What is the main thing that you do not like about yourself?

@jugsjugs (13045)
November 30, 2009 2:53pm CST
I have learnt that the main thing that i do not like about myself is that i trust the wrong people that are my friends.
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16 responses
@tigeraunt (6331)
• Philippines
3 Jan 10
dear jj, i get difficulty saying no most of the time. ann
@jugsjugs (13045)
10 Jan 10
I am like that as well.
• Canada
7 Dec 09
I don't like the inner voice that I inherited from one of my parents that tries to guilt me when i spend a little bit of money on myself. I am the cheapest person I know, and I treat myself often, but something inside always tells me how much more money I'd have, if I didn't spend the money on what I wanted.
@jugsjugs (13045)
7 Dec 09
At least you know that you could be better off and do not spend it because you can as there are alot of people out there that just blow all their money and still do not understand why they have no money.
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
3 Dec 09
The thing that I don't like about myself is that I am too thin skinned. What I mean is that when someone criticises me in some way I take it way too seriously. I've had my feelings hurt over the years by many things that have been said to me in an innocent manner. It is something that I am continually working on and it is something that I hope will change in the near future. But, like any changes that we make in ourselves, it takes a lot of time.
@jugsjugs (13045)
7 Dec 09
You are right that when you try to make changes in yourself it do take time,as well as it seems like you can manage one day with your emotions better than you did,yet next you are back to square one.
@mawong79 (215)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 09
Good question! The main thing that I do not like about myselft is impatient. I don't have much patient and get angry too fast. This is also my weakness and always make me headache. I need much time to change this. Hope I can do it.
@jugsjugs (13045)
7 Dec 09
I am also not a patient person and if things are not going right or getting done quick enough then i get angry as well.
@kellyjeanne (1576)
• United States
2 Dec 09
For me it would have to be the fact that I get angry too fast and when I get angry I'm like Mt Vesuvius! I'm Italian and I have one HECK of a temper! LOL! Purrs, Catwoman=^..^= & Mija
@jugsjugs (13045)
7 Dec 09
lol.
@doormouse (4619)
1 Dec 09
looks wise,my stomach,but in myself it would have to be that i don't tend to have much emotion,i'm quite a cold person
@jugsjugs (13045)
7 Dec 09
I wish i had the thing that you do not show no emotion then perhaps people would not know when i am upset.
@acie_21 (5647)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
hi there jugsjugs.. hmmm...what i hate most about myself is that im not very friendly i mean i am friendly but i dont know how to approach people and do chit chat directly... im a silent type of person..and dont talk much if i newly know the person.. it depends on how they approaches me first.. i always wait for the person to do the first move before myself..hehehe! i guess thats the part what i hated most about myself.. i really dont know how to change my attitude..but at least im trying.. i guess..lol! thanks! chill! happy posting!
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
My temper. I don't like my temper. I am hot blood, meaning when everything goes wrong or I have a problem may temper will alter quickly. I change mood. You will see me before smiling at you but in the afternoon I am not. I guess girls are like this. They change their mood from time to time. When I bumped into my enemy, when I am happy that time it will instantly change to hot temper, Like you will see my very ugly face. My sister said that is wrong, do not let your day be ruin by them. You have to pretend they does not exist, but me I do have different beliefs. I treat my enemy as a real enemy, like when I see them I will look at them madly to make them feel I really really hate them, so that when they are fed up they will leave me alone, or they will never show their faces to me.
@kellyjeanne (1576)
• United States
2 Dec 09
For me it would have to be the fact that I get angry too fast and when I get angry I'm like Mt Vesuvius! I'm Italian and I have one HECK of a temper! LOL! Purrs, Catwoman=^..^= & Mija
@celticeagle (119130)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Dec 09
I think my sense of family and humor. I love my daughter and her kids above all else and I think I have a good sense of humor which has gotten me out of more scrapes than I care to mention. A good sense of humor can take the edge off a very testy situation. It can also slide you into a slot you had no idea you cared anything about.
@lelin1123 (15644)
• Puerto Rico
1 Dec 09
The one thing that I don't like about myself is that I'm a worry wart. I worry about everything and anything. I'm trying to get better at this and just pray but it sometimes just takes over my brain and its hard to release it.
@lkbooi (16101)
• Malaysia
1 Dec 09
Hi jugs, I did trust the wrong people before. The most serious one was a good friend of mine had gained a certain amount of dollars from me, but lost a good friend for sure. She is the kind of person that never keeps her promise. She promised to return the money as soon as possible when she asked for the loan that time. As time goes by, she never turns up since then I know she is promoted a couple of times years before and gets very much higher salary compared to 20 years ago when borrowing the money. I hate people cheated me So now I have lost both the friendship and money. We can earn back the lost money but we can’t treat the same person that has cheated us for a long time as a good friend anymore My husband did stop me from lending such great amount of money to her that time. But I felt reluctant to do so as she was one of my trusted and good friends. He still blames me now for I’m a too tenderhearted person. He says a soft and goodhearted person is always a easy victim for other to take advantage of. Happy posting!
@Buchi_bulla (8299)
• India
1 Dec 09
The main thing that I do not like in me is my soft nature. By this people take advantage of me. I get scoldings from my husband. I get cheated by that nature. After this I go into depression and think that I should have done this, talked this way, acted that way and I will start brooding over and spoil my health.
@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
30 Nov 09
HO HO HO I love myself for I am they only one that really can I know otehrs love me to but got to love self before anyone else can
@cream97 (29166)
• United States
30 Nov 09
I don't like the fact that I let what certain people say to me, offend me.. I want to change this trait about me. I am working on changing it now. I don't like the fact that sometimes I don't stand up for myself like I should.
@Genericbe (1378)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Well for me the main thing that i do not like about myself, is that when i failed to succeed in my plans in life after numerous attempts..It is disgusting.. But somehow, I realized that nobody in this world is perfect..All of us make and commit mistakes too.. Hating oneself is a product of being just a human who struggle to survive in this world and no man is an island who can depend only in himself.. He will need companions in life, often it is very hard for a person to admit that there is something that he hates about himself.. and I admire those persons who freely accept they commit mistakes.. Hating oneself may be a product of people around you or your past experiences in life, either it is a traumatic experience or not? or you have just been an accessory for that mistake? still,when you sum all of the experiences you went through? and realize those people who had made you feel bad about yourself? I guess the next part of your life? you gonna be smarter and strong enough to face all the challenges coming to you.. Then in return, after hating yourself, you gonna appreciate yourself more, because of that instance in your life? you become a better person..