I really hate this girl

Malaysia
September 26, 2010 9:19am CST
I knew her since Form 2 and I think she has changed from good to bad. In our college years she looked down on me coz I did not have money to pay my fees, and the brain to do the presentation and stuff. She always chat with other people. I don't mean to dominating her but she acts if I am a slave for her. Now she is doing incredibly good makes me think why a bad girl like her can buy a big house at 29 and has a lot of friends. Is this world materialistic that only people with looks and brains can survive? She is very snobbish when I praise her. I don't do that now and we lost touch recently I met her in facebook. She took a picture of her new house and show it to all of her friends. Makes me wonder if she is still a virginity done so much without any experience in human life?
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11 responses
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
don't mind her.. as long as you live your life in a good way, God will provide your needs in the right time and place. just be contented for what you have right now. be focus on your priorities in life.
@yuki1987 (59)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
don't hate that girl as maybe she strive hard to be like that..of what she is right now..destiny is matter choice..if you choose to suffer you will suffer..but if you choose to be successful by your own means you will..just do what you can achieve for your self and make that girl as your model..that one day you will be more than her..
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
oh, there are people like that. but well, i think her hardwork has made her buy herself a new house... (i would love to have my own house at 29- i am 29 by the way and we are still renting!) your friendship did not work out because you are not comfortable being nice to her now and she still treats you so badly. never mind her friends in facebook - for all you know they all might be thinking of her the same way you do and is not really close with her. never mind the house and money that she has - for you will have yours too in your own time. :D Cheer up and don't let your past with her bother you so much today.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
I actually feel the same with a lot of my friends on facebook. It seems that most of the people there are there so show off their stuff. I mean, it's okay but once you start flaunting everything you've got and even kids and such, it's different. I guess there are people who do that to hide what insecurity they have. For sure she seems to be doing very good but what's beneath the showing off? Perhaps she's insecure about you that's why she does those things to you.
• Malaysia
27 Sep 10
Oh its sad if she thinks like that. I am an open minded woman but she as well is hiding something from me,?
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
Hmmm.. I was just thinking about it. Perhaps it's because there's just something about you that makes her feel she's challenged. Try to check what you do and how she reacts. But in the long run, you shouldn't care much if you're sure you're not doing anything that is forcing her to be that way.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
28 Sep 10
I don't think that it is right to hate someone because they have been successful in their lives. Now, I think that it would be another story if she had lied and cheated to have achieved everything that she has in her life. There are a lot of people that are able to achieve getting things in their life at a younger age. I was actually only twenty eight years old when my husband and I were able to buy our first house. It might not be top of the line, but it is ours and I am proud of it.
@Jalle1 (132)
• Denmark
27 Sep 10
Dude, relax, she probably worked hard to get where she is. Your last line is over the edge man, "Makes me wonder if she is still a virgininty done so much without any experience in human life". Dude? are you serious, why are you so jealous? If you don't like her, then don't care.
• Malaysia
27 Sep 10
Pal, I am not jealous but wonder is she is still pure inside and out?
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
26 Sep 10
Hi. wongchoiyee. Don't feel so bad. I have met many women that are like this. They have a big head and they think that they are so much better than I am. Now as the years has past by, they are successful and they are doing so much more better than I am. It makes me wonder what did I do wrong to be without anything that is good for me. But you should not compare yourself with her. You may never know what she has to go through behind closed doors. Her life may not be all all that glamorous and lovely as it looks. She may be stressed out by the string of her hair. You just may never know. What always looks good on the outside is never what is good on in the inside. You are special. We all are. What God has for you, is for you!
@jugsjugs (12967)
26 Sep 10
People do change from the time you met them.I have found, that the people that i have been friends with for years, are not all that i thought they were and that they were people that were true friends, yet now they are the two faced people and they love to stab people in the back.In the end it is what you are about,not what other people are about.Look at all the people that live on benifits they can not say anything in their life is what they provided,where as people worked for all what they have got that is theirs.
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
26 Sep 10
Hi wongchoiyee, It appears that you have been envious of this girl for a very long time; you should not be envious of her or anyone. It is important that you learn to have confidence in yourself and your ability to accomplish tasks that will give you a good life as well. If you spend your life trying to live up to someone else, or be just like them, you will lose your opportunities that you were meant to have in life. Focus on how you can be the best person without being friends with someone who clearly has not interest in being friends with you. You think this person is a snob, so why do you want to be friends with her? Just because you know a person, doesn't mean that you have to be friends. She is in a different circle of friends, which is her right. She is beautiful, smart, and successful. You can be all those things to, if you stop worrying about how she acts or how she is treating you, and focus on your bring future. Forget about the past; more on to the good life.
@abrar11 (95)
• India
26 Sep 10
Forget her dude... most of the girls now a days are like this.. need money , a big house.. a rich BF.. and to enjoy.... i also hate these types of girls... must day boys are also not behind in this.. they too make girl from good to bad... everywhere this foul and worst thing is spreading...
@IoanaBI (494)
• Romania
26 Sep 10
Hello Wongchoiyee! It is a sad story story, but the world is a cruel place. not everything that you want you can have. Sometimes it makes me cry when i think that the thing that i long for so long time i can't get, or get with a lot of work, and others who don't give a dollar for that thing just have to put their hends on it to have it. But i think that the wheel of fortune will come arround for me too, and this helps me living on: the hope that tomorrow there will be other possibilities