Girls are becoming bad !

India
October 20, 2010 8:25pm CST
I think that nowdays girls are becoming very bad , i dont know whether i could use the word nowadays in the previous line . A girl in my college she is telling that she is in love with my friend sincerely . But i saw her yesterday to be messing up with another guy in a Park . Here i used the word "messing up" cause i dont wanna use bad word here . Were they really becoming bad ?
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11 responses
• United States
21 Oct 10
Don't limit it to only girls, mate. How many times have guys done this? Except when a guy does it, he's a pimp. When a girl does it, she's a s*ut. It's completely unfair that guys can fool around and be jerks and get away with it but if a girl does anything, she is labelled a w*ore and pretty much a social leper. That being said, what that girl did is majorly messed up and I am really sorry that she said she liked your friend and lied. I hope your friend wasn't hurt by her rude and totally unnecessary actions. I think that people in general are just losing all sense of morality and decency, really.
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@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
24 Oct 10
Oh days to be kind and sincere has passed. We learn to forgive and forget, ok?
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
I don't think they're becoming bad. I think society just made them that way. Most girls these days are vulgar and seems to think that they need to do things differently. Gone are the days when girls just wait for a guy to approach them. Now, it's them who's doing all the moves. Well, I guess I'm trapped in the past because I'm not that confident to approach a guy. I still feel that it's important that the guy decide to approach me because it's a test on how much effort he is willing to risk for me - in the end if he sees my worth (because of the effort he had done for me) then I'd probably think that he would value me more.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
24 Oct 10
I don't think that this is something that is limited to just girls. In fact, I think that males are just as guilty of doing things like this as females are. I don't think that it is something that is limited to a certain age either, I think that older people make mistakes when trying to pursue a relationship just as often as people that are younger tend to do. However, I do think that it is true that there are less lasting relationships these days for this kind of a reason.
@rdm001 (69)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
What do you mean by messing up? It can vary from different situation on what they are actually doing. Like kissing? Like just flirting around? What?....
• India
21 Oct 10
Well maybe yes but guys are the same too. I mean there are good and bad people in everyone.It is up to the person to decide to be good or bad. Of course that doesn't mean we could expect the same thing from the partner as he me not be of the same mentality.Have a nice day and happy my lotting!! :)
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
21 Oct 10
Well if she is truely in love with your friend, she has a funny way of showing it. Love and friendship are serious issues. When we mess around with such things we can really hurt other people, and will eventually hurt ourselves. Are you going to tell your friend about what you saw? He may or may not believe you.
@SangsTurks (1444)
• India
21 Oct 10
Your statement is a very iggnorant one! Who has said that only boys can do all the mischievious things, If a girl does the same , she is not a good girl? There are two sides to the coin at all time. Be it a boy or a girl, Everybody is human an they have the same desires. Your friend was open enough to do things in the open, people do a lot of things behind closed doors but are known to the world as great people.
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
Maybe some ...but not all..maybe that kind of attitudes girls are showing was just copied from the boys...because boys nowadays are getting more BAD too!!
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
No, they aren't! The way she is acting doesn't represent all girls in the whole world. Maybe she is acting that way because of the influence of her environment -where she lives in and her family background. So I believe girls are not becoming bad.
• Canada
21 Oct 10
Hey that's not a really fair statement to make since there are guys out there that do the same thing as this girl did you speak of. I just don't think relationships mean as much as they used to to some people. It sucks when someone is being sincere with their partner and that party has no interest in being with them. Unfortuntely that's life and sometimes it happens and sucks but just be glad its not happening to you!