how do you see a person perfect?

@tiina05 (2317)
Philippines
May 18, 2011 12:02am CST
hello everyone, So, lets be specific on it, let say in you partner in life like you husband/wife or even your girlfriend/boyfriend? how can you say that she/he is already perfect to you?. Well, for me I have a boyfriend now and I think he is perfect by the way he care an love me. I've been in a relationship for how many times and by now I think I found the perfect one for me, I cant explain it but i really feel it? SO, how about you?
1 person likes this
21 responses
@jameygc (452)
• United States
18 May 11
Well, I think you never find a perfect person, not even perfect for you. You know nobody is perfect. What really matter is if you are able to carry with his imperfections, and that takes time to know it. I had some relationships in my life and first all of them were perfect, but then everything change. That is the moment for you to know is that person is "perfect" for you. I am married now (4 yrs) and my husband is very far to the word "perfect", but I love him, he loves me, we respect each other, and we have a lot of things in common, we enjoy the time together. I am able to stand his imperfections and so is he with me. Good luck with your relationship, when you both need to confront a hard situation, that is the moment you are really going to see is you are "perfect" for each other.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
18 May 11
hey! thanks for that. Well I absolutely can say that he accept me to all my imperfection and so he is. Sorry if I didn't mention it. But you know we confront a hard situation for how many times but we are still here. I never thought that we can be longer together like this. But still I am wishing to be the perfect one.
@jameygc (452)
• United States
19 May 11
That is very good to know. It is really cool to have somebody to love and who loves you no matter what. And much more now when I don't know what is going on with the relationships. I use to tell my husband that we are so different form the other couples we know. Every thing is a war between them and we always have a blast! I wish a very long and happy life for your relationship.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
18 May 11
hi, i dont understand what is perfect and imperfect in a person.In this world no one is hudred percent perfect.Everyoe have some or the orther which si not liked by the other person.I f u think u found ur match then gud luck and congrats.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
19 May 11
hello thanks for your response, Maybe you are not yet in the relationship that is why you can understand the perfect and imperfect person. Okay? thanks for that..
@StanLot (23)
• China
18 May 11
u want to konw how to look at a person perfect! I think that come to love not by finding a perfect person,but by learning to see an not a perfectly perfect person! there is not perfect person!
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
19 May 11
yes, I cant explain how he being perfect to me even he has a flaws and either I. Yes, we learned how to accept each others imperfections maybe that is why we are still in the relationship.
@StanLot (23)
• China
18 May 11
Two people together the most important is inclusive. Anyway,walk to arrive together is the fate.Don't literally in hand,the more don't literally let go! I think you must be a very beautiful girl! Wish you and your lover hapiness!
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
19 May 11
hello thanks for your response, Ohh? thanks! yes wish us good luck because we just really love each other perfectly.
@uttarayan (327)
• India
18 May 11
may be this answer is tough than an maths exam for me.because i have no gf yet.but,i can feel your feelings,though.dont try to find the answers of those questions,which seems beautiful.because the answer is u and urself my dear
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
18 May 11
hello, LOL, is that for real? more tough than math problem? I dont think so. Well,thank you! I know this question seem so difficult to answer but I know someone will share it to me how to seen person perfect? right?
• Indonesia
18 May 11
there is nobody perfect in the world.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
19 May 11
hello thanks for your response, Yes, I know but I feel like everything is perfect with him because he really what i am looking for.
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
19 May 11
There was only 3 perfect people that walked the face of the earth. That was Adam, Eve and Jesus. And it didnt take long for Adam and Eve to mess up.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
20 May 11
For your information, friend. There is no perfect person in the world. All of us committing a mistake. What we need is a people has more discipline and God fearing. Because if you find a person that God fearing. This person will love you and never cheated you. Because he is afraid to something against you...and against his will also
• India
19 May 11
Hello! Let us pray that u are the lucky one. Because as per my feeling no person is perfect - whether it is me or u. There always is some thing or the other missing. It is another thing that we are so blindly in love or we want our relationship to continue smoothly that we tend to ignore those imperfections in our parters. Otherwise GOD has not made even a single human being as perfect.
• United States
19 May 11
I think that it is the individual formed by the partnership that is where the perfection lies as Liz and I compliment each other in so many ways with strength/weaknesses being offset by the other, which is just as well because I'd guess that a perfect individual would nver put up with me..Enjoy!
• Philippines
19 May 11
To tell you honestly, I don't find my partner to be the perfect one for me. He has his flaws. But I remember feeling the same way. I used to think how he was just so perfect for me, like he was the answer to my prayers or something. I thought that there was nothing else I could ask for when we finally got committed in a relationship. Anyway, it's good that you have finally found that one person who is just so right for you. You complement each other and that's great. Unfortunately, it's not the same with me. I'm still hoping though that in time, things will be better in our relationship and find each other to be perfect for the both of us.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
19 May 11
Well I guess when one is in love he/she sees his/her love as the perfect one. Well atleast it happened to me. I had this boyfriend and though my friends told me that he wasn't really that good looking, he was perfect in my eyes. He loved me and I loved him. He understood me the best. But then things just started to fall apart after sometime. Somethings are sadly not meant to be. I though he was the one I'd be spending the rest of my life with.
• China
10 Jun 11
Hi tiina just only can say congratulation to you find a prefect boyfriend (he will have the most possibility be your husband in future ). Not everyone can be so lucky just cherish the special gift from the god which is only for you !!
@macayadann (1235)
• Philippines
19 May 11
Usually we are being deceived by our feelings most especially when the relationship is still young. I was like you before so much in love but I became a nagger when the time just came in that I realize that a long relationship can end up as a companionship only.
• China
18 May 11
Actually,noboby in the world is perfect.Everyone of us has some disadvantages.If the disadvantages are not so big to hurt you and your relationship,there is no need for you to take care about them.Even,his disadvantages will make him more lovely in your common life. Then,what does "perfect" mean? I think it is your feeling.We chinese have a saying,"Xishi comes from the eyes of lovers."Xishi was a beauty in the old China,who was considered perfect.So the saying tells us that if you fall in love with a person,he or she is perfect in your eyes. Thanks,and I hope your love will last forever.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
18 May 11
No person can achieve perfection,. we are all flawed on our own ways. if we try to force perfection in our lives, we can become disillusioned and disappointed. Perfection is not everything in the world. it can be an unrealized dream that is out of our reach. there are other goals and dreams that we can hold on to instead,
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
18 May 11
Hi tiina05, For me, if I really do love him and I am fulfilled and happy with him then, he is the perfect person for me. Perfect partner could have different definition but my term for a perfect guy is someone that could stand by me through thick and thin and whom I can share my passion and reason to live my life day by day. Happy lotting!
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
18 May 11
As they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I guess that it goes true for perfection too. Write down all the perfection you see today and now, you may need the list in future. I do not intend to wake you up from a beautiful dream, so enjoy the moments. I wish it will be true for a very long time. You'll make everyone envious, but then just enjoy the moment, ok?
@jacklintan (1302)
• Malaysia
18 May 11
LOVE is expensive. It's human nature to live on love. So, when u asked if your bf is good for you, first, u have ask yourself, how much love u can get from him? My statement above could be a deep meaning. Think carefully...
18 May 11
There is no perfect partner to you, to me and to everyone. Let's imagine a perfect is a ball, it will be away if it hit something. SO will be perfect to you only if you accept his or her defect.