People being offensive

United States
April 11, 2011 10:25am CST
When people talk rudely and say things to make others feel low it truly shows how they feel about themselves. However low you go is as low as you feel. In the end this kind of behavior doesn't help. It may for that short second. And not to mention the bad Karma that comes with it. Do you ever wonder how people can be so mean, rude and wrong?
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@Metatronik (5911)
• Pasay, Philippines
11 Apr 11
The doers of that stupid thing are the pathetic people who has low self esteem so that they could make others miserable.
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@dreamy1 (3815)
• United States
11 Apr 11
They aren't happy with themselves plain and simple. If they were happy and satisfied with themselves and their life they won't have any reason to hurt others. There are also people who suffer from mental illness who may not be able to help themselves.
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@kquiming (2999)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
i hope you're right...well your post reminded me of someone who does that to me. everytime she's around people, what she likes best is to talk about me to make me look bad, whether i'm there in front of them or not... i don't know what she gets from it... people say she's just so insecure of me, that's the reason why she does this... But yeah, it makes me wonder what the heck is her problem.
• United States
11 Apr 11
That is true. People do it because they feel bad about themselves. And if she does this to you she is probably jealous. Some people who have also been hurt make a habit of hurting. I guess to justify what's been done to them.
• Philippines
1 May 11
yes I do.. this is because other people are really insensitive.. Some people really have this attitude problem.. They are really boastful about everything they say
@bingskee (5237)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
However low you go is as low as you feel - i like that line. some people are so bitter that they can kill a person with their evil words and deeds.
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
12 Apr 11
Yes. People have been mean and rude to me alot fo times in my life. My self esteem was no better than theirs was either. I never did this to people and I do not know why they would want to hurt other people like that for no good reason.
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
12 Apr 11
When I find people like that I change air. Rudeness means always not being happy, people with lack of comprehenssion.
@edsss17 (4398)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
Hi, I have never been so mean and rude to anybody else, even though I don't like them! Its just, I can't! I really can't! If I told them that I don't like them, I really feel bad for myself and I don't like it! I always think that what will I do and say to other people will come back to me.
@Hatley (164629)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Apr 11
hi natnickeep you have it in a nutshell. I think some people can be mean rude and wrong because they want to get our attention no matter how they get it. evidently they have no real life of their own so they get their kicks making others wince and cry and get mad.l saw one discussion today that shocked irritated me and made me mad. bad karma. for sure.
@keshia2007r (2886)
• United States
11 Apr 11
Misery needs company is all I can think of, when you ask "do you ever wonder how people can be so mean, rude and wrong?" omg like me tell you! I work with this co-worker, every time she comes to work she is already read to go. Always having a mean look on her face and for the place in which we work this is not apporitate. She has been employeed there so long and she is a good worker, but when she is pissed if reads all over here face. I've ran into some very rude people on mylot, I pay them no mind. If they are rude to me, I will be rude back. I know two wrongs don't make a right. But I see things this way, you don't deserve my respect if you can't respect me. I live by that, it may be wrong, it may be right. This is just my opinion.
@mdaazam (826)
• Indore, India
11 Apr 11
Hi there natnickeep i have learned a long time ago that some people are just evil by nature and that they are insulting in their behaviour. They try to make every one feel sad and depressed like themselves. How miserable these people are, they feed on other peoples happiness. Such cruel people enjoy pounding the kind poor ones. I hate this species of men.
@GardenGerty (100530)
• United States
11 Apr 11
I worked with someone like that. When she got herself off speed, she apologized, although she did push really hard for awhile, to the effect that I got in a screaming match with her, and we both got written up. I am not proud of that, but I am proud of the friendship we had later.
@GardenGerty (100530)
• United States
11 Apr 11
I have been observing. I do not know what the pay off is for them. I admit that I have at times been short or snippy, but I hope that people realize it. In certain situations that are evolving it is hard to hold my tongue, though. I usually just pass the really rude ones by.