Lets see how many of you are single in mylot..

India
May 14, 2010 7:52pm CST
Being single may not always be a bad thing. Break-ups hurts us all, but at some level, you might even be relieved for getting away from a manipulative or an abusive relationship. So i guess its better to be single than to be with someone you don't even like! You explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere. So what about you guys..are u still single or in relationship..enjoying?? Just check out my blog too for more about *single* on my profile...:)
15 responses
@basqui (3888)
• Philippines
15 May 10
I'm single but no longer available, lol. I've been into many break-ups but it didn't stop me to have a girlfriend for myself. Hell, if they don't want me in their lives anymore then let them be, I have my own life for my own and I think I can manage living without them.
@cloud31 (5809)
15 May 10
cool huh!
@basqui (3888)
• Philippines
15 May 10
Yeah cloud, how are you? Why is it irresponsibility? It should be responsibility, we still have to be responsible even if we are single. right?
• India
15 May 10
being single is good its nice sense of irresponsibility.enjoy dude!
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
15 May 10
singles, lot of singles out there including. i don't think it is easy to be single. there is no spark, no happy feeling, life seems bland and boring and seems you miss the basic need of life to hvae someone to love. hope i won't be single any more. wish me luck.
• India
16 May 10
hey there sometimes single life also is fun...you can flirt anyone man...you can do anything you want..but uf you are in relationship you will have boundaries. however both have their own feelingss..if you want you can visit my blog..you can find lots of things about singles there...keep smiling
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
15 May 10
I'm single and I agree with you better to be single than in a bad relationship. I'm looking, but so for I haven't found Mr. or Ms. Right, as of yet. When it happens it happens. No big deal hurrying it!
• India
15 May 10
yeah...i like it..cool man!! no worries...we dont have to worry one day we will find it..enjoy single!!
@Ladyslipper (1327)
• Philippines
15 May 10
Being single is not bat at all. I've been single for a long time before I met my long time partner. I've been single for 20 years before I had my first boyfriend and then been Single for almost two years before I met my husband. Being in a relationship is also not bad. Both status have their own advantages and disanvantages. When I was still Single I can go anywhere I want to go without the need to take into consideration another person. I can do anything I want. No matter what time and when my friends would call me for an out of town I'm always free. Now that I'm already a Mom and wife I can't do that anymore. I can still go with my friends but of course not that much anymore. However, I'm happy having husband and son. They both bring joy to my life. They are always there for me. I feel so complete with them.
• India
16 May 10
hey good to hear that you are happy...only few are lucky like you...enjoy your life..keep smiling..
@kielogs (188)
• Philippines
15 May 10
There's nothing wrong with being single. You have all the time to discern and take your time. It makes life more meaningful. remember you only go through single life once in your life. Take advantage of it.
• India
16 May 10
you are 100% right kielogs!! just take advantage...aftre that we have to love our gf..hehe
@Morenix (45)
• Philippines
15 May 10
single here!!! way way better ^_^
• India
16 May 10
yeah....single rocx!!!! enjoy
• China
15 May 10
I am single I have come across three break-ups already,it really hurts,but that does not stop me from building new relationship,I think I just phically and emothonally need girls,that just make me keep on exploring,but I really cann't find someone I really like,so I my relationship always ends up in break-ups,I enjoy being single sometime,because I can have a lot of time and I can do wahtever I like,but the problem is how to meet my regular phical need
@Tangeryne (412)
• India
15 May 10
Yes I'm single, have been for the past 5months now and no its not a happy thing for me!! :-( I've always felt the need to be in a relationship and now that I'm single after a very long time, its hard to cope!! Just got out of a relationship which has seen its ups and down but just felt that that whole relationship bought a negative outcome about it. Inspite of that, I still feel I need to hook up and fill the void. Most people are happy being single and enjoy it, not me.
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
15 May 10
I'm in a relationship. I've been into 2 break ups already. First relationship ended bad since my girlfriend then fell in love with other guy. I ended the second since I'm starting to fall in love with another girl, who I don't pursued in the end. So I kinda regret ending my second relationship. And then after months of being single I met my current girlfriend. I really want this relationship to be my last one. Hoping that she's the one I'm going to be with for the rest of my life. :D
• India
15 May 10
Best of luck to you frined..may u have happy relation life ahead..
• Philippines
17 May 10
I am single, i feel bad about it, but i have no choice but to accept and be contented of what is going on because that's the reality. The relationships I had ended not good I don't know why and it would take long time for me to get over with the pain of breaking up. Now I would not explore the universe just to find that someone who will broke my heart again. I will just explore the universe for my eternal happiness with God.
@Rysonia (310)
• United States
15 May 10
I am single. To be honest it simply takes to much energy and time that I do not have to go out and look for any guys to date. Since I am a single mother (being divorced) this makes the dating scene even more complicated if it wasn't enough so already.
• Philippines
15 May 10
im in a relationship right now, im not sure if its a good thing or not. i love him but im not in love with him. im not enjoying because his not right here, his working in kuwait and after 2 years we wll get married. im not sure if im happy, i want to back out but i cant.. haaii.. i want to be single again.. :(
@u472bmt (12)
• United States
15 May 10
single
• India
11 Aug 10
I am single too, its really great to be single. Have fun people!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 May 10
I'm not single now and I haven't been single for over eight years. I'm very happy that I'm in a relationship. During my early adult years I was single more than I was involved in a relationship and I was very happy with that situation. Well, then I met my husband and I knew that there would never be another day in my life that I would be happy to be single again. Therefore, when you meet your soulmate, you may never be happy to be single again.