Who believe that First Love never dies?

Philippines
February 26, 2010 4:33am CST
This seemed to be a common question...Is this have a common answer too? Are you already married? Do you have a partner? Do you have an existing relationship? If yes, could you ever imagine that in your life, that memories of your fist love is still vivid and lingering on your mind? That sometimes your first love appear in your dreams and bother you somehow? Why?
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@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
26 Feb 10
I am committed to a lady, these days and we plan to marry soon. Both of us love each other madly... ;) I can't live without her, to be frank... And yet, both of us have the 'ex' thing to talk about... Sometimes, in the middle of the night, I suddenly remember how it was in my past relationship. It was my first love... They say that these feelings will vanish with time. It has been 2 years since we broke up (my ex and I). I love my fiancee a lot, no doubt. But I still have feelings for the first girl in my life. and it doesn't go away...
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
2 Mar 10
Well... It is a pleasure to get an opportunity to share my feelings with people... I am very thankful to you and to myLot... Happy lotting!!!!
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
I wish you luck bro...
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
Thanks for the sharing bro... I am glad I hear from you... and I am happy with your decision...
• United States
5 Mar 10
My first love will remain with me always. It is the first time I have ever felt this way and the memory of this will remain.I am with my first Real love and I am so happy.
• United States
10 Mar 10
Thanks for the best response.
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
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• Philippines
5 Mar 10
So glad to know that sarah... I think he would be the last too...
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@DeenaD (2684)
• United States
26 Feb 10
I think people remember their early crushes, but more as a bit of childish nostalgia than as a real love. I don't think first love is anything very strong or enduring. I might be wrong, but that's how it is for me.
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
I respect your idea DeenaD. Each one of us have different opinion about it... as what I have said earlier, first love doesn't necessarily mean to be your first relationship with someone... you could define that your feeling right this time is the first love if it is penetrating within... a factor you could make a difference from mere infatuation.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
hi thre primreaque, hmmmm I must say that, it can be true to other but not to all. In my experience, quite true, I had been into 3 relationship before I had my boyfriend now and we are steady for 7 years. Well I could say even if he is not my first boyfriend but he is my true love. those past relationship I had was just infatuation I can say, when we broke up at first It hurts but I recover very fast and go on with my life again and I think my past is not true love because I easily given up to those relationships..hmmmmm.. have a great and loving day to you..
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
(My apology, I want to attend to your responses on the very second I received them but my connection is running so slow this time) Hi dorothy09, may I take note of your answer? Well I have to... The word is infatuation, in my own point of view, first love means true love... the love that does penetrate inside. Hence, first love is not necessarily your first relationship with someone... it could the second, or the third... And I do like your answer, you are very entitled to it...
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
We are always welcome my friend... There are lot of people I know who believe on that. One of them are me and you... Anyway, your boyfriend now is very lucky... I am sure of that! He owns your heart...
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
hi there primeaque, thank you for liking my answer..agree with you that first relationship means your true love..
• China
27 Feb 10
Everything depends,I think,I have a lot of relationships,I even don't remember how my first girl friend looks like,it was a long time ago,I think maybe because that is just crush,but I lost my virgin that time,I was so reget now:)- Maybe girls are a little different from man,I don't know.b
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
hahaha, you lost it? hahaha, I like you man, you sound the same with my cousin, he don't want to lost that if not for his right girl... that is what he told me...
• United States
26 Feb 10
Everything depends, but for my experience, the first love does die, right now I am engage with a wonderful man, and I don't even remember my first love, I don't even think about him, i don't have any contact with him, because I am just not interested, my fiance is all what i have always wanted in a man, and we love each other with intensity. But i do know that for other people the first love never die, I think all depends of how you closed that chapter in your life, if there was unsolved business, there would always be an open door.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
26 Feb 10
Yea I am married and I love my hubby very very much but my first love who was and still is my soulmate is still very much on my mind..when I think abotu him or whatever though it doesnt bother me, provided I htink about the good stuff of course...
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
May I take note of that: You are married Believe in first love... That this would not die... even you have loved somebody else... And that fact never bother you... May I ask you again, have you ever meet that soul-mate again now that you are married? Have you talk?
@airakumar (1553)
• India
26 Feb 10
Yes, I am married but I can definitely say that this post is interesting!! Well I don't know just about first love, but I think that if you really love someone then you will never stop loving them. You may not have as strong a connection as you did before but I think that there will always be part of you that cares enough to have love. First love is difficult to get over and it's true that first cut is the deepest, but it is very difficult to forget, even if it was indeed very true. I think the first love never ever gone out of your life just cuz its name is''first love''. This is just a view. May be your view is different. Most of you move on but that feeling is always there and very special.
@reneezoso (392)
• India
26 Feb 10
well first love is wat is wat u called the natural of love wid no addtivies or anything .. its come straight from the heart .... First love last forever...even u break up it stays with you till generations to come.... u cant run away nor hide from your first love.... its has a lasting effecT :)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
natural, no additives--first love, well this new today I know you are very well-versed in terms of love my friend... those are great definitions of first love reneezoso... If that is then, what would be the right definition of our love for our existing partner today that may sounds different from our first love?
• India
26 Feb 10
Yes i do believe that 1st love never die because now i'm not with my 1st love but yes i do love him now because i love him a lot and will love him forever.
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
Hi my friend, May I raise another question, it just intrigue me, are you married with someone else now?