the main reason why i could not get referrals in mylot!

@victorywp (3526)
Malaysia
December 11, 2009 2:59am CST
me: please join mylot. friend: why should i join your lot? me: no, it's not your lot, it's mylot. friend: i know it's not my lot, so i am asking what so great about your lot. me:
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@bjcyrix (6910)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
That is quite a dilemma you got there, victory. Maybe they thought why would they get on your Lot when they could have their own.LOL!
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@bjcyrix (6910)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
Well, just in case you were serious about that anecdote, you can introduce myLot as a site first. I mean, you: Im on a great site, want to join me there? friend: Really? What do you do there? you: Its (insert all the things that you do and like about myLot) friend: cool! What's the name of that site? Ill check it out, what's the link? you: its myLot, here is the link www.mylot.com Couldnt go wrong with that.LOL Of course the only variation in that scenario is that the friend refuses to even see the site.
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@bjcyrix (6910)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
LOL Thanks, fjaril.^_^
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
yes, that's surely a better way to do it. you should become a salesperson since you already have the talent inside you. if you polish it well, you can sell anything out there.
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@athomice (396)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
I like that!
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
how about you? do you have such an experience before?
@athomice (396)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
None at the moment. They are all busy doing facebook!lol!
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
but facebook doesn't pay us to be active there.
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
Oh.. that's very cute victorywp!
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
do you think they are really so blur? or they tried to be funny with me?
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• Philippines
12 Dec 09
I guess they are totally blur with everything! Just send them the link and enough said.
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• Philippines
12 Dec 09
Tell him yes. What a loser. Anyway, don't bother getting referrals at all since it is very hard!!! I have tried myself and no one was active. I am wondering why i was easily tricked on online earnings but i don't regret anything though.
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• United States
14 Dec 09
LOL.. most of my friends don't join because they don't know much about it. it's funny,they chat on other boards..i told them there is an incentive,but still not interested.oh well,i guess.
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 09
that means they are willing to chat in other forums (that do not offer incentive) but not in mylot (that offers incentive)? maybe they already used to those forums & have built their own friend networks there already.
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• United States
20 Dec 09
yea,it strikes me as weird too. some of the people i know would be making a lot of money the way they talk all the time LOL
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
21 Dec 09
...if only they talk in mylot right?
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@celticeagle (120473)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Dec 09
That seems totally normal to me. I don't care to be a referral so why would I think that anyone else would? I just get the URL and go to the site and either join or I don't. I don't want to be in the position of a online acquaintance being upset with me because I didn't stick on a site that they had referred me to so I don't do that to others. I may tell them about the opportunity and ask them to use the referral link and what it is for but tell them only use it if they feel certain they will stick to it. Doesn't happen very often and they don't last long.
@celticeagle (120473)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Dec 09
I wonder why. Curiosity?
@celticeagle (120473)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Dec 09
And a true lack of interest in the people and the process.
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• Boston, Massachusetts
11 Dec 09
Hi Victory, Don;t feel bad. you're not alone. i experience the same way too. so i stop asking my friends to register or even follow up my referrals. i am doing it myself. i make myself active here in mylot and i am fine. i only have one active referral. two just signed up and the rest ignored my invitation. it's okay i know in time they will regret it for noy joining mylot OUR LOT! You're right the best things in mylot are YOU, ME and OUR friendly discussions that after a month is converted to earnings right?!
@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
thanks for your encouragement, msfrancisco9369. that's what i like about mylot, even without referrals, we are still able to earn by our own.
• Boston, Massachusetts
12 Dec 09
yes that's what i am doing friend. instead of feeling frustrated about my referrals i'll just continue working on. at least i have one who's enjoying mylot too. so for me that's an accomplishment plus my positive attitude towards making mylot part of my daily activities.
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 09
good for you then, at least you have one. i have 10 referrals but none active.
@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
12 Dec 09
I am all alone here and I don’t attempt to get referrals anymore. People often ask me what I do online and I tell them about MyLot and the majority of them just stare at me with a look that says, “Why do you want to do discussions for?” I have no idea why many of my friends and acquaintances don’t get it; they know I like to write and here you have MyLot with a big bunch of great people and we get paid, why not I say? Go figure...
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
that's a good answer to them, so what they replied to you after you mentioned ...and we get paid,...?
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@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
12 Dec 09
I think that a lot of the people I know are not as passionate about writing and working in forums like this one and they are just not interested or don't think they could do it...
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 09
that means your friends are still not interested even after you mentioned that you have been paid for having fun in mylot? i thought at least money could get their attention...
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
16 Dec 09
lol =D There's nothing wrong with the name, MYLOT.. It's the ple who are misinterpreting the meaning of "mylot', which they think it's your group in whatever social networking sites.. lol =D SO, it's your responsibility to explain to them, but not using the name of MYLOT again.. haha =D just tell them it's a site to make money as they chat.. haha =D
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 09
me: please join mylot. friend: why should i join your lot? me: no, it's not your lot, it's mylot. friend: i know it's not my lot, so i am asking what so great about your lot. [b]me: well, the great thing is that you can make money chatting in mylot! friend: so what's your lot is about? i might not have things in common to chat there.[/b] me:
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
17 Dec 09
lol =D U should have do without the 'mylot'.. U just have to say, please be your refferal in a forum site.. haha =D
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@May2k8 (6987)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 09
Very difficult to find active referrals here, they just join and if they found more highest than this site then they have fun right there. I have bought two referrals but they seems don't wanna to be participate anymore. After they looking not easy to interact with other people then they'll leave.
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
how do you buy referrals for mylot? i have never heard of buying referrals in mylot. this is new to me.
@May2k8 (6987)
• Indonesia
19 Dec 09
I don't buy I just get it from chatting on the net (not from myLot), well may be they'll active on holiday I'm looking they have participation again and seems they are very happy.
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@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
11 Dec 09
Oh well got to get over to them that the name of it is MYLOT. and to join. I have only one so I dont feel bad
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
yes, the name itself is MYLOT!
@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
12 Dec 09
Of course lolololol
@eshaan (6193)
• India
24 Dec 09
say its neither you lot nor mylot...its ourlot....thats why every feels that this is MY..lot...you wont feel alone..you will always be among the friends, you will always get attention when you ask for something...and so our lot..which is just named MYLOT...is very very special....and then see how he doesnt join your lot
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
25 Dec 09
that's great to say it's our lot! thanks for the idea!
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
haha, that's a good one...
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
21 Dec 09
you can try it to your friends too. maybe they would be replying you the same as what i have written above.
@williamjisir (22903)
• China
15 Dec 09
Hehehe, it is an interesting one ever created by well using the relative pronoun --your and my. It is a very creative one as well. Thank you for the fun you have created for us to enjoy.
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 09
thanks, williamjisir! although it seems funny, but it really happened to me. have a great day my friend!
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
12 Dec 09
I know it is very frustrating trying to get people to join Mylot with us. I explain to them how it works but they still think it is a joke or a scam site. I get some of them to join but then they leave as fast as they sign up without even giving it a try.
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
that's exactly what i faced, stephcjh. i have 10 referrals but none active. one of them posted 9 responses & left, two of them posted 2 responses & left, seven others left without posting any responses.
@Opal26 (17690)
• United States
11 Dec 09
Hey victory! I think that is too funny! I guess for those that don't know or never heard of "mylot" it would be kinda hard to explain! I have never had any referrals here! I have never even tried to get any! I did tell some of my friends about this place, but they just didn't get! So, I just leave it be and enjoy this place for what it is myself!lol
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
you are right, Opal26. i am enjoying mylot for myself now.
@jands1 (835)
• United States
11 Dec 09
I long ago gave up getting referrals for MyLot. Most people are interested in get-rich-quick schemes rather than putting in a little effort. Good luck to you!
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
luckily we are still able to earn a good amount of money in mylot by our own if we are active enough.
@drannhh (15245)
• United States
11 Dec 09
It seems you have too much time on your hands Do you know what the "lot" in myLot stands for?
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
erm... something to do with the quality & experience of our life? i just checked for the meaning of the word again actually.
• United States
11 Dec 09
Nice play on words. I had no problems getting them to join "mylot" I have problems getting them to post after they join..they were expecting a million dollars for posting.
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
actually besides this failure example, i still manage to get some referrals to join. but i faced the same problem too, they don't post after joining. they said that mylot is too complicated & earns a little.
@arunmails (3013)
• India
11 Dec 09
very funny conversation... is this is the real one... how come your friend ask like this, or you explained in a funny way or what..?? Really I enjoyed this man...
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
actually i received this type of reply a few times already. i think maybe my friends are blur or they tried to be funny with me.
@johnnykay (1057)
• Hungary
11 Dec 09
lolz! that's really funny! :D
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@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
yeah, i felt it's funny too. it's not the first time i received such a reply already.