life is full of secrets

March 14, 2010 1:08am CST
Life is full of secrets,thoughts,memories and feelings that we keep to ourselves.It is these carefully kept secrets that can do us much harm. They can make us feel guilty or ashamed and may lead us self-rejection, depression and even suicidal thoughts and action. Therefore it is better that we share and express our secrets to atleast to those people whom we trust and believe. When we have a good way to bring our secrets into the light and can look at them with others,we will quickly discover that we are not alone with our secrets and that our trusting friends will love us more deeply and more intimately than before.Bringing our secrets into the light creates community and inner healing. As a result of sharing secrets, not only will others love us better but we will love ourselves more fully.
2 responses
• Malaysia
17 Mar 10
well, camylo, life is full of secrets. once told, there is no more secrets. we do and act many things in life and we share with our family members, schoolmates, friends and colleagues our family doctors our deepest fear, our greatest joy, our dreams and ambition. at the end of the day, i dont have a secret left as all these so called secrets are shared with many groups of people. that is me in a nutshell.
• India
18 Mar 10
That's the spirit, keep it up. But my advice to you is that in life atleast keep some secrets. If not, atlest one or two for a start
• Malaysia
19 Mar 10
okay, camylo, your reasons are good. i have to think what i want to do that i will keep as a secret in this world on earth. yes, i look into it and see how sucessful i can be.thanks and have a good day.
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• Indonesia
14 Mar 10
I think I am type of person who can't keep my own secrets. I tend to share my secret to others, of course I choose the trusted one. why I did this cos I feel so hard in my head and my heart if I can't share my problem or secret to others. I need their suggestion, cos sometimes it helped me much to solve my problem. I have a principal by talking to people (the trusted one), I have lost half of my problem. hehe.
• India
18 Mar 10
I like your attitude, it is the right one. My advice to you is keep trusting the right people to share your secrets and your problems will be lighter, if not solved.