a normal feeling or thinking. Just like cancer and other illness, this is a illness and not normal. God made use with the inclination to want to live and that is why normally you would not want to die. When you don't see a way out of your problems and it seems like everyone hates you , you may think you are doing them a favor. Or sometimes I think I love myself enough to do one thing for myself and end the misery. I alway feel I have to think of everyone else first because they are better. Nevertheless when think happend to be going right lifes seems beautiful. You love and you feel loved and a difficult seems easy to deal with. How this is a sad thought in the end.
@sid556 (31005)
• United States
15 Nov 09
Krajibg, you do have a way with words! Yes, there have been times in my life and mostly when I was much younger that I had those thoughts. I was really naive when I first left home and totally unprepared for all the heartache and crap that people are capable of. The thoughts of it obviously never went beyond the thought process as I'm still here.....alive and well. One thing I learned was that as horrible as things might feel....and things can feel really really bad...is that they do change. Every thing always changes. Nothing stays the same. Nothing good lasts forever and neither does anything bad. They are all moments.
@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
15 Nov 09
No, never. As bad as things get, it has never gotten that back.
• United States
15 Nov 09
How about your family and friends? What will they feel if you do? Life is a gift, not to be wasted by you or someone else. World will be better with one more mind to solve problems with, one more opinion, one more pair of good hand to help people who really need help. Never give up! pct ForThePeople1.BlogSpot.com
@qamarep (4449)
• Pakistan
14 Nov 09
yes some few times each year from 2002. this thought comes to my mind but then i get rid of it.
@vandana7 (66925)
• India
14 Nov 09
Hi Rajib, :) Yeah, when I was ditched the first time. :) But before I knew, I was out of that phase. I am Scarlett O'Hara kind of person. :)
@victory12 (348)
• Nigeria
14 Nov 09
Hell Rajib, I have never and i will never feel like that because i know that thing can not be going how i want it all the time. Anybody who get all he or she need at the particular time he or she needed it will not remember God.
• India
14 Nov 09
why people want to commit sucide?
• India
14 Nov 09
stupid things what a pity to have this type of topic .life is very precious and to enjoy and have fun and to show humanity towards others so dont ask this type of stupid things ever budddy
@missybear (11396)
• United States
14 Nov 09
The thought never ever crossed my mind, I love living too much.