hurting emotionally

hi ann, thanks for the response,mostly i never hurt any body with my harsh words,have a nice day

hello yugasini, we all probably would not want to hurt the people very close to us that's why we remain cool and sober but i guess there are some situations when we cannot just hold back some words and then when it is out.. we realize we have hurt someone unnecessarily.. thank you for this response. ann

dear dora, you get relief talking about a problem and that is very good. holding things in is very stressful. thank you for your response. ann

dear mitraa, usually, the emotional pain strikes deep and creates profound grief for a time and dealing with it begins only when you start coping with the sense of loss and with your acceptance. have a nice day. ann

dear daliaj, it is best for the person who have hurt you to know what you felt. guess that would help him realize if he did right or if he got it wrong in hurting you. thank you for this response. ann

dearest professor, they say that the very sensitive person is the sweetest person because he can easily grasp emotion of another. it just hurts the most when the person who you think cannot hurt you is the reason why you are miserable. words cut like blade. could even ruin a wonderful friendship. but when you love someone who have hurt you, you always find your heart forgiving and willing to reconcile. crying is the best outlet, be it a man or a woman, to pour out the stress within oneself. and it is beautiful to have someone you can lean on, someone who you can talk to and who would listen intently when you are down and hurt. thank you for your response. ann

dear westbird, i too prefer to weep silently away from everyone. but there are just times when we are not fast enough to hide our feelings. we all know that crying is very good outlet when you are hurting. but i know it could give you a headache as well. cheers, ann

hi mike, hey, that's not far from my experience. only a dog listens to me while i weep. sometimes she comes near, like she understands what is happening and puts her nose near my face like saying "stop crying now. you'll get very big eye bags the next day if you dont. not glamorous at all". cheers, ann

hi pat, crying really makes headaches and to add, bloated eyelids and bigger eye bags. but i guess after a really good cry, your head gets clearer and you are able to face the day with a more sober thinking on what to do next. have a nice day. ann

dear autumngold, i use to lock myself in my room when i am hurting. i dont talk to anyone even my family, and that makes them very worried. that i realized now. time will heal us. that is very true. thank you for your response. ann