Do you know anyone who is too dangerous to be on the roads but still drives?

@pandaeyes (2065)
March 22, 2010 8:02am CST
Years ago I had a colleague at work who could hardly see. He would drive past the company at lunch time and someone would usually comment on the new dent in his car. I thought they were joking at first but it wasn't long before I realised, this man was always bumping into things even if he was on foot. He continued to drive for years after this. Once or twice I had to get a lift from him to collect things for work. It was a heart in my mouth feeling to be the passenger in his car. Thankfully, no one was ever hurt by his driving but I don't know why not,it was inevitable in my mind that someone would be. My own uncle was one eyed and only partially sighted in the other one. He drove a car too and was often yelled at to stop by my Aunty who had seen a danger he had not noticed. Do you know any drivers who are so dangerous they shouldn't be allowed?
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22 Mar 10
Unfortunately one of my neighbours is in this category. He's a lovely old man, very sweet natured and friendly BUT when he gets into his car ......... He has backed into a garden wall, driven into a lamp post, and we've lost count of the number of times he's mounted the pavement when turning into his drive. He has a few dents in his garage door and although his daughter has frequently said that he shouldn't be driving anymore, she cannot seem to stop him short of hiding his car keys. I know he would be very upset if he couldn't drive himself anywhere, but I think the time has come when he should hang up the car keys.
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@pandaeyes (2065)
22 Mar 10
Ah ! Poor old thing. I suppose it is a big piece of independence gone if you must rely on someone else to drive you though. I expect you make sure your vehicles are well clear of him.
• United States
23 Mar 10
It's sad, but I can understand many people wanting to be independent. I will have to renew my license soon because I'm tired of waiting for others. You order a taxi (cab) and they tell you it'll be fifteen minutes and you wait an hour. It's the same for loved ones. You ask a sister or brother to give you a ride. They tell you they'll come. You wait and they never show up and don't call to tell you they're not coming. Or they come earlier than they say and get mad at you for not being ready. One reason you're not ready is because you prepare for the time they're supposed to show up, and you're dirty by the time they finally show up. You can't win.
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@pandaeyes (2065)
23 Mar 10
Yes that is why most people start driving in the first place I think. I took three goes to pass my test but if I hadn't ,we couldn't have chosen which school the kids went to and I would have either had to walk to the shops or wait for my husband to take me. Independence is very important.
• United States
23 Mar 10
not presently..but we used to beg my 94 year old cousin to stop driving.she was one of those old ladies that barely can be seen over the steering wheel? vision impaired,drove real slow.. she broke her hip several times as she got older,and the last time we asked her how she got home.."well,i drove of course"....oy..
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• United States
3 Apr 10
i wouldn't doubt if she caused a few.it seemed some days she was barely rolling.
@pandaeyes (2065)
23 Mar 10
Wow she must have been a very tough person. I think when we were young children ,there weren't so many elderly female drivers around as most women who were married relied on their husband to drive. Now ,everyone seems able to drive and that means that extremely elderly ladies have cars . I saw a very old lady out driving a few weeks back and being very slow and careful. Hubby says that sometimes that causes accidents because other drivers get frustrated and make foolish impulsive decisions out of exasperation.
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@mikeysmom (2088)
• United States
23 Mar 10
the guy that lives next door to me is old and should most likely not be driving. he has difficulty just backing out of his driveway so we all steer clear! it isn't funny in my opinion, though because i think he doesn't even realize how impaired his driving skills are.
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@pandaeyes (2065)
23 Mar 10
We have someone a bit like that.She doesn't live here but comes down to visit her mum and is in a major panic if she cant find a parking space. I don't know if you get retested where you are once you reach 80,they do here and if they think you are not safe,you cant drive anymore.
• China
23 Mar 10
my little uncle used to drive a motorbike although all of us don't think he fits that.thankfully,he is very well so far.
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@pandaeyes (2065)
23 Mar 10
That's good that he has remained safe. Motorcycles are so vulnerable even for the safest riders.
23 Mar 10
I don't know about drivers but I know that I can't safely walk on my own outside! I'm only 32 but fell over on Sunday just getting up a kerb! I reckon drivers should be tested annually when they collect their pension and they should have a sight, reaction and hearing test as well! I realise that many drivers would be frustrated at this idea, but I'm thinking it's for everyone's safety is all!
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@pandaeyes (2065)
23 Mar 10
I think in the UK you have to have a letter form your doctor to say you are still able to manage at 80 years old and if it is unlikely, they will do a test. Not sure if it is automatic. My father in law was mostly alright with driving after 70 but managed to trip over the kerb and break his hip just out walking.
• China
23 Mar 10
I think people who like drinking are most dangerous on the road after drunk. Last summer a family was gone in a traffic accident when they were taking a walk on street after dinner.And the troublemaker was a drunk guy.Unfortunately,the young wife was pregnant.A new life was killed and even had no chance to see the wounderful world.In my place,There are a lot of traffic accidents which are caused by drunk people.Everyday the sad things happen here.
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@pandaeyes (2065)
23 Mar 10
Drunk people often cant tell how out of control they are. They are oblivious to the waving about as they drive or even walk. Everything slows down, even their awareness of themselves so in their eyes, they are perfectly safe. Of course we can see that they aren't but we are on the outside looking in.
@ibuemma (2953)
• United States
22 Mar 10
I have one here. He's a very old man. If I can take a guess he's over 80. He has this old station wagon. The thing is he wear this really thick glasses, and actually we suspect that he's kind of blind already and definitely deaf. You have to yell when you start conversation with him. He is still constantly driving. But he drive soooooo slow...believe me you'll get to the store faster if you just walk, not run! Everytime he drives, there's a long lines behind him. If you know him, you won't honk, probably just try to around him and pass him. But if you just passing the road near my house and get stuck behind him, you might probably cursing and honking... The police pull him over so many times, but he's pretty stubborn.
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@pandaeyes (2065)
22 Mar 10
In the UK they can take your license once you are over 80 if you are deemed dangerous. I think it is sad that someone should lose their license but at the same time, no one wants to be put in danger because of him. It isn't even the fact that he might run you over, it is the impatient people who end up forcing their way past him and causing an accident as a result.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
22 Mar 10
I don't know any dangerous drivers. My dad is 89 and just stopped driving because he's on medications that can compromise his reactions. He did it voluntarily even though he reacts like a young man when he is driving and sees just fine. I think that after you reach 65 you should be tested every year to keep your driver's license. You should have to take and eye and hearing test and also a road test on a course that that has hazards like mechanical kids running out in the road. There are too many old people driving who should not be doing so. I'm 55 and I have noticed myself slowing down. I think that by the time I'm 65 I'll probably be done with driving and if not then, by 70. I know my eyes aren't what they once were and I don't want to hurt anyone.
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@pandaeyes (2065)
22 Mar 10
One of the mums up at the school when the kids went to the infants was quite dangerous. She also had thick glasses but wasn't old at all. Once at work we had a lift to the railway by one of the other workers, he had quite strong glasses too. He gave 4 of us a lift and we had to go through the town. On one corner we so nearly hit a bus that everyone stopped talking and just looked stunned ,all except the driver who chattered on oblivious LOL
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
22 Mar 10
My father in law, he should really have his license taken from him. He is getting so bad I will not allow my kids to ride in the car with him. He gets lost going the shortest distances, he can hardly hear, but won't get a hearing aide. He drives 45 miles per hour, no matter what the speed limit is. He has had several wrecks in the last few years, I am very surprised that he can still get insurance.
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@pandaeyes (2065)
23 Mar 10
My father in law was always saying he couldn't hear too and he also refused a hearing aid so I know how frustrating that can be to try to talk to him. Once at work, someone was asked to pick me up from the railway station and I thought, if it is P(the dangerous guy in my discussion post at the top) I will hide rather than get in the car with him.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
22 Mar 10
Well, I don't think I personally know anyone who is like this. However, I can just step outside and look at the cars going down the road. You wonder how exactly how some of those people managed to get their license. I mean, maybe they just magically became insane once they got their license and thought gave them the right to drive any way of what they pleased. I just cringe at some of these people as they go down the street right across my house. I know I cringe whenever I have to drive, as there is a chance I could encounter one of these crazy drivers. Of course, even if I walk, I have to be careful. I nearly got taken out once and the person honked at me, like it was my fault that I nearly got ran over despite being a defensive pedestrian. There have been a few accidents on this street, thankfully none involving me. No causalities thankfully, but there have been some close calls. And also my mailbox got wiped out at least twice by insane drivers. So there are countless people out there that should not be allowed even to look at a car, much less drive it.
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@pandaeyes (2065)
22 Mar 10
I don't know what the driving test is like where you live. In the UK it is quit strict, being all about control of the vehicle and knowing the rules of the road. It took me three tries to pass. Some people are just able to pass because on the day of the test, they have a lucky time and everything falls into place for once, then they go back to their regular reckless ways. One of the juniors at work was 17, he had been driving for hardly any time but illegally without a driver beside him. On the day of his test, he had a friend sit beside him till he got to the test center. He passed the test and that was it, he was legal. It was only a matter of weeks an he had written his car off in an accident.
@RobtheRock (2433)
• United States
23 Mar 10
I know this guy who knows he shouldn't drive, especially at night. He has a medical condition but must get around somehow. Back in the day, he would slouch down in his car, real cool like, and drive his big long car down the street like cool dudes do. But now he's gotten older and because of his condition, he has poor eyesite. What makes things worse is now he drives fast in his big car. Thankfully, he has good reflexes and hasn't gotten into any accidents. I've rode with him too many times and one of the last times I was with him, he almost drove onto the sidewalk. "I said, 'Whoa!' " Now when he asks me if I want to ride with him, I tell him I'm busy.
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@pandaeyes (2065)
23 Mar 10
My work manager would sometimes give us lifts home at night if we worked very late. He would drive like a mad man, 70 miles an hour in the 30MPH areas . My heart was in my mouth most of the time. Really I think riding home on my bike would have been preferable but he was insistent. These days I would most likely just refuse politely but back then it wasn't so easy.
22 Mar 10
This can be such a tricky situation. My friend's father was a keen driver but, unfortunately, he had a stroke. His licence was revoked for good reasons. He hated not being able to drive and then one day, without his wife's knowledge, went to the doctor and asked if he would certify him fit enough to reapply for his licence. The doctor, amazingly, did just that. The man's wife was furious because he was in no fit state to drive. Anyway, he got his licence back and started to drive again. He then had two accidents in a week, luckily nothing serious, but it made him realise that he wasn't yet fit enough to drive.
@pandaeyes (2065)
23 Mar 10
That's the problem with strokes, they don't give the sufferer any indication of how capable they are. Everyone else sees it, but the recovering person can't understand everyone else's reticence about things. I guess it needed him to have proof before the could accept it.
@ramp123 (191)
• India
22 Mar 10
My dad is like that. He's over 80, has had cataract surgery in both eyes, so his vision is kind of OK, though not great. Basically, he used to be a pretty good driver, but his reflexes have slowed down a lot and he does not realize this. So he ends up honking, braking hard, and all sorts of jerky movements. Just last week, he got into a minor scrape, dents to both cars, and a shouting match in the middle of the road. Although he will never admit it, this has thrown a scare into him, thank goodness. My brother and I have now convinced him to hire a driver. All's well that ends well.
@pandaeyes (2065)
22 Mar 10
wow he does sound a bit dangerous. It sounds like mostly it is old people so I suppose reflexes slow down and eyesight is not so good any more.