What??...Same color of dress, the same with table cloth and curtains....

wearing the same dress - Wearing the same dress in a party some take it as humiliating while other take it as funny.
Philippines
January 15, 2010 11:22am CST
My friend is attending a party and she is very excited to reach the place, then she get a big surprises when she bump a girl wearing the same colors, design, and dress as she wear, so they end up looking like an identical twin. If you were caught in the same situation like she undergo, would you get out of the party to hide, go home to change new dress or stay to have fun.. How would you react if this happen to you or if ever it already experience this kind of situation. What did you do to calm yourself and pretend everything is alright. The worst scenario does not end it as their are cases where the color of your dress is the same with the table cloth and of the curtains. What would you do, Are you going to go home to change your dress? Stay at the party and have some fun? kindly shares your thoughts. thanks. 1-15-10
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
16 Jan 10
LOL..that has happened to me before. Another person was wearing the same shirt as me and it was so embarrassing. I dare not look LOL. I think if it were me, I'd go home too and change. Or go to another place where there's no similarity, LOL.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
18 Jan 10
LOL, Neelia. And when the eyes meet, the embarrassment starts to set sail. I would want to hide behind another person on the spot, LOL.
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
hahaha..yeah, that the first impression, hide quickly as fast as you could..lol
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• Philippines
17 Jan 10
lol..yeah that a very funny situation though one could not avoid except if one prefer to have a custom made then their would be no tendency of having the same clothing. While, some could take it as a joke or rather a compliment having the same shirt would not be noticeable if their is a lot of crowd unless only few of you are in the party so both eyes meet and get the surprises of his life..
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
18 Jan 10
lol =D I have seen one example on tv, or rather it's the interview of a local celebrity.. SHe been asked the question like here, and her reply is "I will walk up to her, shake her hand and say, GOod taste.." haha =D See the solution?? COmplimenting the other party, is just like complimenting oneself too, and so both parties need not feel awkward at all.. haha =D BUt if it looks like a table cloth or curtain, i guess one cant help it, for we wont know their curtains will look like what i'm wearing!! hehe
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
20 Jan 10
If i'm already there, i wont leave.. haha =D LEt them laugh all they want.. For i dare to wear it!! haha =D
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
haha...just say... "i belong!"
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
lol..that is why this question of mine is very serious no laughing please... Yeah, that great to praise another from having the same taste at least it only show some embarrassing situation could be a source of too much fun if one know to carry itself in a unlikely situation turning it into a positive one.. Lol..yeah...yeah..it is truly embarrassing wearing the same fabric and design of a table cloth like in a checkered shirt or in the cases of the curtains with laces in female dresses... if in case those situation happen to you then, What would be your first initial reaction then...??
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
15 Jan 10
I wouldn't care. :-)
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
15 Jan 10
I might compliment her on her good taste though. :-)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
hi dawn, that better being sporty gal, no more hang ups..
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
It is quite embarrassing for me to wear the same design and color as the tablecloth or curtain. It is alright to have the same color but if the same design then that is most embarrassing. At any rate, I think I would go home and change my dress if the party if a very formal one and would involve people that are not my close acquaintance. If my home is very far from the place of party, then I would rather not attend that party anymore. However if all the people around the party are close friends and relatives then maybe I will just make fun of that embarrassing situation instead of taking it too seriously.
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
hi salonga, yeah, that the spirit just enjoy the party and the people if you know them well and in case of formal events so it is very embarrassing to wear the same design and so if your house is near you just change a dress then and come back again to the party after you have change later on. But, if it is the evening party or say like a dimlight party held in a disco bar having the same clothes would be less noticeable when their are many people around and just get in to enjoy the party at blast! thanks
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 10
I think it is really embarrassing to bump in another person in a party, wearing the same dress, the same style and the same color. Being in the same room with this girl might be very irritating, especially if the dress looked better on her than on us. But I still think that going home and change clothes is a bit silly and unwise because we would just wasting our time, especially if the venue is far from our house. I would suggest you to bring emergency modification tools like, safety pin and brooches. With the safety pins you can shorten your dress or change the style of your dress with making simple ruffle. And brooches to put some accent which can deflect the attention from the style of the dress. I think it would be great too, if you have fancy scarf or shawl you can pinned on your dress as if it is a part of the style. I know it sounds hassle, but I think it is better than looking like a identical twin with other girl. Isn't it?
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 10
Yes, I think being creative is so much cheaper and easier than having to go somewhere else and buy something new. But well, to prevent such things to happen, I usually make my own dress for special occasion or buy a dress by request. Which should be only one in this universe. So I wouldn't have to experience this kind of embarrassing moment. :)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
hi klaudine, yeah, and that is fine as long as you know to make an additional extension or just add some elements which you already mentioned could be the best cover up so that the crowd in the party would not notice similarities with the other person..And, surely fro being unique in your own rights you would stand among the rest with no similar clothing it is all your own style..
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
hi klaudine, Right, and you have plenty of ideas which a good tips for those who worries about their appearances. especially women who are very conscious of their fashion and have a feeling to be recognized as different from the rest. So your suggestion is also nice as one could improvise her dress even if she bump a girl with the same dress.
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• Philippines
16 Jan 10
That situation is kinda embarassing.It happened to me while walking on the street..I come across a girl wearing totally same t shirt as mine..She looked irritated with eyebrows raised ..totally a bad day for her while I just kept on laughing coz of shame..wooz
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
hi jhaycee, Yeah, that also hapen to me during the graduation of my sister i am wearing a black dress and then among the crowds i could see ladies more than 3 wearing the same design of my shirt. But i endure it as their are many people that they could not notice me as everyone is busy taking photos. So those things really happen when the dress you wear is purchase from a department store who sell many pairs. thanks
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
16 Jan 10
I would at least attempt to make a joke out of the incident. If the other person wearing the same dress as you is willing, it might turn into a fun night.
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
hi bellis, yeah, that the best way to avoid being moody it only mean you are just being sports setting aside insecurities and just enjoy the party and have fun!
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
15 Jan 10
It depends ,if I was close to my home I would probably go home and change because that is hwo much I hate looking like someone else however if I was not close to home I guess I would have to stay and endure the toryure of looking like someone else. Granted thouh I have not encountered that situation ever because I often choose my clothes carefully .Someone may have one particular item of my attire like my shoes or my shirt but not the entire attire
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
hi ronnyb, I am the same things with you and I also do not like to be the object of laughter as i really like to be simple not yet elegant that could only be noticeable uniquely. But their is an instances when one does not plan and yet some coincidental happening happen which is not foreseen ahead, like the situation when one go to the party and end up miserable, could not concentrate, because the two of you become the focus of laughter. I would do the same things with you and would replace my dress and to be safe one need to have an extra clothes in case their are duplicate. thanks
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@flower21 (765)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
if that happen to me i think i would return to home to change my clothes. i do not like to be ridicule and even though i am good at carrying myself i would not mingle to enjoy the party when other people are looking at me staring for having the same dress.
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
hi flower21, yup, that the right things to do to avoid embarrassing situation especially if you are shy being the center of attention as the object of laughter is very hurtful feelings that you would like to hide which is very natural as most person want to look unique..thanks
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
of course, if my home is near i would change my clothes then if i am very far i would slightly hide so that it is less noticeable.
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
hi amyson, yup, that the best way to do to avoid embarrassment and be the object of laughter.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
of course, if my home is near i would change my clothes then if i am very far i would slightly hide so that it is less noticeable.
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
hi amyson. yeah, that the right things to do if their are lot of people in the party your dress even if you meet another person with the same dress as yours it would be less noticeable. thanks
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
lol,,this is so funny..if i were on the same situation i would go back to my home and replace my dress s i do not like to be the object of laughter and staring eyes. i am very weak on it and i would instead walk out of the place rather than feel embarrass.
• Philippines
18 Jan 10
hahaha..yeah, and even disgusting when both of you stare at each their eyes of course both of you would get shock or at least embarrass. The reaction maybe to smile or to hurriedly left away from her so that the other people around would not laugh or notice the two of you standing with each other which may be annoying or depending on the two of how you react. You may feel offended or at least ashamed. in other situation they would take it as something to be joke around as long as you know to carried yourself out it would not matter at all. thanks.
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@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
Well, it's going to be a case of "Who wears it better?" No, I am not going to hide but I am going to flaunt and be more visible so people will see who is wearing the dress better. That is more important. So what if she is wearing the same dress as I? Is she more beautiful? Does she look smarter? Did she accessorize properly? All these will make a lot of difference and I am sure that the difference will show.
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
hi cutie, Well, that an optimistic attitude on your side as you see the situation a s a better way for you to improve itself and take it as a challenge rather than a drawback. very confident reply there from you believing on the power of your self. thanks
@janale6 (51)
16 Jan 10
i think i wouldnt go home. it's not like everybody knows me there. and if they noticed, the hell i care.. BUT if our house is really near, then why not change? it depends on the situation. well, it's just a one night party, better stay at the party and have fun. anyway you will forget everything when you're drunk~ ^^
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
hi janalee, Yup, that the attitude aside from it is only a one day occasion it would pass anyway and then you could forget it happen and take it rather as charge to experience as even Holloywood actress have also experience so their is no bitterness at all..thanks
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
19 Jan 10
I would tell the other person that she looked lovely and that she had very good taste. I think the likelihood of dress matching curtains or tablecloth is pretty rare as these days the fabrics are quite different...unless someone cut up their curtains to make a dress. I still think it would be a rare co-incidence.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
19 Jan 10
I have lived this exact situation! Years ago I was to attend a work Christmas Party which was to be held in a posh hotel. I was so looking forward to going and decided to put this dress in lay by I had my eye on; it was too expensive for me but I decided I just had to have for this special night. It took ages to pay it off and I was so excited when I picked it up, took it home and showed it off to my room mate who was equally impressed. When the night of the party arrived I got all dressed up in my new dress and everything was perfect, hair make up, shoes, the lot! I had arranged for a cab to pick me up from mu house with all my friends in it and I could not wait for them to see my new dress until the cab arrived the door opened and there she was...My friend wearing the identical dress! My heart sank and I wanted to cry but I laughed instead, went to the party and my friend and I had our photo taken together...Ouch...I can still feel the disappointment!
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
I'll choose to go home and look for another dress and if I could not find one that can replace it the nearest boutique can surely help me :-)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
hi maharlikah, well done and that is better especially if you have a car you could easily changes fast as you could than being feel humiliated.
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@maiohmai (82)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
Bumping into another with the same dress is alright with me. I would stay and just enjoy the party. On the other hand, if my dress is similar to the table cloth, i would definitely go home and change coz for me that is totally embarrassing. Lol..
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
I hope that won't happen to me but if it doed then maybe i have to go home to change clothes or not attend the party anymore. Actually that is the first thing i consider when buying clothes for a party. That is why i see to it that i buy in boutiques where i think no one from among the invitees go to buy clothes. It is also good to have your favorite dressmaker do your clothes but sometimes RTWs are better.
@kaylachan (58486)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Jan 10
I'm not superfical like that. I know that there is going to be someone out there that has the same cloths I do. It doesn't seem to bother me one little bit what I have on. As long as it fits, its confertable, and I'm not miserable I could care less. So what if I have the same color as a table cloth? I just blend in more. Besides being in a wheelchair makes me stick out like a sore thumb, so I'm used to it. no big deal.
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
hi kaylachan, Well, that the good things as the matter most is you feel comfortable in your own skin. As having the same dress could not be control as purchasing the same clothes have the possibility especially if you purchase in the same shop.
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