Do you believe in love at first sight?
January 5, 2010 3:34am CST
I don't believe in love at first sight although nobody can deny that everyone's experience is different.We will probably apprecaite on somebody if that person was nice looking or so.But that doesn't mean you will fall in love with such a person in your first sight.There are many new movie star and new pop singer that we can meet them on our TV everyday, I think it is hard to fall in love with this stranger even they are beautiful or attractive.To fall in love with someone,we need to at least get to know the person for awhile.Well,that's my opinion.let's see yours^_^
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22 Jan 10
I don't believe in love at first sight either. I think it's possible to develop a connection with someone at first sight, but not love. Love takes time, it's not something you can easily acquire without getting to know the person first. That's just my opinion.
• Hong Kong
22 Jan 10
I agree with you that when you said love takes time.We are living in a fast food culture and we want everything fast in our society.Unfortunately,fast in emotion will be slow in rational.Love is something that everybody will enjoy.But not everyone knows that love takes lots of responsiblity and patience as well.It is always a hoyey moon period in the first few month to first year.Then when differences between the two arise.then they will learn about what it means to be love .Argument,conflict and different ways of seeing things will surely challenge this love in first sight relationship.Well,true loves needs lots of learning and scarflies.Love is not cheap at all and in fact it is very expensive.
• Puerto Rico
6 Jan 10
Yes its possible. I fell in love at first sight at the age of 19. I saw him on stage singing and it was like the room became empty and it was only the two of us. He didn't see me until I approached him a couple of months later telling him who I was because I found out he was a friend of my uncles. We were together for 11 years and two kids later. His line of work helped in our breakup. Men don't usually have a strong will to stay away from groupies and I couldn't take it anymore and left him.
• Hong Kong
22 Jan 10
Oh,what a real life experience to know.I think it is always important to get to know the person more before any progress.Because it will minimize the risk of break up in the future.I think it is much harder in nowaday as well,since everything tends to be focus on feeling and emotion and everything base on sensation.You can hardly tell someone to think twice and give more obseravation if they just fall in love of something.I think it is very important for the next generation as well.They surely need more guildance amd won't fall on the hartful experinece of their parents.I think we surely want the kids have the best,so there are times that we need to teach them how to think carefully and start a more healthy dating step by step.Whoever just let their kids to do whatever they want like a wild horse (especially in the western culture),the kids will probably won't enjoy the life long relationship in the future.That's my comment.HAVE A GOOD DAY.
• United States
7 Jan 10
I didn't used to believe in love at first site, but I had that experience in my life and now I do believe in it. I met my husband at a time in my life when I thought that there was no one in this world that would ever love me. Then, out of no where Tom got in my life. We talked on the phone for a while before we ever met in person and I even knew before we met face to face that he was the one for me. We've been together for eight years now and neither of us has ever looked back.
5 Jan 10
I don´t believe in love at first sight.But for some people it happens.I think that there is one and only one person for us all, which is the right one. Some of us meet him or her, some of us not. Sometimes you get the right one, but some accidents in life separates you.If you believe in God,every incident happening in our life is prewriiten and we are all moving according to that mysterious force.