Drunk!-who has to Pay?

February 20, 2011 3:23pm CST
I had set aside 2 hours tonight to catch up with you guys, and i was only getting started and a good friend of mine arrived at my house door.He had been out drinking,hence this subject!?. Anyway i cant just blame him it was a works day out, and he got to pissed and they got him a taxi home, only he didnt go home he came to my home.So now hes taking a coffee and while i do this. Then im taking him home, i will wait with him a while, but it means i cant catch up with you, so i will in the morning! :) sorry myloters!!
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10 responses
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
LOL. i though it was you who got drunk and then something bad happened that's why you have to pay for something wrong you did due to drunkenness. anyway, i hope you'd really find time to catch up. see you around peep! and good luck with that friend of yours!
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21 Feb 11
Ive catching up ever since!! LoL!!, no worries everything was fine.I was just starting mylot, when he came to my door drunk, he had been out with his worker friends, so i made him a black coffee and wrote a few words then took him home. Even then i thought i could have got back mylotting but i stayed a while to make sure he was sound asleep, as last time he nearly set his house on fire!! thanks for your comments...
@cream97 (29175)
• United States
21 Feb 11
Hi. jasper40t. I am so glad that he came to your house rather than going back home or to somewhere else. It is no telling what might could have happened to him. I am sorry that you missed myLot for this situation too. That is okay. When he is sober, he will still be weary and all. I think that he has to be careful about drinking and getting so high. It can be dangerous for him. And for people that he can come into contact, like you. When he gets sober have a serious talk to him about what has happened. And tell him the danger of what drinking can cause too. I am sorry about your day. I hope that it gets better after this whole thing passes off.
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21 Feb 11
Hi Again, maybe if he didnt go to mine first, he could have put his oven on like he did years ago, nearly killed his dog and was lucky it was only smoke.Yes thats why i wrote it, i wanted to mylot, not take him home etc. I cant think where this other person got their info from as i was not having fun nor earning money nor getting anyone to comment for me?, i really dont get some people, im not angry, maybe they got it wrong, im just glad ive got nice mylotters like most of you who are helping me each time rather than making me go off it. Thanks once again for your comments.By the way the girl who had to many men going to her house has since stopped it and i saved her from a visit from police.....
@sid556 (31018)
• United States
21 Feb 11
Hi Jasper, "Well, he is lucky to have a good friend like you that will help him out and see him home safely. I guess he knew that or he wouldn't of landed himself on your doorstep. I live within walking distance from the bars and I always told my friends to come to my place rather than drive if they drank too much. It used to be pretty common to wake up and find one crashed on my floor or to have to give a ride. It hasn't happened in quite a while though. You watch, we are talking about it and it'll happen.
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21 Feb 11
Thanks you are so right, also he has helped me too.I will get there one day soon,make sure i put all this in, i didnt have time to add it all and didnt think there would be many responses anyway. Some people think both of us was drunk and that i was having fun, away to my office earning money, i dont get that, ok i never added eneough about my friend and i relationship, but im sure i never said those things either!!, thanks for your comments.
@louievill (16205)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
The fact that he went to you means your friend trusts you, maybe he just had too much and your taking care of him is a good gesture. There are some facts I do no not know though like how long have you been friends or how close you are? If it's the first time this incident happened then it's just fine, but if he has been doing this often then maybe you have to talk straight to him and discuss the matter when he's sober.
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21 Feb 11
This is why im always learning, i should have4 stated we have known one another for over 30 years, its about the 10th time in that 30 years time span, first time he was only 11 and he got hit on the head with another boy who threw a stone at him. That day i got my dad to run him to hospital, another was when he was 16 he had taken LSD, but ive done it a couple times back, i was just angry cause i wanted to chat to mylot people, although some dont deserve time, im not letting that get to me. Thats another discussion, why do some people comment/say what they say especially if its very negative response. Thanks for your comments, ive only been a member a few weeks, i will get it right...
@ladym33 (11009)
• United States
21 Feb 11
It is not a bad thing he came to you. At least you can watch him and make sure he does not do anything stupid or harm himself or someone else. I am also glad that he took a cab. It is good of you to take care of your friend. That is more important than anything. Hopefully he does not do this often, if he does he could have a serious problem.
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21 Feb 11
I totally agree with you, it stopped me doing what i wanted to do on mylot, but your right, worse things could have happened, im glad he came to me first!! thanks for your comments.It was first time he went out with 3 of his co-workers..
• United States
20 Feb 11
Maybe it was a good thing we didnt go home as he might of drank some more at his house and maybe you should be glad he came to your house. He thought about going to your house as you are a good friend nad he knew you could take care of him and do what was right for him in the end. He and you are both great friends and you all did the right thing for each other in a hard sitution to deal with. In the end when he wakes up though he will be paying for being drunk as you wake up with a headache as we all know this.
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• China
22 Feb 11
He came to your home means he regard you as his friend.You can talk him you don't like while he has drunk.If you regas him as your friend too.it can't help it,Between friends may not bother too much.
• United States
22 Feb 11
Happens sweetie that sometimes we have off line responsibilities and we simply do not have the time. I am one who could not log in at all yesterday as I had deadlines to do 12 articles for a new website. Since that is my bread and butter it took up all my day. I find that taking care of your friend is important, and shows your caring side. I mean imagine if you had brushed him off and he got into some form of emergency. You did the right thing. But the way there is no time limit to comment back on your discussions. It is ideal to keep the discussion flowing but really there is no set time limit. I have received comment from members for discussions four months ago. It happens and we have to weigh what is important. Best of luck and shows that you are a sincere caring friend.
@syoti20 (5296)
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
That is bad timing jasper. But at least you were able to help a friend and post 1 discussion at the same time. You are such a good friend.
@savypat (20248)
• United States
21 Feb 11
Well, your friend is part of the real world and mylot is a virtual world, sure you can make a few cents here, but taking care of real people is a much more valuable way to spend your time. Blessings