Do you believe love in the first sight?

@firdauzi (283)
Indonesia
May 6, 2010 4:35am CST
Last month i went to a relative's house to speak about something. He is a chief of some rooming house. When i am waiting for him, a person came out bringing a cup of coffee. I turn my head on that person, and then i see a beautiful girl. Really beautiful eventhough i barely see her that time. I don't know how old she is, but in my opinion, she is only 16 years old. Then i think is it really love or lust? Why i want to see her face everyday though she is just under 17. So is it love in the first sight?
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21 responses
@kiran9 (255)
• India
6 May 10
Hi, I can't say exactly because you could not say your age. Age is essential for in this situation. In the teenage most of youngsters attract the physical appearance. I think it may to be cause.most of humans are attract physical appearance that will not first love.
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
okay, i agree with you. I admit that i love her physical appareance, she is so cute anyway i don't know her character yet. So from your opinion, love in the first sight is not exist?
@keval32 (1096)
• India
6 May 10
Yeah, best answer I would say.
@jajabugz (71)
• Philippines
7 May 10
i don't believe at love at first sight. maybe you are attracted to someone at first sight.. because for me when you are in love your personally know them and understand them.. without personality there is lust look.. Looks isn't everything..Looks are just a bonus :)
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
how we can differentiate between attraction, like, love and lust. It is very difficult for me. I really attracted by her face. And i admit there was just a li'l anxiety inside of my heart. It is different compared to another girl whom i see. Another girl is usual, she is cute and has a never boring face to be looked. Only that i can describe her.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
i do believe firdauzi. but not all people love at first sight , sometimes we need many times to realize that we love him/her. iam indonesian too firdauzi and nice to know you too
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
nice to know you here too. I use my real name here and other forum or social website, because i don't like to use nickname. I use my nickname just when i don't want to be known by other person. By the way, thanks for your opinion. Happy mylotting.
• China
7 May 10
I do not know it is really love or lust.Maybe time will tell you. But I want to say,love in the first sight exist.My roommate in my college fell in love at the first sight with her boyfriend,they love each other very much.But the people around them still think they would break soon.But the end is they married and they are planing to have a baby!
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
very good story, i want it is happened to my life too. To find somebody which from the first sight i felt some chemical reaction inside, then she was too. And then we both will fall in love together. So terrific.
• Philippines
7 May 10
firdauzi, it's more likely an admiration than love and definitely not lust! You should see this girl more often for you to confirm what's the real feelings you have for her..who know's she may feel the same way too!goodluck!
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
8 May 10
okay, i hope she will know how i am attracted to her so much. thank you.
7 May 10
No, I can not believe it. I think lovers have to know much more about each other, what he/she likes? do not likes? What kind of living style she/he wants? Also some other important things.
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
i agree with you. It is the next step after someone is attracted to another one. A couple should know the plus and minus of his/her couple, then they should approve each other.
• Canada
6 May 10
I truly believe in love at first sight ... i know few of my friends who were in love and they married and now they are living happily, they don't have known their partner earlier but met in malls and in college functions and become friends.
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
from this point i get one knowledge. Befriend first then start to grow love. Am i right?
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
6 May 10
I believe that the attraction is there at first sight. love takes time. Love is too strong of an emtion to take for granted. When you see someone for the first time the appeal and charisma may are what gets your interest. Building a relationship of love is something you strive for.
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
it is just a first pace, to admiring people from his/her physical appareance, and then love will find the way. Just like that. okay, i try to grow my love to someone i like.
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
6 May 10
As far as I am concerned, I do not beleive love in the first sight,just for the first sight can not judge a person whether he is a good man or not.So I think I need spend a lot long time to check whether the man or the girl should be the another part of my life.
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
yeah, i agree with you. Love need time, but lust is instant. Am i right?
• China
6 May 10
Yes boy this is love of first site. Love does not see age or something else. It's just happened. And nobody can not stop to happening this. Same situation i fall many time.
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
god bless us all. May love be with us :)
• Philippines
7 May 10
i think love at first can also be called as infatuation.. because you really dont know that person.. you only like her because of her appearance i think thats not love..
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
really?? hmmmm.... hope is not just a mere lust.
@Kisha14 (117)
• Philippines
6 May 10
I believed in love at first sight it just happened to me way back when I was on college. I've seen this guy which made my heartbeats so fast. I almost break down that time just to know him. I'd done my way to know him and be with him. We have been together for a year or less. It ends with I am just the only one who loves him and he left me.Well that is my first love at first sight short story.
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
owh, such a sad story. but don't be upset, it was not only you who experience it. Me myself, already broken heart for many times. I see many beautiful girl in this world and i just want one person who could be special to me. That day has come, the one i see whom i want to hug is her, the person whom we talked here. I hope she doesn't get angry when she know this discussion.
@emdyey09 (264)
• Philippines
6 May 10
I do not believe in love at first sight. There is no such thing. Love is a complex feeling. When you say you love a person, it means you accept him/her no matter who or what she is. You can't really tell if you love that person the first time you laid eyes on him/her. I don't think that's love you are feeling. I think that is just a case of fatal attraction.
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
But when i see her for the first time, i feel some chemical reaction inside of me. It is not a kind of stimulating excitement, it felt like i want to get near to her only to hug her. It is different when i see a woman with short skirt and wearing sexy shirt, then i start to drooling all the way. What i felt with her, the first one, is just a happy feeling to see her. Is it kind of lust?
@moveon03 (12)
• China
6 May 10
There really is love at first sight, but seldom. In fact,that was how i fell in love with my first boyfriend. But for you, i think it needs some time to prove if it is really love or just lust.
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
time will show that is it love or just lust. thanks for your opinion.
@elmiko (6630)
• United States
6 May 10
no but believe in lust at first sight.
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
your answer is completely the same with my friend's yesterday. Something that we like from the eyes is just a lust, not a love. But i'm still doubting it.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Dec 10
The only reason that I can honestly say that I believe in love at first sight is because it is something that happened to me. Prior to the time that I met the man that is now my husband, I had a few different boyfriends, but somewhere deep within me, I knew that they were not the people that I would be spending the rest of my life with. However, the first time that I ever saw my husband I knew that he was the man that I would be with for the rest of my life. We met in 2002 and here we are in 2010 and we are happily married to this day.
• Philippines
6 May 10
i think i haven't experienced this before. i've had several crushes and i thought i've loved them lol. i guess those where just a happy crush and a friendly love. now, one of my crushes became my bf for two years and still growing. it's not out of love at first sight but i had a chance to have a date with him, then that's where it all began. :D
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
i am a person who also easy to love some girl. So you said that it is just a happy crush. Owh, that's why i feel happy instead of stimulated. So what i feel last day wasn't lust, just friendly love.
@evepin (721)
• Philippines
6 May 10
yes i do. it happened to me and my husband i fell in love and he did too the first time we saw each other. it wasn't a lust thing. it's more like a realization (so weird i know) that we should be together and that we just knew we needed each other.
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
wow, it is very beautiful story. You both married because you and him are got love in the first sight. It is very rare case, or infact it is common??
@Edzornam (138)
• Ghana
6 May 10
You have just develop interest in her. It could be love at first site....I could be infatuation of just an interest. But I think you need some time to attest what you feel. But better still, go for her if you you have a crash...hahahah... Good luck!
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
okay, maybe another time i see her, i'll try to make her attracted to me. hehe..
• United States
6 May 10
I've had a few similar experiences in the past and after looking back, I guess I would have to say that it was instant infatuation. It's definitely on the side of lust, but more of an intense, unexplainable connection. Maybe biological? But I don't think it's love man. It could become love later though, you never know.
@firdauzi (283)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
maybe it is lust as you said, but when i see her face, my "little bro" didn't errect at all. what i feel is a dazzling feeling. It is not a love YET, but i know it is not a lust either. Hard to differentiate between love and lust if we just judge her instantly.