someone sent me...for the past few hours

@hushi22 (4928)
October 25, 2010 2:19am CST
Don't Start So Many Discussions "Responding to your discussions takes time away I could be spending on others' discussions" wait a minute i think i only posted two discussions for the past four hours. why did i receive this message?
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sid556
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
27 Oct 10
Hi Hushi, I would not worry about this person. He is being very ridiculous and bizarre. Your discussions are fine and a quick look at your profile would show him that he is wrong in his complaint. Geez, if no one started discussions then it would get pretty boring around here.
hushi22
@hushi22 (4928)
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27 Oct 10
thanks pal...whiw! i posted this discussion for a justification and am glad i met my goal. =)
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hushi22
@hushi22 (4928)
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28 Oct 10
hello pal! thanks for the friendship. yeah, no worries. i am a real person. hehehe. i have read the other discussion, but i preferred to be quiet about it. thank for dropping by and i wish we will both enjoy like the rest. =)
sid556
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
28 Oct 10
this is exactly why I defended you there. I could clearly see that you were the bigger person and you have proved me right.
inu1711
@inu1711 (5285)
• Romania
25 Oct 10
I wouldn't be angry with the person who sent you this message. I think she/he just wanted to tell you that she/he likes to respond to your discussions but she/he would like to respond to others discussions, too. I'd rather feel flatterd by the importance she/he gives to your discussions. Anyway, it was only a request from her/his part, it's not a warning or a threat. I think a polite answer to tell her/him that nobody forces anybody to read and respond to your discussions would be ok.
hushi22
@hushi22 (4928)
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27 Oct 10
@ mythman: and what do you want me to do? just not post discussions? duh... you can check my profile how many discussions i answered. besides it's none of your business. you are not the admin here. the admin didnt even warn me or something that means i am not doing anything wrong. got it? @inu: yeah. to be honest i wasn't angry but i was shocked and also found it a bit funny. if i was angry i should've posted his username on this discussions and said bad words, right? but i didnt. i only wanted to seek justification from the rest of the mylotters what their views are about this matter. i wanted to know whether the action of this person is sound or not. actually, there are many other mylotters who post (i find nonsense) discussions from time to time but i dont mind because sometimes what is nonsense to me may be sensible to others and what is sensible to me may be nonsense to others and because i understand that some people are fond of starting a new discussion and some are fond of responding. it's just a matter of respect. =)
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hushi22
@hushi22 (4928)
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28 Oct 10
btw, i didn'tknow a message of politeness or request doesnt contain "please" or something like that.
Dr. Ann
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
30 Oct 10
Deleting the negative discussion was a good idea. It is hard to understand why people feel the need to be critical of others here. Most people are very nice.
theSids
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Oct 10
Hi Hushi, on the lighter side - the sender is jealous of your points and rankings... needs to reach and overtake you on them! Seriously, I am not sure but I think you post rarely and even if you are regular, there is no reason why you shouldn't post more discussions. That would help me reach out to you more often :) because as of now, it is mostly others' discussions that I meet you. Cheers, theSids.
zoekling
@zoekling (70)
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
i totally agrees with you,i think its just someone whO is jealous..
hushi22
@hushi22 (4928)
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27 Oct 10
i didnt ask you to answer my discussion. above all, i didnt ask you be annoyed. so cheer up and enjoy mylotting. =)
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thanks1961
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
25 Oct 10
Hi dear, I prefer commenting rather than starting with new topics. Most of the days, I don’t do it and if find good, then I will start a new discussion topic. I used to get so many responses as well. As we get responses, I am particular that I should respond to it and or I want to send at least a ‘thank you’ to the responder. So I do it regularly. But if we don’t start a discussion, and just responding other’s discussions, it is little more relaxed and optional too. So I prefer more on discussions than starting with new topics. But rarely I do it also. I can see people starts 10-15 new discussions and some are very particular on responding also. I know few are having many discussions and they are completely respond to all my comments. So, few are so much involved. They start several discussions and also they respond to all their topics. I found good it is. Regards, Thank-s