Are you afraid that somebody can be more smarter or more beatiful as you are?

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
November 16, 2009 6:32am CST
Can you accept that other person can be different? Can you accept that persons who are in front of you is for sure more smarter, more attracting, more intersting as you are? We all are humans and of course that is hard to accept that your friend is more smarter, that your lover is more beatiful, that your sister is more special as you are? Can you be so honest to say; he or she is more special as i am?
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@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
16 Nov 09
I have long accepted that fact that in this world there will always be greater and lesser person than us. There are those that are gifted and there are those that have skills. The important thing is that we treat everyone with respect no matter who they are.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
16 Nov 09
Bravo....this is my opinion to, that respect and have power to say "he or she is more smarter" is the best what we can do
@commanderxo (1494)
• Canada
16 Nov 09
More smarter, is grammatically incorrect. Only a smarter person would know that. cdrxo
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
16 Nov 09
sorry is a pleonasm, you right, so will change "more"
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• Canada
16 Nov 09
...you meam, "correct", not "right". The funny thing though? I actually understood what you said. However, lets not mince words. Pay no attention to my silliness. Keep on myLotting! Cheers; cdrxo
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
16 Nov 09
so sorry for my English, apologise, i am so happy that you understand what i want to say..sorry again, maybe for this i say something about "smarter peoples
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
16 Nov 09
Heck yes! I have a decent amount of self confidence but I am not ridiculous. I have plenty of faults but I alse have plenty of strong points!
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
16 Nov 09
Mean that you have good sense, this is more important
@meggan79 (436)
• United States
16 Nov 09
There is always going to be someone out there that is smarter, prettier, or has a more exciting life. I would not like to be smarter, prettier, or more exciting then everyone out there. If I was life would become boring for me. There would be no reason to pick up a book or magazine. No reason to talk to a stranger or people watch. We all have our strengths and we must accept and cherish other's strengths as we do our own.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
16 Nov 09
Hi, so there is a standard who make us to be in a challange all time; this make us to be all time in "action" to try to have high standars, high espectactions....
16 Nov 09
I really do not care about anyone else except myself really. I mean ofcourse looks matter but when someone is showing off their looks or they are smarter than me, I just think that they are really sad tio try and show it off in some kind of cheeky way and ignore them
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
16 Nov 09
hi, is not a kind of selfish?
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
16 Nov 09
Envy - Envy is a nature of us human beings, so, for most people, that is hard to accept that their friend is more smarter than them.
I accept completely that there are some other persons can be different. Yes, it is a fact that there is always someone who is better than you. It is obvious that envy is a nature of us human beings. So, some people may not accept the fact that there are some persons who are in front of them are for sure more smarter. So, there is a saying that goes "Envy is a most terrible thing, and would spoil anybody's nature." For the long run, to accept the reality is a wiser choice.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
16 Nov 09
hi, i like grren colour, but not in this way; i can accept that are many smarter, more bealtiful, more lucky; i am not green
@balasri (26537)
• India
17 Nov 09
It doesn't bother me.I am so confident in myself and strongly believe that I may have at least one good quality that no one can ever beat.So I do not bother if the people are more good looking or smarter than me.In fact I love to move with people who are smarter than me and not with the the dumb wits so that I can learn something new.
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• Canada
29 Jan 10
Doesn't matter to me. If we were the best at everything in the world, there'd be no need for God. LOL I am not competative, and I am not jealous. People are what they are. Someone will always be better at something than we are, and that applies to everything. No one person is ever the best at everything.
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
16 Nov 09
Hi there Ice Smile. I know for a fact that there are for sure smarter or more beautiful persons than me, but that doesn't mean i don't have a good self esteem, because i do, it's just that i know something about me that others don't - i am unique, we all are, so that's what makes as better then the rest, the better in a way... i think you know what i mean.
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
24 Nov 09
Well I am not afriad of anyone smarter of more beautiful than I am because I believe that we all have our strengths and weakness .Consequently someoone maye be smarter than you in one area but not smarter than you in another .Consequently all you have to do is be happy about your strength when you start looking at others and feel inadequate.In addition no one will ever be good at all things and if you meet someone who is better than you at something all you have to do is join forces
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