Do you ever drop gift hints?

@jugsjugs (12967)
November 30, 2009 3:34pm CST
When it comes to birthdays or Christmas do you ever drop gift hints to your friends,partners or even to your children of a few things that you would like.I have tried dropping hints to my husband and he never pays attention,so i get the children to work on dropping him hints now.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
4 Dec 09
I think that it is one of the safest things to do to give hints of what you would like to have for Christmas or your birthday so that you don't end up with a bunch of junk that you don't like at all. We've always done that in our family and this year my in-laws decided that they were going to try something along those same lines. The thing about the way that my in-laws are doing it that is driving me insane is that they don't think of the suggestions as the law and if you drew a person's name in the gift exchange, you have to get them exactly what they have written down.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
I did try soo hard to give him hints of what i wanted for Christmas as well as what the children could get me,but in the end i had to tell them anyway.I got a web site up with all netbooks on it and then i marked a few and said one of them would be nice,lol.The best bit was we agreed not to spend as much as we normally do on each other for christmas but that is not going to happen as we have spent the same as we did the year before.I told the children what i wanted as well it makes life alot easier that way.
@kellyjeanne (1576)
• United States
2 Dec 09
No. I just tell them outright what I would appreciate having. I feel that most people don't pick up on hints very well! LOL! Purrs, Catwoman=^..^= & Mija
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@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
I have this year had to tell my husband what i wanted as he still had not gor a clue of what to get me.Even though we agreed not to spend too much on each other this year we have spent alot again.I asked for a netbook and told him then he would get chance to use this pc which is his any way,lol.Yes i have got the netbook as he asked me what one i would like from the argos website so i told him.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
1 Dec 09
nope never did if he got something it had to be what he wanted me to have!
@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
My husband would never have a clue to what i want so this year in the end i told him that it was a netbook i wanted as well as i had to give him a good choice.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
24 Dec 09
hmmmmmmm there is no surprize in that. My daughter has to do the smae to her hubby
• United States
1 Jan 10
I don't drop Any hints.This is the Only time I lie and lie, i lie like a cheap rug to keep All the gifts secret.
• United States
3 Jan 10
In my family we use lists . Everyone save my mom would make a list and we would work off the list. So you woud get what you wanted but from whom? That's why the mystery laid. My mom would always say " surprise me." and we did.
@jugsjugs (12967)
2 Jan 10
In the past i have dropped my husband a hint as well as the children a hint to what gift i would like for myself and still had to tell them what i would like as they never had a clue what i was on about.I never dropped them any hints to what they were getting as a gift from me as i like to let them have a good surprise.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
30 Nov 09
I have dropped hints in the past, but that was when I was younger. Now My husband and I will make lists of what we want, so there's no hinting just either getting or not getting! lol! It's easier that way as you can get something you know he or she will love, and also you won't have to worry about dropping hints about things you want either.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
28 Dec 09
I didn't get but one extra for my husband this year, but I thought about this a few days ago. I think for his birthday and for Christmas next year I will get him something extra then what he asked for. Of course that means I need to work harder on mylotting, lol.
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Hi. My family, friends and work colleagues knew that I would like to receive different types of books. They used to ask me which books interest me. To which I would always reply "anything." A friend gave me an idea though. He told me to create a "book wishlist" in my facebook account. So, there it is. I have an album in my facebook account containing pictures/book covers of my book wishlist. Also, I have created one album containing pictures of the books I already have. I update these albums on a monthly basis or when I have bought/received new books.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
That sounds like such a great idea as that way they have a choice of books rather than just one or two and if they have a problem of getting hold of a book there is another one they can try to get instead.I told my husband what i wanted in the end and i know that i have got a netbook like i wanted as he asked me if i liked the one he had chosen on the pc before he went to collect it.
• Canada
8 Dec 09
I don't drop hints, I just tell people what I want. I already know that my husband is getting me the 5th season of Frasier, a book that I want, and a subscription to Newsweek, because that is what i really really want, and he wants to make sure that I get something I want for christmas.
@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
This year i had to tell the husband as well as the children what i wanted as that way it was a lot easier all round.My husband was not sure what netbook i wanted so we had a look on a website and i gave him a few choices as which net books i liked so that way he could choose one for me.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
1 Dec 09
lol good plan. Yes I do. I dont expect people to read my mind. I usually give a few cheap ideas and maybe one more pricey.
@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
lol, i did get my mum to tell him what i wanted in the end.Then my husband asked me to show him some of the ones i had looked at and the few i liked so i did.He has got me one i am soo happy.Where as i knew what kind of things to get him as well as a game for the pc that he choose himself as there were lots of the games with simularnames.
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
I do not drop hints as I know inside our family I will not be receiving any gifts. If I will be receiving something it will be comes from my friends. They know what i want since I always tell it whenever we meet and I am thankful that they are always right whenever they give me gifts. However, my parents specifically my father always drop a hint of what he really wants for christmas. It is a set of caserole. I will be dropping by to a near mall later to check on the prices.
@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
I asked my mum and her partner what they wanted and because they never told me i chose to get them something for the garden as i know not many people would think of garden things to get a person this time of the year.I have told my husband what i wanted for Christmas as he knew what i wanted,but did not know what kind of a netbook i wanted so i gave him a choice to choose from.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
20 Dec 09
When it is my wife's and my son's birthday, I usually give some hints that I will get them a nice gift. Once I promise, I always make it. Otherwise they will feel disappointed if I break my hints or promise.
@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
Oh that is so sweet.This year i had to tell the husband in the end what i wanted as the hints were not good enough as he knew i wanted a netbook,but never knew which one i wanted,there he was on the argos website so i gave him a choice of the ones i wanted,so i am happy.I had a rough idea of what he wanted for christmas so i got a few things other than a game he wanted.
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
I never done as it makes the gifts no longer a surprises. i love mystery and surprises go in hand. I do not like to give a clue as in giving the receiver would no longer get excites as love to make surprises then have to research first the things she /adore as even good to make her/him feel surprises.
@jugsjugs (12967)
10 Jan 10
I like to get the things that people have asked for or what they have dropped hints about as well as a gift that they did not know anything about as that way they still get a gift that they knew nothing about.I like to drop a hint so that i get what i want or something that i need as that way i am not disappointed either.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
1 Dec 09
That is funny. I don't usually drop hints because family usually ask what do I want or need. Sometimes its very simple like a new pair of slippers or pjs. Other times I just say why don't you just surprise me.
@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
This year the hints were not that clear so my mum as well as a friend were asked by him to find out what i wanted and so they both said a netbook,yes he has got me a netbook as i think he wants to be able to have the chance of getting on his pc as i am always on it .lol.
@doormouse (4599)
1 Dec 09
i don't drop hints i just tell them what i want,last i wanted a new hoover,any dyson didn't care which,my man got the dyson ball,,i don't see the point in dropping hints,if you want something ask for it
@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
I had to tell him this year as well as the children of what i would like.I also know what i am getting as i had to choose which netbook i would like.The children have been carol singing so they earnt some money and they have also got me a gift as well.
@bhav27 (442)
• India
2 Jan 10
yeah i always , you know i hate the time when i am given a gift of not my choice , though people say that always respect the gift given by others but if the person is really going to spend on gift then better have something of our own choice so i always give hints to my friends and directly ask my family for the gift lol yeah i directly ask my family but give hints to my friends about my gift requirement so that their money don't get waste and me also happy.
@jugsjugs (12967)
10 Jan 10
I try to drop hints and that do not work then i will tell them as i think that if i was to get something that was no good to me then it would be a waste of the persons time as well as their money.I try to get what other people have asked for or what have dropped hints for as well as i get another small gift so that they get a gift that they do not know about as well then.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
30 Nov 09
Yes, I do, hoping that he would consider what I am asking of. I hope that he gets the hint to give me what I desire to have.
@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
My husband this year had to be told as he had not got a clue of what i wanted from him with all the hints that i gave him as well.I got a web site up in the end with netbooks on,well that was the easy part then he asked which netbook so i gave him a selection of them and said you choose one out of them for me.
• United States
1 Dec 09
I do not drop hints because my husband never drops hints on what he wants. I tried dropping hints when we first started dating and he never picked up on them. When his mom was alive she would always say to him gee wouldn't this look pretty on Dar. She had to help him shop. Now that she is gone, he has to shop on his own.
@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
Oh bless,my mum was asked by my husband what i would like as well and then she asked me so i said a netbook and then i had to show him on the internet at a few i had looked at that i liked.I know he has got me one as when he came home he asked me to check it was the one i wanted.Where as my husband wanted a game for the pc so that was easy as well as i have got him a few other things that i know he wanted as well as i know he will like as well as use.
@toataim (59)
• Estonia
30 Nov 09
Yes I do, I am not afraid, If there Is something I would really want then I would make hints. I Dont think about expencive stuff like jewelry. Good book or a board game. But I am wierd man I believe, because its hard to say what I want. Why not to give hints when you know exactly what you want. I think it is easier to everyone else because they know what to buy for you.
@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
I had tried giving hints but he still had no idea what to get me so my mum told him what i would like in the end and yes it was a netbook and yes he has got me one that i liked the look of which is great.
• United States
30 Nov 09
I do! In my family we all do. My mother and I go to the store and pick out what we want together... we'll put like 10 things we want for x-mas in the cart and then trad carts and than out of those 10 things we each pick 5. So we'll be sure we like what we get and at the same time its a surprise in a way. I always ask people what they want and i love the lil hints people give after all i'm buying them something i want them to like it.
@jugsjugs (12967)
23 Dec 09
I am like you i would rather get something that i know they will like rather than gety something that i know they will just put in the back of a cupboard.I always know what the children like as they always tell me and the husband always says what he would like as well.