huge fight with bf... I guess we never dd resolve anything...

As I dont know what might be the reason for the fight but the thing is like in a relationship, misunderstandings arise when we expect alot from the other. As you didn't mention what went wrong between you guys, It's not possible for me to give an idea to deal with it. But never ever speak a word when you are in angry coz that will hit the heart so hard that you cant take it back.

So sorry to hear that you are in an awkward situation about your love one. I think misunderstanding cannot be avoided no matter how you love a person. I think that is something everyone should understand here. The thing is the unresolved issues remain unresolved which makes everything in a bad taste and makes the partnership in a bad light. I think there is only one solution about this and that is dialogue. A serious one that is open and with the least emotional outburst since that is what prevents you two to talk sanely with each other. I think that if you really love him allow him to defend himself in front of you then understand his side. On the other hand, if the reasoning is not really acceptable to you then, I guess you really have to meet halfway on this one to agree on your issues. Leaving this issues open and unresolved will just haunt you every now and then.

It is your choice my friend. You can either break or resolve it out. If you won't deal with it now, the pain grows and it will become bigger and bigger until you becomes numb and the love will no longer love.

I think the only way you could settle that is by not keeping too much emotion inside you. I guess both have bottled up emotions because of self-control to the point that now both of you are bursting from too much bottled up emotions. I think if you want to keep the relationship, you should show him who you are and not just who he wants you to be. But of course, remember to do it with respect. Avoid using curses or words that are rude or hurtful. Remember that words when spoken could never be recovered. Think before you speak. I hope everything would be settled soon. It's tough to be spending the love month without true love.

Oh god. that is something that i can relate to sometimes. see its like this. when you have a fight or an argument, you tend to be angry and see your partner in a toatlly different light as someone who is negative to you at the moment. this creates a kind of hatred cause you are angry. if you don't resolve it, it simply piles up and its more of the negative stuff that you can remember than positive. try talking to your partner about your issues now. try to speak out and solve them. respect what each other like and come to a conclusion as to what can be done for a given situation which has cause the fight to occur in the first place? now that you are in deep into the problems, after all the talking, both of you promise and try your best to let bygones be bygones and forget the past. start everything anew and fresh. a problem arises later on, you know exactly what to do- COMMUNICATE.all the best

ask him what he want to do......??