Why everyone wants to know how much others are earning?

@scheng1 (24650)
Singapore
February 15, 2011 3:24am CST
It seems that everyone is so eager to find out how much others are making, when actually it is none of their business. Everyone knows that the most important part is their own earnings, since that is their own money, which they can use for paying bills, buy a new cell phone, pay for a good lunch or just to save it. It does not matter whether others are making $100,000 or a dollar. We cannot spend that money anyway. Yet there are discussion threads about to find out how much others are earning in this website or that website. Why do you think everyone is so eager to find out the earnings of others? What purpose does it serve?
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24 responses
• United Arab Emirates
15 Feb 11
well u have specified the topic to be discussed in regards to this website only otherwise i would have definitely said that this part is totally for men, as we all know women are meant to hid their age so men are know to inquire about how much is he earning, but in this topic i must say i havnt found any1 curious to know on the subject...
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
15 Feb 11
Hi Mezsalman, I think you have made a very good observation. Men are probably happier to see that women earn less than them, and happier still to discover that the women they like are younger than them. I think the curiosity to know the earnings of others is too widespread. if we could, we would want to know how much our neighbors are earning, how much our colleagues are earning, and the earnings of all our friends and relatives.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
18 Feb 11
Perhaps they will get motivate and work harder when they know they can get as much as others?Or they want to know whether it is worthwhile or not to get involved in.It is not necessary and they do not have to do it but if they are willing to do so, just let them be.They are the only who knows better for themselves.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
19 Feb 11
When it comes to online traffic it is always not because of the content is good or what but first is to look for a people and promote the site/content as much as you could.Good or bad quality will come later.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
21 Feb 11
Bad articles will be rejected before it could be published. I am agree that recently there are too many articles that discussing about unnecessary and whatsoever topics which give you no information at all.
• Nigeria
18 Feb 11
What you've just posted is the damn truth @scheng1
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
16 Feb 11
I have never been particularly comfortable talking about earnings. It is one thing if it is asked on a loan application or something like that, but if it is just part of a general discussion, it should be left alone. If you want to talk about the things you want to buy if you had the money then you can do that, but to ask just to ask in really not acceptable. As far as what is earned on a website, if you are trying to get referrals to that site, it would help to tell them what you earn. But I don't see any other purpose in sharing that kind of information unless you are just excited about just getting paid and want to share it with anyone.
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
17 Feb 11
I know I for one like to know that it is possible to really make money. Especially now that I am not able to work it is important. I see no purpose in telling someone I was able to reach a .10 cashout on a site, but if I actually received a large payout, I might be willing to share it, just because I'm excited about it! I really need to know more about the techniques myself. Talk to you later!
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
18 Feb 11
Hi Daeckardt, in that case, you should join the forum at digitalpoint. Those super affiliate marketers and internet marketers are gathering there. Most of them are willing to share their tips in making money, as well as their mistakes and expenses. They just do not share their earnings. I remember one affiliate marketer talking about his mistake in product selection. He wasted money on more than 600 articles which he commissioned the ghostwriters to write for him, yet cannot get a single sale. Then he gives advice not to waste money on certain niches. These are the kind of information that can help you, not how much a person can make from affiliate marketing.
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
17 Feb 11
Hi Daeckardt, I do not see any reason for anyone to find out the earnings of other members too. i can understand if anyone wants to know how to make more money in Mylot or other websites. That is a sharing of knowledge, not the actual earnings. I think knowing the techniques to earn is more important than knowing how much other people are making.
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
16 Feb 11
maybe it is natural if we have that curiosity. we want to make a compare that are we better than other. if it is not how to make it better or how to increase our earnings. it is money is the number one interested of this kind of people
• Slovenia
16 Feb 11
I think it's mainly because those people that usually ask how much others are making are simly asking out of pure curiosity or either they want to find out how is this possible for them, so maybe they can try it out too.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
17 Feb 11
Hi Apocalyptic, those who are curious to know how to earn will ask about how you can earn from this website or that website. They will not ask about how much anyone makes. It is the same thing everywhere. In some forums for affiliate marketers, you can see that those who ask about how to go about affiliate marketing are serious about it. Those who just want to know how much others are making are just busybody.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
18 Feb 11
Hi Ap0calyptic, that is what I do not understand about those people. They do not seem to realize that earnings is just part of the equation. Saving and investment skills are more important. It is not a matter of how much a person makes, but how much he saves and invests that counts. I mean a person can make a million dollars per year, and still die in poverty, due to his habit of overspending. Another person can make just a thousand dollars per month, and live like a pauper for a few years, before emerging as the richest person in the region. It is just a matter of personality, belief and habits.
• Slovenia
17 Feb 11
I agree, but there are still some people who ask. Maybe it's just a plain competition for them to outrank you or something.
@etaurus (26)
• Nigeria
18 Feb 11
You know people wanna get tips on how to improve their earnings online too. Guess that is the fuss about what is your earning stats all about.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
18 Feb 11
Hi Etaurus, if they have asked how to earn more money instead of asking the earnings of everyone, that is much better. Most people are not selfish. If they can earn a few thousand dollars per month, they will not mind helping another person earns a few hundred dollars per month by sharing the methods. The problem is that all online income need us to put in effort. More so with affiliate marketing and article writing. There is no shortcut.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
19 Feb 11
Hi Etaurus, your English is passable. I think if you put in more effort, you can even earn some money from writing articles. It may be tough for you in the beginning, but you will have the ability to write in better English, and write faster too. Money is a great motivator. If you can improve English, and earn from it, might as well you do so.
• Nigeria
18 Feb 11
You know people believe in facts and proves. They ask you your earning stat, get a positive answer and they go ahead with your methods- that is if you give it out and they believe you. Sorry, forgive my english.
• Singapore
15 Feb 11
For me, besides trying to find out the legitimacy of the site, I think it's also good to benchmark yourself against others to see whether you are on the right track. You can also learn from the other person how he/she manage that amount, how much time did they spend on it, what are their strategies. The amount a person makes will only be interesting to a person who wants to do as well as the other person.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
16 Feb 11
Hi Sydneyhazelton, actually the best question is: how to earn, not how much a person is earning. I mean the same thing in article writing. The most important factor is the seo knowledge, and the second most important factor is gaining traffic from the right source. The earning of others hardly matter to us, if we are doing things the right way.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
15 Feb 11
I have a friend is like that, she used to ask me how much I make when I got new jobs, it is the only thing that she wanted to know about my job. When I didn't want to tell her, then she would be mad. But when I ask her back, how much she made, she wouldn't tell me so she brought me all the excuses like it is not confirming yet/I don't know if I am staying in this job... I think I would like to know how much my friends make but it is not a must, I do't care if people don't tell.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
16 Feb 11
Hi Mermaidivy, I would not like to call this kind of persons a friend at all. It is obvious she does not have your interest at heart. She either wants to lap up to you because you earn big money, or she looks down on you because you make less money. She may even spread your income to everyone, telling everyone how you change since getting a well paid job. I just hate people who are too nosy about private matter such as income, savings and debt. These are very personal, and should not influence a friendship at all.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
Well, they ask about it to know if people really make money online. They don't ask for purposely want to infiltrate something scheme but to inspired themselves to earn money
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
22 Feb 11
Hi Aerous, most people are concerned about scam websites. This is understandable. It is very painful to spend a whole month on doing something, and not getting paid for it. However, the methods of making money online is more important. If we can write articles for long term passive income, it really does not matter where we post the content, we can still earn from it.
@nijolechu (1842)
• Canada
16 Feb 11
I don't know why many people are like that and want to know what the earnings of other people are. I guess maybe because they are just nosy and want to know that. I don't usually tell people that because I think that it is private information and I don't ask people how much they make. Maybe it gives them comfort in their life if they are making more than other people.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
16 Feb 11
Hi Nijolechu, one of my aunts belong to this group of nosy people. It is not as if she wants to help if you are not making enough money. She just wants to make a person feels bad, so that she can tell people how capable her kids are. Everyone hates her for her nosiness, and ill intention. If she could keep her mouth shut after knowing the salary of others, other people may not hate her so much.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
16 Feb 11
Because the world is misled into believing what an individual does is only worth 'the money the individual gets for it.' That translates into further believing that the place at which one does what one does should be decided-upon by how much money one gets when one does it there. The world judges seeds by their fruits, and the fruits are more-satisfying when the plot-of-land is highly-enriched. Seeing what 'others' earn gives clues to the possible richness of the fields they work in.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
17 Feb 11
Hi Mythociate, I agree that many people see only the money, but not the persons holding the money. It is sad that many religious leaders are thinking of the same thing. They always encourage giving, meaning that the members of the religions have to give money to the organization. I think that is very bad of them. Instead of teaching people to do good deeds, and to put faith in God, they are indirectly begging for money, and send the wrong message to the attendants.
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
18 Feb 11
Hi Mythociate, nice term "Prosperity Gospel"! I think those pastors will focus more on the riches of Job, Abraham and King David instead of talking about Jesus. After all, those were the rich and faithful servants of God. They had lots of servants, gold, silver, cattle and whatever material goods available at that time. Comparing their lives to that of Jesus, Jesus seemed not that well-off, even though he is not poor.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
17 Feb 11
Well, kind of. The Prosperity Gospel teaches to give as an 'announcement' of the prosperity you share in. There's an obvious initiative to the Church-leaders to preach what overflowing riches are available to their followers, because people taking of that overflow naturally have larger overflows of there own (which are then most-likely passed to the Prosperity Gospel preachers, who then preach better and/or to a larger audience, who then make their offerings, etc.) But sometimes they seem to lose touch with reality---leading followers to believe their money'll just 'float down from Heaven' as long as they pray-n-stuff. Thus 'Prosperity Gospel'-preaching is sort of a misnomer (making the 'Prosperity Gospel' seem to teach a different Good News). The Good News IS NOT that Our Father wants us to prosper; the Good News is that God loves us as much as he does Jesus Christ (who WAS NOT A POOR MAN). Following Jesus' example, we are also NOT POOR; if that means prosperity, nice but sometimes prosperity makes itself into a babel-tower (tower of confusion) that tries to set itself above God.
@globaldoc (858)
• Philippines
17 Feb 11
That is really a very bad habit of many people. Tendency is that they get curious, then it would follow that they would compare, then the next would come envy.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
17 Feb 11
Hi Globaldoc, yes, after getting envious, they start to talk bad about those who can make more money. They start to spread gossips, and yet can still put on a smiling face in front of those who are richer than them. That is why so many people are miserable. Those who listen to those gossips and believe them are harboring bad thoughts also.
• United States
15 Feb 11
Hey scheng1, I believe that in the modern world, people are much more competitive than they were years ago. One might want to use this statistic to compare him or herself to others. However, not all people are competitive. Some people are just plain nosy, which are probably the ones you are referring to. However, not all people are nosy. Some newcomers, like me, might be curious to how much you can make on myLot, methods of earning, etc. It may be common knowledge for experienced myLotters like you, but not for the new ones like me. I am still learning XD
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
16 Feb 11
Hi MichaelNil, knowing how to make money is different from knowing how much a person makes. It is obviously more important to know how to reach payout every month, and how to increase the earnings, since that will impact on our personal finance. I think you have more or less mastered the trick of earning from mylot. As least you are writing very lengthy post. That is the real trick to earning in Mylot. Sometimes you will see us beating round the bush, using a thousand words to say something that can better be said in twenty words. That is the reason, since Mylot pays for the length of the post, not the value of the information.
@emarkoff (11)
• United States
16 Feb 11
Well, none according to me or God. In His eyes, we are all equal. Therefore, such activity is frivolous. I think people who want to do this are trying to equate the worth of individuals with their financial earnings, which has no real value.
@browneyed (2522)
• United Kingdom
15 Feb 11
I can only speak for myself; when I read how much people are making online, it inspires and motivates me - it demonstrates to me what is possible.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
15 Feb 11
Hi Browneyed, in fact many writing sites are using page views to inspire new writers, instead of showing how much others are making. I think for mylot, the admin uses the number after our id to show how active we are. That should serve as adequate encouragement. i mean those with numbers more than 10,000 definitely earn more than those with numbers less than a hundred.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
15 Feb 11
It used to be considered very rude to ask someone how much they earned and also rude to brag about it. Those discussions are often deleted because someone jumps in with a referral link. I think people who are so interested in what others earn might be greedy and think about money more than is healthy. Plus, they have no manners.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
15 Feb 11
Hi Dragon54u, it is still considered very rude to ask about salary in real life. Only those town gossipers with nothing better to do would do that. One of my aunts belong to this category. She likes to brag about how much her children are making, even though others with better manners are wondering why they earn so little. She also likes to know how much others are making or how much their kids are making. Most people understate for fear of arousing jealousy.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
15 Feb 11
Hi scheng, That how much you earn through your salary or business gives them mental solace and feel secure economically. Or else what is the business that you ask me my earning. And doing so, I mean knowing the other person's salary you start thinking about your own. Actually this is entirely a psychological thing of asking such thing. There is a saying that you should not ask the earning of a man and the age of a woman.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
16 Feb 11
Hi Krajibg, I think we should expand the saying a bit. We should not ask the earning and saving account of a man, the age, the weight and earning of a woman. The only exception is when they are very old, then it is ok to ask about the age. Old people are very proud of their old age. Actually there is no need to know how much others are making. There will always be people with lower income than us, and people with very high income than us. The income of many big bosses in listed companies is a known fact. Even if they do not say anything, the newspaper will report about it.
@Liliac26 (557)
• Romania
15 Feb 11
I think most people are just trying to find out what are the most profitable sources of income, or to confirm to themselves that their online efforts will be rewarded at some point. I for one don't care how much money others are making, but I think it's because I'm mostly here for the fun and sharing :).
@naija4real (1291)
15 Feb 11
I think the reason why people find information about others earning is to enable them determine if that is the business to invest one's effort, money and time. I am into different online business and my intention is to be successful. Since I want to be successful it is important I get accurate information from other people who are old member in the business. This is to enable me avoid falling victims to scams and all kinds of internet fraud. The internet is filled with too much scam site that it is only a person who take his time to investigate and gather reliable information that can make a success out of the world wide web ( the internet )
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
16 Feb 11
Hi Naija4real, actually knowing how much others are making does not matter in a sense. Even if I know that Problogger can make more than $11,000 in a month from Amazon affiliate marketing, I know that i cannot do the same thing. If I can earn just a hundred dollars per year from Amazon affiliate marketing, I would be very happy with it. The same with article writing and mylot.
• India
15 Feb 11
They are asking about other's earning as they are not making good enough for themselves. This might be the main reason behind this activity.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
16 Feb 11
Hi Akhileshebay, I think some people are just plain lazy. They know that Mylot pays, and article writing also pay, yet they are too lazy to do anything. Some people even spend hours just surfing and reading, instead of writing posts after posts to make money. That is plain laziness. I mean for those who are serious about making money, they would set a target, so that they can reach payout every month. No point keep asking about how much others earn, and yet refuse to put in an ounce of effort.