Just been chatting to a friend and we have both agreed on not saying what
By joystick
@joystick (1675)
February 20, 2011 5:33pm CST
things we have been doing and if we have seen or been anywhere, as one person just seems to keep asking all of the time no matter what, also asking if we have seen anyone.So what we are going to say is no not seen anyone or been any where, also when it comes to any certain dates like birthdays we are not going to say whos been round either, that way this person can not go telling other people all those stupid things and stab other people in the back in the process.Keeping ourselves to our selves no matter what.
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@celticeagle (159936)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Feb 11
Yes, all those stupid things. Less known the less chance of someone stabbing you in the back. It is only our society which makes us enteract. We don't have to. We choose to. And it is inate in our make up to want to be around others. Do we live our lives alone? No. Would it drive us crazy if we did? No. Some enjoy it more than others.
@celticeagle (159936)
• Boise, Idaho
3 Apr 11
Good for you! I wouldn't waste my time with such low lifes.
@joystick (1675)
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3 Apr 11
You are right there.I am fed up with other people that stab others in the back and then the next thing you hear or see they are chatting and going places with the person that they say they do not like.I tend not to say to much when i see certain people through no choice, like if they are with another friend, also i try to make excusses why not to see people that are back stabbers.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
23 Feb 11
I think that this is something that really needs to be done in a friendship if many of the other friends of each of yours are in the same circle. It has come down to something like this with one of the girls that I am friends with because of the fact that I tend to think that she has loose lips. However, there are other friends of mine that are not in the same circle that I feel safe venting with because I know that they don't know these other friends of mine.
@joystick (1675)
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3 Apr 11
I just feel like it is a shame that we can not trust some friends as they are like you say lose lipped, or worse, back stabbers.I have got to the stage in my life that i like my own company, rather than putting up with so called friends,that are not nice or decent friends.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
21 Feb 11
It is better not to know than to know as it might create more emotional disturbances on the other which is not good for a healthy relationship.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
21 Feb 11
I wish more people would keep themselves to themselves! I work with a lot of people who don't keep anything to themselves! I have heard things I wish I ddin't know! It is mostly woman I work with and they never seem to keep things to themselves! I think they just don't care, it is part of their personilty or they want attention! Whatever the reason I keep most things to myself! I have dignity!
@joystick (1675)
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3 Apr 11
I find that if i keep myself to myself, then noone has anything to say about me, or anything to do with me.I think that there are way to many people out there that are quick to repeat other people, as well as gossip and add things on to what they think they have heard or what they have been told, also do not care who they have told what to.
@uncorrectedvision (100)
• United States
21 Feb 11
If you have a troublesome person in your life who talks about you, gossips, than you are right to try to squeeze them out. If they are an ordinary annoyance it might be that they are lonely and just want to be part of your life because they like you. Perhaps you can talk to them about non-personal things.
