why are girls so complicated?

United States
April 12, 2010 1:41am CST
mylots girls yes you know what i am talking about how they want this and then they want that and then they dont want it anymore. Take me for instant my girlfriend wanted me so badly now she doesn't but i swear she will want me again in like a few days. Just saying girls why are you so complicated to men do you like being mysterious or something WHY?
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31 responses
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
not all girls are complicated you know... but for the sake of answering your question, girls(well mostly) are complicated because we are girls!we are somehow entitled to be complicated and yes sometimes it a pain in the as*. And it is also related with horomonal changes. You know, girls have these hormones going up and down our system every month. this hormonal changes can affect our mood and so so... sometimes we don not intend to be complicated... and have you heard that girls are vulnerable (even the strongest girls there is)? yes we are, and we know about it, and sometimes knowing about it is just the problem because that way we raise our defense against our fear. have you noticed how many times i mention the word "sometimes"? a lot right? because that word will remind you that yes it doesn't happen all the time and you just have to understand, and eventually when everything is going smooth and calm again, talk to your girl and tell her how you feel so that next time it won't just be you who end up to be understanding. =) Good luck man!
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• Philippines
12 Apr 10
hahaha. yes girls are very complicated,at this time they want that,and after that time comes they dont want it already. if they gonna buy some stuff it will take them hours. anyway as the wiseman says. woman are meant to loved not to be understood
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
12 Apr 10
Damn, i wish i could give you a star for this. TATA.
@p3ks626 (6550)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
haha! I dont know why but I find it funny cause men think girls are complicated but women also thinks that men are more complicated. Women doesnt understand man too but we can be more patient. Maybe your girl is doing that cause she wants you to do something for her. Sometimes women dont say what they want their men to do for them cause they wanted their partners to have the initiative to do so. Which is a sad thing cause men are not mind readers but some women want them to be. Well, it now depends on you on how you are going to bridge your gap since the problems most of the time has something to do with communication. Just talk to her and also try to listen to her and also tell her what you want her to know.
• United States
19 Apr 10
Thank you thank you p3ks626! No, we are not mind readers. But sad to say, we are supposed to be anyway. Though I always listen, I do forget. Not a good idea.
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Not all the girls are complicated. I am not a complicated one but I could say that my boyfriend is really a complicated man. Even a small thing he always make it bigger to start an argument. A nonsense things. But no matter what he is, I still love him and accept his weaknesses..
• United States
12 Apr 10
farashadine i have a question for you how long have you and your boyfriend been dating is my question?
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
12 Nov 10
The main reason that I think that women are as complicated as they are is because of hormones. Women have a lot of hormone flucutations that make our moods swing wildly from one end of the spectrum to the other. It is difficult to deal with at times, even for a woman. In addition to that, women also tend to get catty with each other. That is another thing that I think makes women difficult to deal with at times.
@dimple27 (31)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
i'm actually not like that..it depends upon the person's attitude or personality.. people have different attitudes when they encounter different people.. maybe..those complicated people have some problems that were still not taken cared of..
• United States
14 Apr 10
I guess I am not a girl. i am not complicated. All I want is to be able to see hockey and good films and to connect with my guy. I don't see Any of these changing.
@Phicardo (19)
• India
13 Apr 10
i don't know, because i'm a boy, sexy boy ,hahahah
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
It;s not that girls are complicated. Women has their own way of thinking, own perspective etc. Women may also find men complicated at times as well, but girls being complicated at timed may not necessarily mean that we are playing mysterious. It may just be part of the nature of being a woman. Women tend to be indecisive at times but in the long run,women knows what they really want.
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
Well sometimes girls can be like that, and sometimes even men are like that. Sometimes, we don't want to say what's on our minds, and we act like everything's okay but really we want you to take time to cuddle up to us and tell us good stuff, and make us feel better. Sometimes my husband does that. He tells me he's okay, and in the next few minutes he's slamming doors, or fuming over the smallest things like running out of ice cubes, or the closet not closed. When I ask him why he seems irritated, he just answers he's fine. And then a little later it turns out he wants me to cuddle with him. Some girls are like that, some men are like that. If she does that then maybe she just wants to stir things up because it's been a little boring, and nothing's really happening. It's fun to be unpredictable sometimes, or suddenly she might want to do something and there is time to do it, so why not right? Just sit back, enjoy the ride. If you're getting a little too much of her going like that, then tell her about it. You can try it too, so you'll understand why she's been acting very picky lately.
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
13 Apr 10
How are things going with your lady? Hope you are out of the dog house. I sure want to know why girls are so complicated too. I would be trying to curry on a conversation with mine and suddenly she would cut me off as if I bothered her and gives me some kind of smart remarks. I tolerate it to a point cause I want peace and of course I don't always tolerate it. I think this issue is what makes me second guess this and I can see this disturbing our relationship, since communication is a must in a relationship to be healthy. Tonight I will make the effort to try and let her know how this feels and see if she will be receptive and understand what she is doing.
@Mady2791 (547)
• United States
13 Apr 10
Yes of course we like being misterious.
@caiye786 (95)
• China
13 Apr 10
You said girls complicated,I think it also means that girls are smart ones. We want to be mysterious to man,maybe one of the reasons is that,it's nature that boys are curious of girls ,and be attracted what they dress ,the way girls speak ,talk and so on.If girls want more attention,they should be keep mysterious.
@razim17 (194)
• Malaysia
13 Apr 10
Women are emotional and due to that they will keep on changing their mind and thoughts.They are not that complicated,if they are in stable condition without any emotional burden then they will be the same as always.For men it is their ego that lead them to be mysterious.They just hate to reveal all the things to people.
@chiyosan (30205)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
well i think it is not only the girls that are complicated in this world.. girls just want more out of life... we think more than we do act so that makes guys who thinks less think that girls are complicated beings. if you would just have your attention focused, read what she is saying... girls can be easily understood.
@ada8may21 (2419)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
Girls are complicated I dont agree with this one. Boys are also complicated. Its not just us who complicate the world. But in anyways, I know how to express myself with my boyfriend, he knows how to read my gestures. So I guess its about familiarity with your girlfriend that you need to work on. Dont blame us because we are complicated.
@cupkitties (7599)
• United States
12 Apr 10
Its only complicated to you because you don't understand the reasoning. Ask your girlfriend about her behavior. Maybe its just something simple like she wanted you because she didn't see you enough or something happened and she needed you for comfort and she didn't want you later because she had the need to be alone for a while or she was mad at you. You'll never know if you don't ask her.
• Canada
12 Apr 10
Theres a saying: "cant live with them (girls) cant live without them" Its all about hormones and Im afraid theres nothing we can do about it. So just find something to do in the meantime until her hormones change and then she'll want you again. Life is like a roller coaster for us girls......We dont even understand ourselves most of the time, so how do you expect us to explain ourselves HAHAHA!! Have fun and dont worry about it.
• India
12 Apr 10
No girls are not complicated.They becomes complicated when complicated men comes in their way.
@sid556 (31003)
• United States
12 Apr 10
Hi there, I don't think we are complicated at all. Sounds like you and your girlfriend just have some communication issues. How old is she? How long were you together before she decided that she doesn't want to be with you? Did something happen to bring on her change of heart or does she do this often? I know that I have dated men that I was very attracted to and after a time it became clear that we just were not meant to be and I've ended it rather than waste his time or mine.