So much in love

Philippines
April 30, 2011 1:55am CST
Hello friend and mylotters! Have you ever felt so much in love with your partner even if you're already together for years? I don't know if I'm feeling crazy but what I feel right now with my hubby is soooo incredible! I feel I'm very much in love with him like the very first date we had,lol! I wanted to embrace and kiss him all day,haha! Can't explain it,really! I just know I'm so happy now that he is my partner! Have you felt it too to your partner? I mean,it is as if you were just together for the first time again?
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17 responses
@derek_a (10903)
1 May 11
That is a wonderful way for you to be with your husband and shows that you are really well matched to each other. Love, like everything can change as the years go by. In the beginning there is passion that can last a long time with some people or a shorter time with others. When the heat of the passion cools down, a different sort of love can take over. A total contentment and trust in each other that leads to real happiness. It is different with different people though. Some people get tired and have little contentment in their life because there is always something else they miss, but they never find it. Others though can be happy for life regardless of what happens to them. As a therapist I have known so many people who were so sad for the least little problem, and yet I know people who are happy all the time. They don't have much, but their happiness makes up for that. Acceptance is the key I believe. May your goood feelings last a lifetime. _Derek
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@Hatley (159408)
• Garden Grove, California
2 May 11
hi derek we had unconditional love as we accepted each other just the way we were so for 33 years we laughed, loved, cried amd we liked each other. my husband often told people we not only loved each other we liked each other ,we were best friends. He meant that too. He was always there for me as I was for him. we weathered so much together. illnesses, the losss of a child, we did it together. He tried to tell me that last day he knew he was not going to makeit. we hugged, we kissed we told each other how mu ch we loved, and the next day He was gone. I had said goodbye but did not want to believe it;it hurt yet I knew he was taken home byGod and one day we will meet again.see we weathered the same things that break up modern swift live togethers. we worked out any problems and our marriage was stronger for it.We lost our little girl and this brought us even closer as we shared that pain together.
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@derek_a (10903)
2 May 11
Thank you for sharing that Hatley. I am sorry for your loss. You have a very strong relationship with your husband through sharing so much. I don't believe that there isn't anything that we can't handle in this life and that we can always grow closer together and spiritually through our pain. _Derek
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• Philippines
3 May 11
@DErek..hi derek! So you are a therapist! It must have been so exciting to meet different kinds of people with different phases in life. Yes,you are right about the two faces of love. Some really has love that fades as time passes by and I'm lucky I'm not in that kind of love. So greatful that I have a husband that is so loving,kind and responsible that's why I'm so inlove with him. I just have to give him back the love that he's giving me 'cause he deserves it much! @Hatley..so touched by your story hatley,you are one strong woman to face the world now without him and your kid. I wish I could be one like you when I will face life like that of yours,aaahhh! God bless you!
@oninomar (506)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Your partner really take good care of you. You are very lucky to have him in your life. I'm also happy with my partner now, we are almost 2 years in our relationship but we always fighting arguing for nothing. At the end of the day we always try to fix it. Stay happy and take good care of your partner as well.
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Hi oninomar! Yes,I'm lucky to have him,he may not be the same as my ideal man but he is more than I ever wanted! I believe what you're going through is just normal in a relationship,we too have some fights but we see to it that we don't sleep without resolving it. He will do everything to please me,lol! You see,I'm the fire and he is the water so he always calms me down when I'm mad,lol! See yah!
@oninomar (506)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
haha..:) I like your sense of humor.you're so fun to be with, probably thats one of your attitude why your partner loves you very much? keep happy!:)
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• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Haha,oh my hubby has more sense of humor than I am oninomar! Infact,I even call him the clown of my life,lol! He makes our kids so happy 'cause he plays like a child too,haha! See yah oninomar!
@Kalyni2011 (3503)
• India
17 May 11
Hi mtr I was married in 1966, we live together, we are a very very happy couple as i have said, when he is on tour i miss him so much, i keep calling him and he calls so frequently, this is so natural lol.. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Be happy always, keep loving him Namastey. Kalyani
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• Philippines
18 May 11
Hello again my friend! Wow,you really are meant for each other and knowing that you were married through an arrangement,that's really something! So happy for both of you my friend! I know Professor is a very loving husband,I just felt it from reading his discussions and replies and I'm happy I met his wife here and it's you! Thank you Kalyni for adding me as your friend. See yah!
@asliah (11149)
• Philippines
15 May 11
hi, yes i had felt it before, i was in loved so much to a guy and we actually lived in for two years,and that loved never faded away,till the time that i need to choose if my parent or my lover.
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• Philippines
18 May 11
Hello friend! Wow,that's really so much love when you are about to choose between family and your lover. That must be a very tough decision for you asliah. See yah!
@aerous (13475)
• Philippines
3 May 11
Love must always stay warm even if you and your partner are stay longer or how many year being married. I love to do same, my friend. Because I don't want my love being fade to my partner. I want to give my best for everything I have into my life. I want to offer my life into her and the love I give to her must be real and pure...love should not stop in a year or have no expire at all...
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• Philippines
3 May 11
Hello aerous! So nice to hear those lovely words from a man,touching! Your wife is lucky to have you aerous! Yes,agree with you that time is not a factor for love to fade,instead,it should grow more as time goes by. See yah!
@olepmis (843)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
well you are blessed with a good partner. I envy you.Me i'm still looking for a partner like yours.hahaha!
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• Philippines
2 May 11
Hi olepmis! Oh yes,so thankful to our Lord that He has given me a husband like him,truly blessed! I'm very sure you're gonna have yours someday olepmis,and when you already see him,you'll feel the happiness that I'm already feeling! See yah!
• United States
30 Apr 11
Hello my dear sweet friend. Awwh how cute to hear there is another couple like my boyfriend and I. We have been together now for almost 7 years and it seems only like yesterday. I did not think this feeling could ever be possible until I met him. Enjoy my dear friend and many blessings to the both of you.
• Philippines
1 May 11
Hello my dear friend! Wow,7 years is something my friend! Hmmm..let me count ours,hehe...Yay,we're already 8 yrs married and 10 yrs in a relationship before the marriage,wow! I didn't know we're that long my friend,haha,thanks to you,lol! I'd love to embrace hubby now for being so lovable and good to me and my kids for 18yrs,haha! See yah my dear friend and many blessings to you too! Mwah!
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
30 Apr 11
Love is an emotion that can oly grow stronger. Feeling so much in love with someome is one of the greatest feelings and experiences that we can ever have.
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Very true sender! It makes me feel alive and very happy! It keeps me going and inspired! It motivates me to do things I never thought I could do..that's what so much in love does to me,lol! See yah!
@audine (16)
30 Apr 11
I don't know soooooooo much in love??????? maybe you're just obsessed..........well if you really felt that strange feeling of so much in loveness......your lucky incredible guys are very hard to find.........really hard to find....
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• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Hi audine! Welcome here! Oh yes,I'm lucky audine! My husband is one of a kind,lol! Love him that much! You will know and understand it when you found your right man! See yah and happy mylotting!
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Hello.! Yes, I experienced that kind of feeling before when I still have a boyfriend. I'm so crazy with him. To the point that I can't do things without him. But on the later part, I realized that he is not my world. He's just one of those someone who makes me feel that I am worth it in the way he know. And now, I happy with or without him because I know life is worth living.
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• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Hi cherielinnortizano! Welcome here! I believe you haven't found your everlasting love. At least you were able to feel it but you will know more when you got married,for sure! Enjoy life!
@edsss17 (4398)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
inaaaaaaay! I know you're really in love with your hubby~! And I think he's really lucky to have you. VERY! You are both happily in love! That's very rare nowadays! Happy for you inay!
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• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Hi bunso! Haha,oh yes,he's lucky to have me,lol! But you know,I feel I'm luckier having him,haha! Do I sound corny bunso? Haha,I guess that's what love can do to me,yay! Glad you're happy for me bunso! Mwah! See yah!
@salonga (27965)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Actually love does not need to grow cold just because you have been married and together for long. All the more the love should grow and be sweeter day by day. It is a good thing to feel so in love with your spouse and I think that should always be the case because if love is no longer that much then the marriage becomes boring.
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• Philippines
30 Apr 11
You are very much right about it salonga! Time is not a factor to lessen the love you feel. But just right now,I don't know why I feel that superb love towards my hubby,lol! It may sound corny but it's the truth,lol! He looks so stunning to me even when he snoars loud at night,haha! I don't know,it's really unexplainable! I feel we're just married yesterday,haha!
@obe212003 (2302)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
i have been a hopeless romantic all my life, and everyday i never forget to say, "i love you" to my wife loudly or in whisper while she sleeps. each day is a blessing that we're together and hopefully to grow old together.
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• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Wow,you're wife is soooo lucky having you! I can feel that you will grow old together,just be like that always to her! I like the way you do and how you say "I love you" to her especially when she is asleep,very romantic and touching! I adore husbands who love their wives very much and takes care of them like a treasure. Wishing you both forever happiness!
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Your so lucky to have a partner like him. Cherish every moment for opportunity comes once in a life time.
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• Philippines
30 Apr 11
I will christine! He's one of the best things that has ever happened to me! See yah!
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
That would be a wonderful feeling. Sometimes you feel you have just fallen in love with the person you've loved/lived for many years. Looking at him/her takes you back to the time when you first feel that undefined heartbeat ...love. I can't remember when was the last time i had fallen in love with the same person. happy weekend
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• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Hello friend! That's exactly what I'm talking about..looking at him as if it's the first time you fell in love with him,lol! He looks so handsome to me though he's not that handsome,haha! I feel everything is just the best! May I ask..why did you say you can't remember when was the last time you'd fallen in love with the same person? Quite confusing to me as I don't know you that much yet,if you don't mind answering it,hehe! Happy weekend too friend!
@shibham (17025)
• India
30 Apr 11
hahaha. It seems that both of you are made for each other. Me, no partner. Have a nice day amiga.
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Hi amigo! Hahaha,you are right amigo,we are meant for each other..best of friends that became best lovers! Sharmaprashant is right,there is someone that is meant for you,who knows,you might meet her tomorrow,yahu! See yah amigo! @sharmaprashant..hi! thanks for replying to my amigo,you've said it right!
@shibham (17025)
• India
1 May 11
Thanks to both of you for your warm wishes.
@aerous (13475)
• Philippines
2 May 11
Wow! Love really unimaginative feelings in our heart, soul and mind. I always amazed why we forget anything or sacrifice something to love someone whom we love