The thinline between a joke and a lie...

Philippines
December 17, 2010 7:59am CST
Our company is sponsoring a charitable institution wherein all regular employees must give a mandatory donation of P200. There was my co-worker, a casual employee like me me doesn't seem to want to spend a single cent from his savings. It has been a usual thing for us to joke about his being "tight-fisted". The memo say that for casual employees ANY AMOUNT will do. My other co-worker who was one of his closest friend played a joke by telling him that he must pay P200 as contribution. Innocently the poor guy went on the long queue in the automated teller machine near our office to withdraw the amount of P200. When he gave it to our co-worker, she instantly broke it and told him it was a joke. He was so embarrassed that he didn't take his money back. He is in fact mad about what happened. The other friend didn't expect him to react that way since it's been years that they are together at work. What do you think about this situation? When do we stop or how do we know we cannot throw jokes easily even though we have done it for times already?
2 responses
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
17 Dec 10
Jokes like this are mean. On the other hand, when he discovered it was a joke, he had the opportunity to get his money back. Pride prevented this. Seems like there are lessons all around for everyone on this one.
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• Philippines
18 Dec 10
I think so too. Maybe, he didn't mind in the past but this time, he was really fed up.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
17 Dec 10
THese things are not to be joked about.If they had been years together, then it is even more unfair that this person told him this small lie.My experience has shown me that it is better not to joke at all especially in sensitive issues like this. THis can cause a strain in relationship and unless the person does not care then it is better to be straight and not joke like this.You would end up losing a relationship , a friend for the sake of a silly giggle.
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• Philippines
18 Dec 10
Thanks for the post. Yeah, I so agree with you. I sympathized him...