Do I know you? ummmm... I don't think so

@34momma (13882)
United States
March 31, 2010 8:13pm CST
Do you have people on facebook asking you to be friends and you have no idea who they are? I get at least 5 to 10 people a day asking me to be friend. I am always ignoring them. When you get people you don't know asking to be your friend, do you accept? Or do you ignore those you don't know.
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11 responses
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
I would definitely ignore. I think some people do that just to have more neighbors in the facebook applications. LOL. But since I don't play any of them anymore, then I don't need friends that I don't know. Even if sometimes we have friends in common, I would still ignore their invitation if I don't really know them or I just know them by name.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
1 Apr 10
i only use the poker app. on facebook and i only have two friends who i play poker with on my facebook friends list. i have them as poker friends yes, but as facebook friends, nope.
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
Yeah, I get your point, but there are some who asks me to be their friend to have more neighbors in farmville or pet society. LOL. I don't understand why they would want to sacrify their privacy to have more playmates. Hahahaha.
@tessah (6617)
• United States
1 Apr 10
it really depends on their profiles. alot of people look for friends there to meet people.. it IS a social network afterall. if theres someone i have things in common with.. i accept the invite and get to know them better and maybe make a new friend.. if there isnt.. i dont.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
1 Apr 10
i just got a friend request this very moment from a woman i don't know and i totally ignored it!! LOL
@SViswan (12051)
• India
1 Apr 10
I don't get theese friend requests regularly. But when I do, I usually ignore them. If they have a name that rings a bell but I'm not sure, I send a message asking how they know me. If the answer is that they came across my name somewhere and that they do not know me, I apologize and say that I do not add people I do not know and ignore them after that. There is one person I have added though...we met while playing scrabble...but he's pretty quiet and I'm thinking of deleting him.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
1 Apr 10
i try to do that too, send a message. cause sometimes not often, but sometimes it's someone i know from HS that i totally forgot, or someone i grew up with. but for those i know i just don't know... i love to hit the ignore button
• Canada
1 Apr 10
This doesn't happen to me that often. Most of the people I'm connected to that I don't already know personally, are friends of mine from over on Gather, and a couple from on here. They are connected to other people on Gather that I know, and that's how we find eachother on Facebook. When I get an un-familliar-looking friend request I go through their friends, and see how they could ahve found me.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
1 Apr 10
most people find you from other people you know. but that doesn't mean you know them. i have a few of my good mylot freinds on my facebook account. and thank goodness cause boy do they make my laugh all day long!! i love my mylot/facebook friends!
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
Hello 34momma, I have receive several invites from people who I don't know. I just let it sit there and do not accept or ignore them for a long time. But after looking for common friends,I finally accept their request,anyway,I can choose what details to share with them before posting it. And I think they will be good neighbors to my games. Take care andhave funposting - red_amethyst
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
1 Apr 10
i never really thought of twicking my profile so some people can't see everything. that might be a good idea. but for the most part i just rather not accept those people i don't know.
@NoSides (66)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 10
Well, I don't really mind to accept them if I do have a lot of free time. But for me, getting to know people is one reason I joined facebook. So, why not??
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
1 Apr 10
i didnt' join facebook to meet people. i joined to contect with peoople i already knew. to find old friends and such
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
18 Jul 10
I actually do a little bit of both. I've ignored some as well as accepted others that I don't know. With a couple of requests that I did accept apparently they had gone to the same school as I did around the same time that I did. As I like to find old classmates I figured it might help in finding any that I might be looking for. As for the ones I ignored, well, not only did I not know them, they didn't even go to the same schools that I did. So, I didn't bother to add them as there wasn't any real reason to do so. Happy mylotting!
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
1 Apr 10
I''m probably NOT the right person to be asking as I don't do Facebook. I've heard of too many problems there to be interested. As for getting back in touch with old friends, there are many ways to do that!!! I didn't really care for most of the kids I went to school with. Those I did like, I've kept in touch with them over the years...originally via snail mail & now via email. I don't feel the need to announce to the world what I'm doing with my life. The emails are record enough. When I need to share pics, it only takes one email to contact everybody who might care. I saw on the news where a woman in Indiana had added an old boyfriend from high school to her page. She commented the other night that she was going to a concert & would check back in when she returned home. Fortunately, she had a nanny cam going in her home. Yes, the old boyfriend & a new friend of his broke into her home & took a lot of her electronic possessions. They've not been caught yet. She hadn't thought that a buddy from high school was casing her home & her Facebook page. My point...just because you knew & trusted someone in high school, it doesn't mean they are trustworthy now. So, I don't think you should trust those you think you know any more than those you don't know at all. I have seen people tell personal information on themselves that their Mother doesn't even know. I don't want to be tempted to be one of those people!!!
@phyrre (2317)
• United States
1 Apr 10
I usually don't get too many friend requests from people I don't know on Facebook. I try to be very low-key and only be active with people that I know, so most people that I'm friends with are people that I've grown up with or family. I've only had a couple requests from people that I don't know and I always refuse those because I don't want random people getting any information I have up, even though I really don't have any information that would be bad if anyone got ahold of on my facebook, either. xD
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
1 Apr 10
i am like you. i honestly want to be friends with people i know. i try to only go on there to have fun and enjoy my time with friends and family. i don't like to put to much of my personal business out there for all to know. so i really don't want to be friends with strangers who will know the little bit of personal stuff i do put on there
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
I have lots of those people. But it seems that they just add you by random. Me I don't add people I don't know and people even I know but not closed too. I even have three facebook account. And I add one for family only. two for friends, and three for people I just meet or friends online only. In that way I can keep my privacy.
• India
2 Apr 10
Whenever I receive a request from an unknown person on face book or on any other social networking site, I check their credentials. I look at their page just to know what kind of person he is. If I find him to be a sort of person I dislike, then I would simply ignore him or her. Sometime they leave messages that they have seen my profile and they are interested in my, such people usually are spammers. They are seeking your friendship for some ulterior motive. The need your particulars for creating a duplicate id or for sending you some promotional mails that would flood your mailbox with unwanted mails. Sometimes they want to use you as a referral for some moneymaking website. Gays and homosexuals also see company of likeminded people. Usually, the messages at their page or the photos at their page reveal a lot about the person. You can know them by the type of friends they keep. If there is slightest doubt then it is best to ignore them.