Do you love peoples as they are, or want change something?

@icesmile (7172)
Romania
November 14, 2009 7:34am CST
Maybe you have a friend who are not very sensitive, or have somebody from your family who don t like what you like...you try to change peoples, or accept peoples as they are, and never try to change what somebody are? Humans are different for sure...we must accept peoples how they are or try to change something in what somebody believe, just because you want change? Can be humans be changed or we must accept all how they are?
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5 responses
@marianna45 (1400)
• Romania
15 Nov 09
if we want change something in somebody, mean that we don t love any more, just because we try to change a quality who make us to be in love, or to like somebody; peoples must to try to change alone, step by step, is not to good to try somebody. Is risky, maybe we lose somebody friendship or love.
@joy4you (641)
• India
14 Nov 09
I think this question should be asked standing in front of a mirror. If everyone can accept the fact that they are not perfect and neither is anybody else, then, be prepared to make yourself a better person not for other but because you owe it to yourself to become a better human being things will change for the better for everyone. The simple answer to your question is that you can not change anybody, they have to be willing to change themselves, but before they can start doing that they have to stop seeing the flaws of others and think about their own flaws. With the right friends and company and attitude a person can be guided or shown the right way but don't expect them to like what you like.
• United States
14 Nov 09
Hi, Ice! Even when friends have traits I'd rather they didn't, I don't want to change them. It wouldn't work, anyway! I just hope they evolve away fro negatives.
@syankee525 (6295)
• United States
14 Nov 09
i like people who are different from me, and i wouldnt ask them to change anything about them for me because i wouldnt want anyone tell me i need to change or ask me to change for them. i tell everyone what you see is what you get with me.
@samson1967 (7422)
• India
14 Nov 09
I love people in as is where is condition!!! I never bother to change their normal habits or character, but being in the society we need to correct some citizens with very bad vices that are harmful for the growth of the society, like the drunkards who cause problem to the public.