Think of the worst things which happen is their good that comes out of it?

I must say that I can relate in what you have written in here. There are times when you feel like you've done everything but still feeling pretty bad in the end despite of all your efforts. I've been in that situation and yes I did feel it was worst. I'm really not into sharing the experience but what I can share is the feeling and the things I've done to rise from that certain situation. There was once in my life that I felt very drained and almost lost all hope despite of all the things I've done. I keep blaming people around me for everything that has happened during those times. It took me too long to realize that all I did was complain and never actually helped myself to rise in that situation. I realized that all the things I thought I have done was to only benefit me and provide or opened up an escape to all the unfortunate events in my life so in the end I've wasted so much time in escaping and not facing my problems. Now I'm moving on with a very positive attitude, dedicating myself to things that would actually help me to rise in a worst situation. The good thing about it was, I learned

I see lot of people undergo worst experiences and they come to get over by it and start a new life again. in my experiences it is not so worst but some failure but not too much to think it is not a burden, while i do believe worst things happen with a purpose God never give it to a person if he do not know to handle it. Everything have a solution out of the bad things come new hope.

It is well-known that when the going get tough, the tough gets going. I am sure what you have been through have made you a better, stronger and wiser person today. Thought the past may be disappointing, at least, one thing, one feel is inspiring. Nothing is impossible. Nothing is permanent. All outcomes are temporary and will go away - good or bad - whether we like it or not.

THere are no worst things happening because for everything bad, there will be something good at the end of it.. haha =D BUt allow oneself to stop at the momentarily of bad, and end up spoiling our mood for the good things to come at the end of it ^_^ Just like, maybe one is unlucky enough not to get to eat their favourite food, missed buses, loss money etc.. BUt, in between there tend to be some things happening, which diverts our attention.. However, we are just too engrossed in crying over spilled milk, that we actually missed out on good stuffs on the way.. haha =D

I guess one of the worst things that happened to me was when Typhoon Ketsana hit our country, the Philippines. We were one of the victims of her wrath, our house and family car were literally submerged in mud and floodwater. We had to move to a neighbor whose house were 2 storeys high. We lost almost everything, not only appliances and furniture, but a lot of photos and memories. What good came out of it? We were all alive -- from my parents who are both in their 60s to my little baby who was going 3 months old that time. I also felt the love of my relatives, and the concern of my friends and colleagues who all went on their way to help us out with what we needed: food, clothes, and some monetary donations. It's been almost 5 months after that happened, and I'm so glad and I thank God that despite losing many material things, my family and I are alive until today.

The good always win over the good things just like good win over evil most of the times. trials and error happen and out of it a hard lesson is learn which is good. makes anyone brave to face life as mightier as it could be. it may be frustrating at first on the end it would eventually overcome.

The worst thing that happened in my life was the time when somebody tried to murder me. I don't want to describe any details, because I try not to remember all details. What good about? I am very humble and calm in most stressful situations in my life. I have realized how precious life can be, and how easy life can be gone. 2/25/10 1:33PM (mylot time)

I have had several bad things happen in my life and still do every now and then. I have had some good things come from some of the bad at times too though. It always leaves me asking why but I never know the answer but just accept it as being the best thing for me.

Its when I broke up with my bf and i come to my senses that he was never worth to be with.

The measure of a man in not how he lives through the good times but how he perseveres through the tough times. I'm not sure who originally first said that but that was the advice that a family friend of mine gave me when I was going through some hard times in my life. Everyone experiences tough times whats most important is how you handle them. To me that meant revisiting who I was. I have found the important thing in life is to stay true to yourself. It is to easy to get caught up in the fast pace of this world and forget who you are and what is important to you.