All Advice and Input Needed

You been such a good daughter and I know deep inside your mom is hurting for you. Maybe she knows even if you have not told her about your failed relationship. I just don't understand why your boyfriend decide to break away from you because you have little time for him and your priority is your sick mother. In this world we live in we can never find or replace our mother they are only one. But then there are many men available and you can always find somebody to love. What I'm trying to say is that it's your boyfriends lose when he let you go.

Lost relationship???? Let me give you something to think about. Doesn't true love hang in there regardless of the trouble?????I know it does!!!Perhaps,things are clearing the way for when your true love does show up. Hang in there steady rock that holds everyone together. It's hard when so many depend on you. Get some rest. Don't take things personally. Good things will arrive before you know it.

Try not to be too hard on yourself. You have the right to feel however you want to. You have honored your mother, and it sounds like you plan to continue doing that. No one can fault you for your actions OR for your feelings. Most people cannot relate to your situation, so therefore no one can know what it is like to be in your shoes.

anne25penn, I just cannot help feeling the anguish, disappointments, frustrations and most of all bitterness in your post, where I just cannot help squeezing a few line of thoughts here. Somehow, I feel that you are a bit way over with your emotions and I just cannot help wondering what you have actually lost much that you would make you want to have your life back. Honestly, I do not see any lost other than your relationship with your boyfriend and you are taking it all on your situation and yourself. I felt that you are really not being fair to both your mother and yourself. And if I may further add, I think your boyfriend did not leave you because of you having to spend more time taking care of your mother but something more about what is happening within you. IMO, I do see that you are way overboard with your mother's condition where I just could not see the point or why you have to quit your job and/or give up your life over it. Are you saying that your life has to stop once someone is gravely ill? Did the earth stop for one moment when your mother was diagnosed with cancer or when she was having cancer treatments? Could your mother's condition change when your deprive your life of its time and opportunities? Or, that you will never be empty stomach or hungry? If the answer for the above is no, then I do not see or understand what you have done and sacrificed. If you can hire a maid now, why didn't or couldn't you do it earlier while? No one can stop what you have decided here but I just hope that you will not regret what you have decided and done.

Hello there, I don't know but some how I am gonna get an impression that you might blame your mom for loosing your relationship with this guy. in the first place, it was his fault for not sticking into you. guys can come and go no matter how you have been with them for a long time it's no different from "friends come and go". You should probably need space and pick up the pieces of your life to be complete again. make sure you have save money for the rent in case you plan on having one, I've heard it's alot more expensive now than ever.hey, you know my number, just feel free to message if you have other things to let out, have a great day.