what is the most charitable thing you have done for christmas?

@jb78000 (15139)
December 5, 2009 3:19am CST
in my case there are two - agreeing with the local amnesty group that i'd provide emergency accomodation for a refugee - and doing the usual helping out for other groups. how about yourself?
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@wlee9696 (595)
• United States
5 Dec 09
I prefer to pick out a specific family in the area that I know is trying hard but not making it. Then we donate toys and food annonymously to that family. I don't like for them to know who we are because I don't want them to feel obligated to us in any way. We also take food to the local homeless shelter all through the year. We could and should do more I guess - but these two things are our primary ways of helping to provide for our community.
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@jb78000 (15139)
6 Dec 09
oh that is sad. i've lived in countries where you felt you had to help too. here this is not an issue
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
5 Dec 09
Donations - toys for tots and food for the homeless and that sort of stuff...
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@jb78000 (15139)
17 Dec 09
what is toys for tots? donating your own old ones or organising collections?
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
7 Dec 09
jb...I answer with trepidation, as I recall your discussion on Christmas trees, and my response is about Christmas trees! For the past 17 years, I have been the "Maintenance" person for a Seniors Home with 16 residents! Most still believe in Christmas ... and the tree! For the past 15 years (once I realized these darling folks had NO way to attain a tree) I seeked and received permission from B.C.Hydro to cut small trees under the Hydro lines (must be kept cleared)...so I spend an afternoon, saw in hand...good hiking boots on, collecting trees and spare boughs for them. This doesn;t qualify as charitable...but it is a manner of giving that warms my heart, and completes their Christmas! Today is to be quite sunny...and guess where I am off to? Cheers!
• Canada
7 Dec 09
Oh, I think it is so wonderful that you are doing this. I am sure the older folks really appreciate that.
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• Canada
7 Dec 09
thank you, lindalinda, I classify it as selfishness...I truly do enjoy the outing, as a child, we always got our own tree from the woods, a truly wonderful experience! Selfish because of the enjoyment I have in collecting, and the sparkle in their eyes when they have their tree...and so many, being senior, have memory ornaments to hang! Living on a small Island, we have very limited services of any kind..no public transport..no taxi's....and NO commercial tree lots...so many years ago, I saw it as a need I could fulfill...my way of gifting them and my gift is in the giving! Cheers!
@jb78000 (15139)
17 Dec 09
hey - i am not a tree fascist - anyway i think what you are doing is very worthwhile.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Dec 09
hi jb I live in a retirement center for now and I have a very limited budget so cannot give money for charity, but I am kind to the other residents who are worse off physically than I am, I have sort of become a helper to this one lady who has very bad rheumatism in her hands and I help her into a special chair she can get into and out of more easily. We became close friends and I feel good that I can do things for her that help her a bit. I spent most of my adult life working as a care giver and this comes naturally to me to help someone else if I can.I have a bad shoulder and a bad foot so I know what its like to hurt and not to be able to do some things.
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@jb78000 (15139)
17 Dec 09
that kind of practical help is very valuable
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@ZephyrSun (7381)
• United States
5 Dec 09
I honestly couldn't tell you. There's usually so much that I do every year. We donate money to the homeless shelter, the Salvation Army (even though I don't agree with their beliefs I think they do a good thing LOL). My youngest son had on my letter to Santa this year toys for the needy so we are doing the Toys for Tots thing.
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@jb78000 (15139)
17 Dec 09
i agree with your opinion of the salvation army. nice your child is involved too.
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