What was your biggest scar in your life ?

Hong Kong
August 10, 2010 5:37am CST
Life is not east and many of us has gone through some difficult times of life and leave a scar in our history.This scar won't go awayt and it seems that bit alwyas influencing every arear or some parts of your life.It can be a terrible experience during your childhood ,it can also be a poor decision that you will regret for life.It can also be a serious mistakes that can never has any return in life.Whatever it was,I think you are cnot the only fish in th ocean and by sharing thsi in mylot,you may be experience a relief or at least you will have someone to have empathy and comfort towards your experience in here.Aanyway,don't just live on the past and let it go.Tomorrow will be a new day for all of us.With this attitude,share with us.
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markamemory
@markamemory (264)
• India
10 Aug 10
I was treated very badly by my parents and my relatives in general cos i used to be a very mischievious kid. I never seem to come in terms with they way they treated me even today. It hurts me to know that poeple always want to get rid of the bad kids and never try to understand or include them. I always seem to end up thinking of my childhood days.
dorannmwin
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Aug 10
For me it would be the period of time after my father had a massive heart attack and the subsequent time after when he as in a coma. The reason that this has left such a scar on my being is because of the fact that the night that he had the heart attack I knew that he wasn't feeling well and I could have said something to him that would have gotten him to a doctor sooner and maybe the outcome would have been different. It has been fifteen years now since that happened, but yet it is still something that I think about on a very regular basis.
ladym33
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
10 Aug 10
There was something bad that happened to me when I was about 13 years old from two boys that I went to school with. I don't really like to tell the story but it has affected my life in a negative way. I am over it now though and have moved on, so I don't let it bother me in my current life. I also had a boss that was really abusive for a long time even after I left that job some of the things she had said and done bothered me. It took me a long time to get over that, I was really bitter about it, but I am over that as well.
RobtheRock
@RobtheRock (2433)
• United States
10 Aug 10
One of the biggest scars in my life was when I left Detroit. I had a great job teaching adult education with many chances at advancement. I hated Detroit so much that I saved as much money as I could and bought a car with an aim to leave. My boss had offered me a leave of absence (to spend a year to recuperate) and come back, but I turned it down. I wanted to leave that city badly because I hated it with a passion. Once I left, everything went down hill and I've been struggling ever since.
edwardjoy2000
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
10 Aug 10
I dont know call it a scar. but i married the love of my life when my whole family was against it. i know they have been hurt and the whole family was trying to make me understand that what i was doing is wrong. But i went ahead with my decision. I dont call it a scar but there might be some one in the family who may call it as a scar.
maomao20716
@maomao20716 (171)
• China
10 Aug 10
the most biggest scar i think for me is take the wrong speciality and then choose the bad job as first step to go into society. by the way ,i think in other part,i have the best parents ,they give me confidence ,encourage me all the time, i love them
hanuma34
@hanuma34 (819)
• India
10 Aug 10
As you said in everybody's life some dark patches occur, particularly in ordinary people. Well, I am a senior man, and the lessons in life have been plenty. I cannot think of enlisting the sympathy from the friends in mylotters, as the otherway would be the right thing. However, there have been three major events in my life - that have altered my life. A marriage against my choice, overemotional outburst causing loss of a decent career, and the same nature affecting psyche of my wife and daughter. They will remain as the deepest scars in my life, no amount of repentence can compensate.
coolbear2010
@coolbear2010 (23)
• China
10 Aug 10
biggest scar in my life is losing a girl's love.we had a friendship and are all happy with each other.but one day,i came aross another girl who was attractive.after that i spend my most time being with the other girl.now when i look back,i realise i made a big mistake and it was foolish.now the former girl has joined the army and i never meet her after that.