You are too good for him.

Hi ElicBxn, Your brother seems happy to be sowing his wild oats again, without pressure of a wife. He is not yet serious about anyone but himself having a good time. When he is bore with this one or that one, he has no problems moving on to the next unsuspecting girl. They are too good for him, because he has the upper hand; he knows that he is not serious about the girl, but she is clueless and probably falls in love before he lower the boom on her heart and smashes it to pieces. Your brother maybe a nice guy, but not if you are dating him.

I spent some time with my bro recently which is a rare thing. I've always sort of admired him, respected him and looked up to him even thought he's younger than me. I usually email him and he rarely gets back to me and when he does he makes silly comments about how much older than him I am...there are 4 years between us. I've let him know I'm bored with his comments and no longer find them amusing but he takes no notice. During his recent visits he gave me a ticking off for something I did wrong when I was 16. I could not believe the carp that was coming out of his mouth and he was angry. I was reminded of another time when I overheard him sharing an assumption he had with another sibling and he was so far off base it was just stupid. I've reached a conclusion that my brother is a moron and an idiot who doesn't have a clue and I don't even like him now. I have a sister who is a psychologist and we get on quite well but she is quite often patronising towards me. My other sister, the eldest of us is very controlling. So I guess the answer is No, I cannot say anything nice about my siblings, except the sister closest to me.

Hey, a cop has to have some persistence, so who knows...

my bro's a good guy..but he's never found one i'd say was "too good" for him. he seems to have the prince charming problem where he meets these dregs and try to help them and improve their lives(treat them like ladies),and they promptly take advantage of him and take him for granted. however,they have to get past the "evil sister" (me) and if i see that happing,i will tell them where they better go. i do wish he'd find somebody that doesn't see him as a wallet tho... *sigh*

I stay out of my siblings relationships! All three are married and I have no complaints about them! I did have complaints about my first brother-in-law but I never said anything until after my sister went through the divorce. I once told a friend he was making a bad mistake with the woman he was dating. He was not happy with me and she found out! I was in some hot water for awhile with my friend! I had to apologize to his girlfriend for me opening my mouth! It was not a fun thing to do but I did it! Never have I gone to anyone one I know and told them what I think about their gf/br or spouse ever again! I will in conversations with friends and families about what I think of so and so's bf/gf or spouse! As long as I don't do it to their face or to someone who will blab it out! I learned my lesson!

Well, as I read this. It seems that your brother not contented one or more girls. But if he is responsible enough I think that relationship that he have at the moment will be last longer or a year longer... Have a nice day!

Only about one, but I won't. She is just strange, but she is my sister. I am glad that at this time your brother has such a quality person in his life. My sister's ex husband, who was a jerk, ended up marrying a former military police. They are not always happy, but she manages him really well. He deserves it. LOL

I don't have close relationship with my brothers they don't seem like it if I talk to their girlfriend, wife etc they also never talk to me about my brothers maybe my brothers told them not to, I don't know LOL I don't think I can say anything (nice or not) about them then

I try to stay out of my siblings relationships, seems to cause way too much trouble!

Actually my brother and I had a rocky start when we were kids but now we are almost inseparable. He is always helping me out when I need something fixed in my house, he has helped me with my physical problems that I have and even went with me to emergency and stayed there all night with me and my mom. So I guess in my opinion I can't see one of his girlfriends that was too good for him, I think that he is too good for them. Most of the girls he dates are out to get something because he has a good job and he gives way too much when he is with someone. He is the type to rush in head first and do whatever the girls want and then gets dumped or cheated on. I don't know he has always had bad luck with girls but then again he doesn't really look for good girls he likes the wild ones and there in lies his problem. I think though that the one girl he has now has done him a world of good. She is very sweet, family oriented and gets along with all of us plus she doesn't mind him hanging around me and my mom all the time. In fact she comes along and has family outings with us and we get along like we have known each other forever. So I guess she is a perfect match for him at the moment. Hopefully this will be the one that he marries because I really get a long with her and he seems extra happy with her and that is what is important.

i think that my sisters are both good girls. and i can say that my young sister is too good for her bf. she is very sweet and very caring and i dont think that her bf deserves her that much. i guess that there is no guy that is too good for my sister. she is a good person, and very caring so i dont think what a guy can want more. my sis is a great girl and deserves a great guy like her. and my other sister too.

Everything has been arranged by our God. We can meet someone but we can not request or ask for someone to marry with you. ha! ha! ha! I think this topic has been repeated many times in the discussion. The relationship in between girls and boys, men and women are very complicated. To avoid such complicated relationship in our life, many people prefer to become a Monk.

Hi, About my brother we had very nice relation when we were kids. I think after becoming adults brother and sister share good relationship compared to two brothers. After my marriage we used to share good relation but later he got married and some how we have distanced. He lives with his family and I live with my family. Don't know exactly I think after he got married we became much more far to each other.

That is some good insight you have about the relationships of your brother. Being a brother or sister of someone sometimes makes you feel different about them. In the general public, much of the views toward your brother should be different. What he behaves like at home doesn't necessarily reflect what he'll be like to girlfriends. He might have a weakness in relationships, but some hard work and good lessons will help him succeed. I suspect that he should be getting better at them as he has had so many.

i am the same like you... it is good that you can become a neutral person and express your true feelings about your own brother without being biased... not many people will be able to do that... they will side with their own family members no matter how bad or wrong the person is... but not me... i will speak honestly about my own family members as well to an outsider if i have to without covering anything... for me, honesty is the best policy... take care and have a nice day...

I can't think of anything bad about my brother and sister, they're wonderful people. Of course, if you'd asked me when I was ten years old I would have had quite a different attitude! My family doesn't do well with marriage, though. My sister's been divorced twice, my brother should have divorced long ago (but a vow is a vow) and my oldest brother (now deceased) had a very rocky marriage. I've been divorced, too. So I guess that's our one big fault, choosing the wrong people. That's the only bad thing I can say about my sibs!

The only sibling i had that i claimed was my sister & she was killed in a wreck in 1962. I have a worthless half brother that i do not claim.

Don't think I can say anything about either of my brothers - they are both preachers. My son is a different story. His divorce from the mother of his 2 sons was final back in July. He had moved out several months (nearly a year) previously. The cause of the split is a matter of "he says/she says". Anyway, he's bringing his girlfriend to our house for Thanksgiving dinner. It will be just the 4 of us, we hope. My husband is anxious that the ex might show up.

Hi sweetie. At this point in time, i don't think i can say nice things about some of my siblings. As i am the youngest i have to learn my place. Yeah right, i am going to say that one of them should really get rid of her husband as he tend to get on my nerves. Not good for him, though. Hope that girl teaches your brother how to behave though. TATA.

I think that you should persuade your brother doing good to his girlfriend ,otherwise he will regret .