Best Responses! how do you feel about it?

Philippines
November 14, 2010 3:10am CST
I was browsing over top discussions for the day when i happen to glance at the best responses page of my account. Something seemed to urge me to open it and voila! i found out i got about 30 best responses already. It just made me so happy to find that out. I went back to each response i had made which were marked as best and i found out that there are so many who also posted their comments to such discussions too. Well, it made me sort of grin from ear to ear, it got me so happy that several mylotters find my postings to their discussions, well, good perhaps? thru marking it as as the best response. How about you? what did you feel or how will you feel if your response is mark as best out of the 40 plus or so who commented on a discussion?
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16 responses
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
14 Nov 10
If my response is chosen to be the best then I really feel glad about it. I will thank the person who posted the topic for choosing my post as the best among a lot of responses from his or her post. It will make me feel enthusiastic to post quality responses to other discussions then and it will motivate me more to post a lot to other topics as well.
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• Philippines
18 Nov 10
hello aaronfyzeon! you know what? you not only gave the best candid response to my discussion but you also triggered something in me, which i had somehow forgotten in my happiness for getting 30 best responses. I'd say candid because you are true to yourself and i might as well say, you speak out the truth for the rest of us, who feel really glad for getting a best response to our posted discussion. Moreover, i am also honest in saying i had forgotten to thank those who have marked my response as best, something which you somehow reminded me of, lol. I am just sad to note that others don't really care whether they get a best response or not, just because it doesn't give them an earning! I am really sad about that because it just shows that they're in here, for the monetary gain only. They had somehow miss the fun. That of interacting with other mylotters, that of posting quality discussion for the sake of relaying quality and good information, not merely because of financial gain. They surely miss the fund indeed. Well, its their loss, not ours my dear aaronfyzeon! hope to see you around some more.. happy mylotting!
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• Philippines
18 Nov 10
hello again aaronfyzeon! sometimes its not about the length of your post and its wordy content that really matters but how you have relayed your thoughts on the subjet, that really takes into consideration. Your post was short and concise but it turned out to have conveyed a far sincerest and true to the heart response from you. hope to hear from you more in the coming days..happy mylotting..u have just waken up, and i am going to sleep now, lol..happy mylotting!
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
Whoah! Thank you so much for making my RESPONSE the BEST RESPONSE from a topic which tackles about BEST RESPONSES! I hope you notice why I put it in all caps. It could only get better! This is a one real great news again for me to see my own point of view is being regarded as a great response by someone. I just woke up, read the emails and I see the Congratulations word in the subject of the email from myLot. A word that I seldom see in my email. It will really make my day now to post a lot more quality responses. I was just a bit bewildered because my answer to your post is so brief and concise. I really appreciate that you actually pointed out what I really would want to post more aside from what I have posted. I would have to agree with you as well that these people who are only after the monetary purpose of this great site are not thanking or at least sending a comment back to the one who posted the topic or discussion. But if that is their means of being happy and enjoying MyLot then let them be. Thank you once again and you really made my day so bright.
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@arielbsn (199)
• Philippines
14 Nov 10
I will be glad if I can have even only one best response and to have 30 best responses is great. I had 1 best response before but it was deleted due to violation of terms, not me, but the one who posted it so I have 0 best response now. How I wish I will have a best response again coz it makes me feel important and I feel I'm adding values to discussions.
@narayan2006 (2954)
• India
14 Nov 10
Your achievement in getting awarded more number of best responses indicates that more number of mylotters have recognized the worth of the content of your responses.It is very positive sign of your progress and performance.you must feel proud of your skill of sharing good thoughts and ideas in most effective ways. I hope, you would continue to get more such rewards and recognitions in coming days. Thanks.
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• Philippines
14 Nov 10
hello narayan2006! thank you for you inspiring words, that is indeed a comforting and motivating thought, that many mylotters recognize the effort i have poured into most of the responses i have posted. I am proud of that but i would still continue to strive to better my responses and my writing style.
• Singapore
14 Nov 10
Congratulations on you getting so many BRs!!! I'm happy for you :) Well for me, so far I've only received one and I was really happy. Even though it was only one, I still felt happy and had a sense of achievement.
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@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
14 Nov 10
for me it was normal, nothing special because it does not increase my income on my lot
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• United States
14 Nov 10
Getting a best response feels happy for me. I'm happy that someone benefited and enjoyed my answer enough that they'd mark it a best response. And I usually take my time and effort to give a well-crafted answers, so when someone actually marks it as a best response, it makes me feel a whole lot better! I don't have many responses yet because I've only been on myLot for a few days. So I'm trying to give really good responses to all the discussions I respond to so that I can be the best response.
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• India
15 Nov 10
Well... I don't get many best responses as many person just forget to choose best response ...they just care about getting more and more responses from user's ...even I have just started one discussions about it... But once or twice I have got and I feel very nice when I get ...and it's always give us boost to give more and more nice response... Thanks...
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
19 Nov 10
if i gian a best response is ok but i am not soaffected about this feature here on mylot in particular!!May be yif you had best rsponses means that you was helpful for those discussion and so this is the bets feeling related to it!!
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
15 Nov 10
It really pleased me and get back to the starter of the discussion from which I got a br mark just to let them it was really appreciated. And personally, when i got it, I go back to the topic and yes being selected from most of the responses makes us feel proud. For me, I'm proud for I know that what I have been written there was acknowledged and hit the issue's purpose. My opinion or views had touched someones life.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Nov 10
I think that it is nice when I find out that I've got a best response. I know that the reason that I feel good about it is because of the fact that what I've said is something that really has helped out someone else. That said, I know that there is really no reward for getting a best response. However, the warm fuzzy feeling that I get whenever I get an email notification that I've recieved a best response is really good enough for me.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
14 Nov 10
To get a best response is great. Especially when the post has dozens and dozens of responses, over a period of time. I think that the fact that the thread poster waits a bit of time before choosing a best response really shows that they want to give someone who deserves it the post, instead of tagging the first good post. If they have a lot of posts in the thread, then they really do have their work cut out for them indeed to choose a post that is head and shoulders above the rest. I won't lose any sleep however if I do not ever get a best response. However, there are times where I get one and I am pleased. Especially in the cases where it looks as if I earned it, because the topic has a lot of quality responses. So it is not an easy thing to get. Not an easy thing at all. Still it is a nice little thing, especially when the discussions are very large.
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• China
15 Nov 10
Yeah,it is a good feeling to get best responses,especially for me .I seem doomed to isolated by best resoponses.I just have 3 or 4 so far .Even though i tried my best to respond each discussion ,i just couldn't get it ,which has been confused me for a long time .Anyway,i shall not give up discussing with others .One day i will make 100 best responses .let's see .LOL
@vangie26 (445)
• Philippines
15 Nov 10
Being appreciated always makes me feel overwhelmed. It makes me read again and again and glad that I had shared a thought that is worthy to someone who marked me as best response. And it only shows that the one who posts really find time to read the comments :-)
15 Nov 10
I am new in my lot and I have not had a best experience rated yet so I dont know how I'll feel. Maybe I'll feel special since my thought and response was rated as the best especially among a 40 plus people who made a comment to a discussion.
@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
14 Nov 10
getting a best response doesn't really affect me much anyway. It is nice when I get them, and it is great to give them, but since it doesn't affect my earnings one way or the other then it isn't a big deal anyway. I have some discussions that I still need to give the best response yet, but I am not really in a hurry, and besides, giving the best response is just an ego booster, more than anything. I get more pleasure giving the best response than getting it. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.
• United States
14 Nov 10
It will definitely boost my confidence, when I notice that my comments are the best for 30 discussions. I have yet to make that mark, because my days with MyLot have been considerably lower. Today marks my third day with MyLot, and I've built up about 65 great discussion responses. Only two discussions were started by me, but I look to participate more as time goes on. I think you have done a great job Deriellevc. Also, it must have really surprised you, when you just checked this figures out of coincidence. I bet your confidence levels have soared a bit when your amazing responses was rewarded.