This Is A Rant!!

@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
United States
March 18, 2010 4:12pm CST
I'm am so outdone w/my doctor, his nurse & what can i do about it? NOTHING!! I went to the dr. last fri. & he thinks i may have diabetes. Of course i have worried myself to death about this. Yesterday i get a letter on my blood work from the lab. Now do y'all know what the hell all those things mean on a lad report. I sure don't. I called the dr.'s office yesterday trying to find out if i do have diabetes or i don't. Do u think they have returned my call, WELL NO they haven't. On the recoding i got it said they would return my call within 24-48 hours. Good grief, if i was something serious u could croak w/in that many hours. Would y'all be upset about this???
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@marguicha (215711)
• Chile
18 Mar 10
Jo, could you write down what the lab report says? I can check that out with my doctor friends. I can have the answer in 3 hours. Besides, I know a lot of that as my hubby had diabetes for some years. Anyway, I want to tell you that the kind of diabetes people our age get can be easily controlled with a diet (not terrible) and pills. So relax. I often think that public health services everywhere behave as though the patient is the enemy they have to torture.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
18 Mar 10
HI MARG, thanks for your offer but there are 2 pages od the report. Wish i had a scanner so i could send them tou. I will admit i have worked myself up into a tizzy. Waiting on anything drives me nuts to start with. I would really like to know what all this mumbo jumbo means. the dr. could have at least said you do or u don't. what a jerk. Health care leaves alot to be desired here for sure. Thanks for your concern. hugs. jo
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@GardenGerty (157650)
• United States
19 Mar 10
If you see a place that says anything like A1C send her that info. And a blood glucose level or any thing that looks similar to that. Those would be your two primary things for diabetes.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Thanks GG, i do see that aic. i'll give it to her. Appreciate u helping.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
18 Mar 10
I sure would. if you have diabetes you need help as soon as possible to control it. i know what you mean. they just dont seem to care that its your life they are playing around with. i had to go yesterday and get blood work and i was just thinking this morning how i dont seem to get any report back myself. i will have to wait for the doc to say something about it. its all so scarey how non chalant they are getting with us.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
18 Mar 10
tHANKS FOR RESPONDING, bON.I have worked myself up w/this till i'm a wreck. I have waited since last friday when they did the blood work & then they send me a paper through the mail that is greek to me. I can not believe they haven't called me back since yesterday & don't look like i'm going to hear from them today either. i imagine they are gone for the day.)(&%#%&^
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
19 Mar 10
yes, they are probably gone for the weekend as they have no worries about it all. the only thing i can think to do is tell you to not worry to much, as stress will often bring on sickness. take it from someone that knows ive done this so many times. i would say if its really bad they would have let you know by a call or something. so its probably not as bad as you think. maybe you just have the hyperglycemia like me. thats not so bad. when i feel faint i just take a little honey in my coffee or something. or have a few sips of coke. just make sure you dont go without eating a little of something nutritious at least 3 times a day. my doctor told me several small meals or snacks a day is better then big meals. im also a big worrier, but i try just to do something to get my mind off of things. something i enjoy.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
2 Apr 10
Thanks bon, U are a sweetie. Have a great weekend. hugs.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
19 Mar 10
I think that most doctors in this country have very bad attitude towards patients, all they care about now is money and "business", not people. It used to be different years ago when doctor was a doctor not a "businessman"... Hope you are not going to be charge for doctor time when he is going to call you back. HUGS
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
GOOD MORNING, Thanks for your response. U are sooo right, they use to be a whole lot different & have a liottle compassion to. He might be told where to stick that charge. right now he is on my list & it's not my christmas list.
@BarBaraPrz (45568)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
18 Mar 10
Why would the lab send the results to you directly, instead of to your doctor?
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@BarBaraPrz (45568)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
18 Mar 10
So the letter was from your doctor? Why didn't the office just call you instead of sending a letter? Or at least make sure it was legible.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
It was a copy of the lab report which i couldn't make heads or tails of. good question, wish they had caalled me. That's what they should have done.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
18 Mar 10
I didn't say they did, did i?? i assume he got it first because he had scribbled something on there that i could not make out his handwriting.
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@Chevee (5905)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Hi Anti. I hope you are dealing with this by now. In my walk with God I have learned that you speak things into being, believe in your heart that you do not have diabetes. Worry is the cheif weapon of Satan's Warfare. Pray make your request known to God praise Him for the answer. Then He will give you peace. I will be praying for you, that you do not have diabetes. Do some research on this because it can be prevented. God Bless U.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Thanks chevee, i don't usually pray for anything for myself but have been this last week. I appreciate your prayers to. I just wish i could find out whether i do or don't. That's driving me nuts. I have always been a worry wart. Guess the old devil has been after me all my life. Thanks for responding.
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@drkraven (521)
• Romania
18 Mar 10
more or less :) depends where you live and the type of services you expect. I live in a crap country and i m very used to this sort of things :) But you don t sound like you live in a crap country :))
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
18 Mar 10
i'm sorry u feel that way about your country. I live in the u.s.a but where u live shoudn't have anything to do w/their attitude but maybe it does. Thanks for responding.
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
19 Mar 10
i will also feel very nervous and scared if i were in your position and i don't think i can wait 24-48 hours to know about my results... i'm so sorry that you have to endure something like this from your doctor... i hope everything is well and nothing is wrong with your blood test results... just make sure that you take care of yourself and don't eat any sweet thing until you see your doctor again... just in case... take care and have a nice day...
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
tHANKS SO MUCH FOR YOUR SWEET RESPONSE. I will admit it has really stressed me out & i still don't know. I have put another call into the dr. this morn. Thanks again for the kind words.Hope u have a great weekend.
@GardenGerty (157650)
• United States
19 Mar 10
You are fortunate they grace you with a copy of your own information. Maybe your pharmacist could help you read what the doctor wrote on it, as the pharmacist gets used to reading poor writing from the doctor. Look for things like I told you up by Marguicha, to find out about the diabetes. I know those things are hard to read, but my doctor always sent them to me, and I liked that, because line by line I can eventually figure it out. I will admit that I have some medical background, and that is useful, and I have some books on hand that I can read to help as well.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
i'm sure having a medical background would help. it all looked like greek to me, lol. Thanks for responding.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
Of course I too would be upset if given the same situation. I mean waiting too long just to confirm something that really bothers you is difficult and noticing the lack of concern on others would add some more burden. Who would want to have diabetes, not you, neither I, nor anyone? So if the the doctor gave you the probability that you have this illness then I would not be surprised if it caused you anxieties. But the doctor's office is just too inefficient. They did not care at all! How sad to note how lax they have been in an issue that caused you a great deal of worries. My dear I just pray that your blood test will be negative for that illness! It would be quite tough if you really have that.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Thanks for responding & your concern. It's been quite nerve rackin waiting to hear & haven't heard yet. Doctors just don't seem to give a hoot anymore. Sewems like all they are concerned w/is charging u big bucks. He could have waited till he got the tests back to even mention it to me. I am a worry wart anyway. Thanks again. hugs, jo
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@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
19 Mar 10
I agree. That kind of response is reprehensible. It is as bad as the military. When I call for a renewal on one of my prescriptions, they will do it - at their leisure, but they will not call me back to let me know that it has been done or at which pharmacy I'm supposed to pick it up. There are only a half dozen military pharmacies where I might up a prescription that range from 2 miles to 40 miles from my house.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
GOOD MORNING, thanks for responding. That is ridiculous to. Sometimes i don't think many people take their jobs seriosly. I bet if they had to do w/out one they would have wished they had done better. Alot of imcomptent people in the work force anymore. I had to do a good job when i worked i had to raise 2 boys by myself & pay the bills.
@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Yes, I would be upset, too. I don't blame you for being so worried. I hope I don't come across like I'm telling you what to do, but if it were me, I would call them if I don't hear from them once this length of time is up. That is, if you don't hear from them. I never have seen a report like this and I doubt if I would understand what it means, either. I hope the news is good and that you don't have diabetes. Please keep us informed. Kathy.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
tHANKS FOR YOUR RESPONSE, KATHY. NEVER did hear from them today but they will hear from me tomorrow. I appreciate your concern. hugs. jo
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
19 Mar 10
Waiting for a doctor to call back is like waiting for hell to freeze over. In 24 to 48 hours yes someone could croak. My parents have gone through this type of treatment too. I truly believe that once you get to a certain age they don't really care about you and you are like a second class citizen. I get so angry when I hear the horror stories that my parents have gone thru. I can't be there for them since we live so far away from each other. My dad found out last November that he had diabetes and of course he was very upset. You probably don't have diabetes because if you did I think they would have called you to tell you. I hope and pray you don't have it but if you do it can be rectified by eating the right foods and exercise. My father who is 75 years old is exercising with the Wii every other day to help him lose weight and keep the bones and muscles strong. Good luck to you!
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
20 Mar 10
tHANKS Lelin, i never did get any news at all.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Thanks for responding, Lelin. I have just about made myself sick over this. I will have an answer today if hell does freexe over so be it.. i don't know anything about reading a lab report. He should have had me come back in & explained it to me & told me wheter i do have it or i don't. I'm totally disgusted w/him 7 IF THERE WAS SOMEONE TO GO TO BESIDES HIM I WOULD. dON'T THINK ALOT OF ANY OUR DOCTORS HERE. Hope u have a great weekend.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
20 Mar 10
I hope you get good knews and you too have a great weekend.
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@mimiang (3760)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
Well, don't worry much. If it is not severe, if you have diabetes, just go on diet and do lifestyle modification such as exercise. If it is fasting blood sugar, the normal is 80 to 120 mg/dl.
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• Canada
19 Mar 10
OMG, I find it amazing that you would over "cyber" give medical advice, that there is NO basis to give..!!! She blatantly explained it was not a "fasting" example...so the levels you are giving has no consequence. I just ask that Medical Advice, without knowing the person/history should NOT be expounded. YES, she has a right to be stressed...she would like results, from a Professional Medic. I am a retired Paramedic, and would NOT under any circumstance offer ONLINE advice. Take care...and Cheers!
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Easy for u to say. Are u in the medical field, sounds like it. thanks for your response.
• Canada
19 Mar 10
I have also been told I might have diabetes, but turns out I didn't, he didn't get back to me in like 2 weeks because he was "busy"
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
What jerks they can be. I'm so glad u didn't have it but know the weeks was trying on u. one week has about done me in.they just don't take their jobs seriouly anymore like so many people nowadays. Thanks for responding & welcome to mylot.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
19 Mar 10
Doctors have been and are still known to be impatient, perfunctory and insensitive to the needs of sick people. While there is no doubt that many doctors have long queues of patients and are very busy, this does not warrant cursory attention given to the patients. Patients expect sympathy, a listening ear, understanding and advice. The best option I think is to seek a second opinion from another doctor.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Thanks for your response. I have decided he is a pompous a$$ along w/the rest of them in town. We are really hurting for good doctors here. I'd have to go out of town to get a 2nd opinion & that's something i don't do much anymore.
@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
19 Mar 10
GOSH, dearest Lady...you are so right, things can change that fast!!! iF BY now you hve NO results...please GO TO ER! I will talk to you privately...but I need you to seek a higher form of Medical sources...NOW! Maybe some peace...Geriactric Onset Diabetes is a milder form, with milder medication and often food controlled. I promise to call you today..in the meantime take care..LUV & HUGZ!
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• Canada
19 Mar 10
Oh my Gosh, I think Canadian money is almost at par...I will make bail for you....PLEASE, stress is NOT helping...and I won't call til after 6...Love you, mean time take lots of care! LUV & HUGZ!
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Thanks dear for ur advice. I SURE DON'T WANT TO GO OUT HERE TO OUR QUACKY ER. i'M NOT SICK OTHER THAN I HAVE MADE MYSELF SICK STRESSING OVER THIS. i PUT ANOTHER CALL IN TO THE DR'S OFFICE THIS MORN BUT STILL HAVEN'T HEARD FROM THEM. All i want to know is to do i have it or not. Haven't been to get the meds he called in because i was afraid i would miss his call, the jerk. Have stayed off the phonr so i wouldn't miss his calls. Be glad to talk to u but if u would don't call till after six in case i haven't heard by then. I'll let u know if i hear earlier. know t.j. is coming so u need to spend all your time w/him & not worry about me. If u hear about a little short, fat woman getting arrested from tennessee because she attacked her dr. it will be me.. I am totally ticked off w/him .love & hugs.
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Mar 10
I would hope that if it were serious, they would have called. Still I don't blame you for being worried or upset. I hope you have heard back by now and don't have to wait until Monday.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Mar 10
Well that's annoying! And now it's Friday and you have to wait until at least Monday. I'd be grrrrd too!
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
20 Mar 10
BELIEVE ME I'M PASS GRRRRRR, THE JERKS.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Thanks Dawn, I never did hear back from them. Maybe that's a good thing but i still think it extremely tacky they never returned mycalls. My son even called out there this afternoon but that did no good either. We are hurting for dr.'s here but i guess everyone is everywhere. They sure don't act like they use to.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
20 Mar 10
I would be mad. Anytime a test like that is given, I think they should at least have the decency to call the patient and let them know yay or nay. They have to realize that people are worried about their results.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
20 Mar 10
morning jen, i am mad. they never did call me. my son even called out there yesterday afternoon & that did no good either. needless to say they are on my list & it's not my christmas list either. thanks for responding. HAPPY WEEKEND.
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
19 Mar 10
I would definitely be upset about that. I dislike doctors very much and do not trust them. There are plenty of ways to cure high blood sugar and Diabetes naturally. Do not think that Insulin injections or tablets are the only way. The doctors may only tell you of these methods, but I know of people who have gotten off insulin, just by changing their diets. You can check out some of the links on my profile as they are a great source of natural health information and there is a diabetes one there, or also these links below. http://www.treeoflife.nu/home-index/ http://www.rawfamily.com/ I hope that this info can help you.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Thanks so much for your kind response & for all the good info u sent. Would u believe the dr.'s office never did call me back. My son called when he came by & that was twice today they had been called to no avail. Hope u have a great weekend.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
2 Apr 10
Thanks dear. they never did call back. Parents can be a pain sometimes just ask my sons. lol
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
21 Mar 10
I did have a great weekend thanks, Monday morning here and back into it now! My parents are going through a similar thing to you and we have been helping them to change their diets, but they believe everything that doctors tell them and are not that willing to listen to tried and true natural remedies that have worked for thousands of years. It is frustrating and I hope they will eventually see the light. I hope the doctors get back to you soon.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
Some hospitals do work that way. Patients just die because of wrong protocol. It's not their life, after all, so why worry?
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Thanks for your response.I think it's a pitaful situation for them to act the way they do. Have agreat weekend