James Yap is a USER!
By chadzkii
@chadzkii (129)
Philippines
19 responses
@defcon505 (919)
• United States
6 Jul 10
Wow I was surprised when I read this baseless accusations. Maybe you meant the other way. Kris used James. James have been trying to please everybody (ikaw, media, etc.). Can't we give him a break. It looks like a Robert Sakaldoon-like MyLotter is born here.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
I have already known James Yap since his Era in UAAP, same goes when our school in Letran made their championship games in the NCAA, Yap here did a lot good in the UAAP. makes me wonder why i didn't choose UE back in college
but I agree, we can't judge people like James Yap.
but I agree, we can't judge people like James Yap.
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Exactly, James yap doesn't have to be blamed. In a relationship each of them contributes mistake towards each other. I don't think for fame, either. Yap is famous in his world already and became more famous when he gets married with Kris which has lot of dissimilarities. They said opposite attracts but what happen is a repulsion.
Okay, let's have a script:::::: ( subjected to my view only)
I think the conflict starts with jealousy. We know that yap is very famous to girls and very kind to fans which even saying "no" is hard for him. Here comes Kris, a jealous wife (sometime reasonable and sometimes not) and a dominant character. She can straightly say to your face "no"! So what do you think??? Conflicts are there if no communication and understanding. If there's no adjustments in both worlds continually their going to repel.
@princejayevents (1245)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
It's so judgmental if you say that he is a USER or any other hurtful terms. We don't know anything about their inner thoughts.
If to be popular, he is popular in his own rights.
To be close to the most famous family, I DON'T THINK SO.
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
9 Jul 10
At first I hesitated to answer this discussion because I am afraid this will be deleted by mylot because of a very small description, one line discussion is deleted here, anyway, hope this won't be deleted.
Back to your question, well my answer is "I guess" too.lol!Though it is very hard to gauge the mind and motive of James Yap of marrying Kris, it is hard to deny the fact that it seems he was "attracted" to Kris' popularity and being come from an illustrious family in the Philippines. It is debatable however, if he is really just "using" Kris or something, anyway, just leave it to them and hope one of these days their marriage will run smoothly.
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
chadzkii, that is unfair for James Yap. Personally, I saw him 6 years ago and he was a lad in love.
@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Well I respect your point in here, but, you have to make the guy make his move in reconciling with Kris because he deserves a reconciliation as the husband and the father of Kris' second son. I think as a responsible father who have erred in the marriage they can make amends to correct whatever he is sorry of. The only difference with this situation is that they are celebrities in their own right and all of their moves are just magnified in the news and is not given the privilege to their right to privacy. I guess let them decide on their own like they are private citizens in our country I thin they deserve to talk and reconcile in here.
@grayxenon (1313)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
are you kris aquino? hehe we don't know, i mean I don't know James personally so I cannot or agree with you or proved it otherwise also.
@mynestegg (519)
• Philippines
7 Jul 10
James Yap is more of a man than he was a user. He probably really loved Kris Aquino. Who knows. His problem is keeping his "pet" where it belongs. 
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Hmmmmmmmm......
What made you say that? do you have evidence that prove otherwise? if i remember the news correctly, he refused to divorce Kris Aquino because he only wanted to give kris time or space. the problem started i believe has something to do with Noynoy's campaign. problem that lead to complications and maid Kris said those things. but if you want to know the user in her past relationships, it was mark lapid, those where the moments that most people knew kris is being used, but not james yap. i don't think he was brought up with that kind of upbringing. mind you i have friends in University in the East who knew him personally, and he's not like that at all
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@knicnax (2233)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
You know what, it's funny how easy it is for my lot people to judge Kris Aquino but not James Yap. If you made the title for Kris Aquino they'd probably join the band wagon and critic Kris Aquino with delight.
It's always Kris who's the bad guy huh?
anyway, We can't blame anyone yet. We can't blame Kris, nor James. We're not married to any of them so we really don't know what's happening in their marriage. No matter how much Kris blabs about her problems and how James opts to remain silent, and now, (both of them are silent), we still wouldn't know what's really happening between them. Although always, things like this are not the fault of just one spouse. It's the fault of both spouses.
@manilatop10 (371)
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
Hi,
First and foremost, I want to say that I am a guest in your country :)
Second, I want to point out that perhaps you shouldn't expect to have it both ways.
Yes, you did say "I guessed" but look at the claim in your headline and consider what thoughts that invokes diba?
Lastly, I was dumbstruck by the public displays on this issue and I have my opinions but I prefer to keep them to myself, since the lines between privacy and publicity can be skewed among the "elite."
Heck, let me just add that it seemed disingenuous to make such an emotional and public display to ask for respect of one's privacy but who am I to judge anyone or any couple!
Eric
@sweethums (80)
• Philippines
7 Jul 10
I just hope that James wouldn't give up easily on their marriage. Maybe Kris just wants space as of now. But for sure, Kris still loves James and she just wants him to woo her again. Maybe. You know some girls are like that. They have kids and It would be great if they would sort things out again..thats marriage life.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
7 Jul 10
mt only thought is that he is really very attractive to some women - who maybe likes to play the mistress part.. and it can also be that James is not at all a very good husband because it has come out several times on how polygamous he is! he is such a womanizer and maybe Kris really just got fed up.
@xtedaxcvg (3189)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
I agree, we shouldn't judge James without any basis for our claims. We don't even know what the reason is for their recent breakup so it's best that we hold on to our comments before we know the whole truth. Let's just wait and see what happens next.
@goddessjes (788)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
i guess that is a strong statement. considering both are popular.
how come it is only now that people call him a user now that his brother-in-law is in the seat? why didn't people tag him as such when he started dating Kris?
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
5 Jul 10
I can't actually judged him that he is a user but a womanizer that is always tolerating other girls to flirt with him without being responsible enough to think that he is already a married man.
