Are we to young to get married...

Well if you are afraid then maybe it isn't the right time for you yet. You should at least wait till after both of you have graduated from college. Find jobs and try to save up a little. So then when you do decide to get married or move in together neither of you will need to rely on each other for money. When money gets tight that is usually when relationships are strained. This will also give you a chance to save up for the pending wedding. Because they do get very expensive. And if you never get married, then you will just have a lot of extra money.

I do not think you are afraid of the commitment of being married but the thought that you have not accomplished anything as a single person or you may have these thoughts where you still may have things you want to do before settling down. What I do suggest is for you to take things slow and see later on after a year or two on what are your priorities for yourself first before thinking of you two as a couple so you can decipher what is important to you.

I've been living with my girlfriend for 12 years and although we've talked about getting married, for the most part, we already are. If the two of you are not living together, maybe you should consider taking that route first. It seems most marriages fall apart after the couple move in with each other. As far as having children, make sure you have the financial stability to raise a family and provide for the children. Money is another problem marriages seem to face. The two of you seem to be off to a good start and its not like you are rushing into it, so follow your hearts and remember, you are still young. I wish the best to both of you.

hi keymoney I am 22 when I got married and my man is 27.. just like you I am afraid of getting married,because I do not know him better, we just met in other country because we used to work there, but we have the same nationality. Now we have a child but I can't say that I am happily married because me and my partner had a lot of misunderstanding., and lately I realized that he's not the one that I want to spend my whole life with..I don't know, but that's how i feel. If you're afraid means you're not yet ready to get into married life, think it many times before you decide..but 6 years of dating is quite long? maybe you're afraid because of your young age?.I would say it's not in the age,its between you and your partner, If you are comfortable with each other then it means you're fated.

I don't think that you are too young to get married. I got married when I was 18 years old. I am 24 years old now. I think that you have to look at your individual situation. You can't look at age or anything like that. However, if you are not one hundred percent positive that you are ready for marraige then don't get married. It is just a piece of paper. And if he really loves you he will wait until you are ready. You don't want to end up regretting it in a couple of years because you got married when you were not ready.

I think that if you have to ask that question, then it's definitely not time to get married. If he's ready and your not, think about going ahead with the moving in part and leave the decision of marriage for a time further down the road when you two have a better idea of what it will be like to share a life together. Of course, since it sounds like you've spent you college years with the same man, you may be feeling trapped or like you may be missing out on something... in which case, you should really sort out those feelings before committing to marriage. I've been there. Commitment can be a scary venture and shouldn't happen unless you're 110% certain you can stomach it.

Hello Miss... It is up to you and your partner when to marry... You can talk to him and tell him about your plans. If you don't want to marry right now, then talk to him about it. Have a conversation and let him know that you want to marry him, you do love him; but you need some more time... I am sure he'll understand you and wait! Have fun!

Marriage is outdated! Over 50% of all marriages fail, so why rush into a contract that is flawed? You owe it to yourself, your future children, and your Bf to avoid a broken marriage. If you can live together for 5 years, the odds begin to add up that your marriage will last. Begin by moving in together immediately. Its not fair to your future children, that they be products of a broken home!

Hi friend, No in young age getting marring not correctly.But you really loves him you can get marriage.Definitely you can commit with your boyfriend long relationship between you and your boyfriend. have a great day.

I feel its not right time for you as you still afraid to get into marry at this time. May be your feelings are true not to get marry at this time. Yes, you can marry him as you were dating since 6 years but, having children may not be good without proper settlements of your life.

Enter marriage when you actually feel comfortable about it. I'm sure your boyfriend will understand you if you can explain that you are nervous and you feel your not ready yet, nicely. Get married when you yourself feel secured and comfortable.

maybe you are not yet ready with it. before doing it make sure you're both prepared and ready to face the role of being a parent ^_^

as long as u are both ready financially and emotionally, then u go on.. but if i were u, u better enjoy ur life first after u graduate from college, get a job and earn decent income... being afraid is a good sign that u are not yet ready!

hello! i think your BF is not mature enough either physically or mentally to get married now. i am 23 years old too. And i do not think i can get married now because i think i am not mature or intelligible enough. And you are also afraid that means you are not ready for everything in the future. Marriage is a thing of two person. Both of you should be more sensible. Maybe two years later wil be better. Wish you happy and joy.

I have a total different thoughts, i think if you guys are being together for 6 years, and he still love you, and you love him too. Then i think it's a great idea to living together! I have a friend like you, she and her bf were together 7 years, they got married last year, and have a boy at the end of last year. They look so happy! Good luck to you and your bf!

You definitely aren't too young to be married if you think that you are ready to commit the rest of your life to him. Because of the fact that you are scared, the two of you should probably go through some premarital classes before you get married to nip any issues that you may have in the bud before you tie the knot. I think that the fact that he is pressuring you is probably the main reason that you are scared.

Well, I guess not that young because both of you are in the right age but the mere fact that you're afraid and I think he's not stable in all aspects so why rush into marriage maybe you should convinced your boy to wait 5 years from now and make himself stable financially, emotionally and spiritually so that when the time comes that both of you are ready to another phase of relationship then you'll regret whatever happens. At your age, you are starting to feel and experience how is it like to live after college and mind you for sure you'll meet a lot of people and it's a journey though so just enjoy first before settling and one thing more if he loves you much then he'll wait and that's true love dear.

Marrige means responsibility,it's very different from falling in love. Marrige needs courage. My opinion is do the right thing at the right time.Now your focus should be study not marrige. Maybe you will change your minds when you start to work. And if you surely love each other,time will be not a question,right? Bless you~

hello well, dont be afraid,, age doesn't matter at all.. if you know you are matured enough to take responsibilities. then go on.. but well think it over and over again.. because getting married is not like a game that if you dont like u can quit.