why do men cheat?

Philippines
October 16, 2010 10:40am CST
I've met a lot of lads and somehow made them my friends. i till can't get their point. why does it seems easy for them to cheat and deceive their partners and not feel guilty about it? guys, i need your opinions about this.. to better understand men..
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10 responses
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 10
It is an age old disease in men and women are now being infected by this disease. Just can't blame men as they are naturally known hunters and women are their hunted preys.
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
Right about that mate. It makes sense..
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 10
Women don't have to hunt. Their silent ways is enough to hit the target. They have the natural charm to weaken man's heart. That is why they say women are man's paradise on earth but also their gateway to hell!
@jan4ix (142)
• Latvia
16 Oct 10
Well... a psychologist said to me once thats its realy always the women that makes the first move and atract us. Shouldt women be called hunters ?! :)BTW just one look can make it happen
@elkanwa (626)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 10
i think not all men are cheater, but in some case may be they cheat just for fun thats it. and they feel enjoy this. i 've meet a guy with this kind of personality. when i ask him why you cheat to your wife? He told me that its make him satisfied and have more spirit in his life. I am a man too but i shock with his answer.
@elkanwa (626)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 10
its all about ego maybe you are right. when he said that i just feel strange. and i was tihinking to myself it probably happen to me too someday after i've got married.
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
totally about ego, right?
@jan4ix (142)
• Latvia
16 Oct 10
Really? You were shocked? I would take it as a funny joke if my friends told me something like that :)) And about the general.. Most of men dont feel like theyre cheating someone , it seems normal .. makes u girls mad right?! :))
@mauie0918 (337)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
In a relationship, men really don't accept their faults. They always find ways to blame the women. I don't know but for what I see they know it's their fault but they will find a way to blame the women.
@cdyt7874 (72)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
guys who cheats doesn't have any contentment in their lives.it always has to do with with being masculine and their egos.In reality they're insecure. better understand men?if you wan to have a man like that , i would say, don't even think of having a man who always cheat.it will only make us girls ugly. have a good day.
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
no, not really.but it's a waste to have a guy who will only cheat you.you will love him, do anything for him, like he is your world and everything. then he will only cheat?!if you want someone seriously make sure he's not a cheater or else suffer if you like him so much even if he's like that, then sacrifice. good day.:)
@jan4ix (142)
• Latvia
17 Oct 10
Making another person your whiole world is what makes peapople go crazy and do stupid sh*** these days
@jan4ix (142)
• Latvia
16 Oct 10
Wow.. that was like " THATS EVIL.. DO not aproach it.. It mus be erased " are you realy that mad?
@jan4ix (142)
• Latvia
16 Oct 10
When a guy mets a girl, has fun with her, because hes interested in her, it always lead to some ties called relationship... When aproaching another girl while with these "relationship" is cheating right? I really dont care about all that stuff. The feeling when u face the first girl , is the same when facing the second one, which makes me cheat the first one .ahh this stuff is anoying... I just love girls... many of them.. its great.. theyre all loveble .. arent they?
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
yes in deed. but guys, in that way are kind of being insensitive.. imagine if your girl cheats? is that ok with you??
@jan4ix (142)
• Latvia
16 Oct 10
Hmmm.. I think the moment when she kinda "Cheats" me, will be the same when she dumps me :)
@jan4ix (142)
• Latvia
17 Oct 10
I hear everybody saying words like toys, and bad consequences. Cant you try thinking more differnt, try guessing what happens in others persons minds, NOT JUST " oh snap i got cheater, Im mad , because of that youre evil and useles " All what I hear from °you is your anger at men who kinda cheat.
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
17 Oct 10
In today's society both men and women cheat. They do it for many reasons, most of them are just selfish and don't consider their partner's feelings before cheating. But others may cheat for different reasons. They may cheat because they fear intimacy and they are running from it in the relationship. They may cheat because they feel the relationship will end eventually anyway they want to be the one to end it instead of it being the other way around. They may cheat because that's all they know, maybe their parents did the same thing. Or they may cheat just because they find it exciting. It's time for people to open their eyes and have morals. We need more men and women that can be committed and faithful in a relationship.
• United States
16 Oct 10
Men and women both cheat the same and each individual usually has a different reason.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
16 Oct 10
you cant just blame men for cheating. i think men and women do it equally. maybe we just hear more about men cheating?, not sure.
@grubder23 (271)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
kind off a one sided question. everybody cheats both men and women. its only a big deal though when men do it and it generally seems that way.