Annoying!

@jazel_juan (15747)
Philippines
May 24, 2011 10:41pm CST
It is just me or i am easily annoyed today, woke up fine... the first early hours of my day was fine...till people arriving here in the office they get on my nerves! or maybe it was them who woke up on the wrong side of the bed! Or is it me? the one beside me, my co - employee keeps on playing music, it would have been fine is it were different songs, but she keeps on playing the same song again and again ( songs by charisse and she annoys me. really. i dont like her belting out or something) well, it is annoying and i am keeping my cool before loosing it out. or is it just me again? grr. my nerves my nerves... patience is a virtue. lol but really! am annoyed.
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14 responses
• Denmark
26 May 11
Anybody can get a little annoyed, it is only natural and some people just have a shorter fuse, and the thing with the music a a litlle thing and you could have ask her to please be polite and turn the music óff or atleast turn it down
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 May 11
did told her off nicely..and well she is not playing music today
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 May 11
yes i do not exactly bite or something hahaha but i guess she learned and did not do it again
• Denmark
26 May 11
Thats how it should be telling her nicely and getting a good respons :D
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@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
25 May 11
Yes, patience is a virtue. And I don't have it either. lol! Good thing I am controlling the music here. lol. Though sometimes they do complain that my music makes them sleepy. oops. Anyway, why don't you play your own music and blast it loud as well? hehe. Something you know she won't like.
@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
27 May 11
Aww, I'll miss you too. You should blame Molo for the situation and demand that he install the sound card asap. lol! I was playing instrumentals and old songs. lol! I love my old songs. And older people here don't like them. lol! Makes me feel weird about myself.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
28 May 11
That is just so weird! but then i could remember you love Carpenters and Lea Salonga hahaha but then i do not mind their songs, they are good ones but then the one my officemate listens to are only Charisse's songs and it gets so annoying being played again and again!!!
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 May 11
hahah what have you been playing that it is making them sleepy?? Well i cannot play music on my computer because that fat guy here ( molo!! ) reformatted my computer but did not install the sound card, so therefore i cannot play music!! huhuhuhu awww i'll miss you swirlz!
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@GardenGerty (157624)
• United States
25 May 11
I would want to go remove her music one way or another. I have days that I am easily annoyed. I hope it gets better sooner.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
25 May 11
yes she did removed it, after i told her off..nicely. and she played Bruno Mars afterwards.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
25 May 11
Any song is annoying if it is played over and over! Some songs are just plain annoying anyway. I would ask your co-worker if she could get some ear buds. I work in a store and most days I just love the people but I have to say that by the end of my work week, some of the customers jusst get on my nerves and I KNOW it is me. They all have their little quirks. Like there is this one guy that walks in saying, "hey hey hey" like on Fat Albert. He will buy a snack and complain about the cost and reminisc to when things were much cheaper. Then he will buy a pack of cigs. When I ring him up, without fail, he will question whether the cost of the cigs has gone up again. I have to remind him that he also got a snack. Every Time!! Then there is another guy that has to tell me a corny joke each time he comes to the counter. Then there is the lady that has me list off all the numbers on the lottery tickets as if it matters. The scratch ticket people are the most annoying of all. Like I said, most days they don't bother me a bit but somedays...I just want to lock the doors and not deal with them.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 May 11
oh yes! you are having worse days than me..but then we are both equal, i do have clients that come here and complain about how low their benefits are and to think they are only paying 20 pesos for premiums! people!!!
@manubla (472)
• Philippines
25 May 11
Our office rules say that we can play music but we should use earphones and the volume should be at a level where we are the only ones who can hear it. Several times, someone from the other department was playing music without using her earphones and talking nonstop at the same time. I got irritated one time so I braved her cubicle and told her to tone down her volume because we were going to have a meeting. Of course in a nice way . Btw, she's a manager but I don't care. So go ahead and let her know that you're disturbed with her music.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
25 May 11
I did told her off - in a nice way. lol and she played bruno mars after i telling her off. hahhahaah but she toned it down..and she played htat because she knew i like that song lately. oh well!
@MDFang (2)
• Netherlands
25 May 11
If someone's constantly blasting the same song over and over, then yeah, that's annoying. Try annoying them back, but don't make it too obvious ;D
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 May 11
hahahah i am not someone who can do that i might try though
@Humbug25 (12540)
27 May 11
Hi there jazel_juan To be honest I think it probably is you hahha. I get days like that, not very often but when I do I am like you and freaks me out cos I am not used to being like that. I am sure that on another day when your work collegue plays this music it would bother you. You might have something on your mind that you are not aware of or even just not got enough sleep. Hope you are feeling better today
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
28 May 11
yes i believe it is yes and today is one of those days again, the stress is getting into my nerves again i need to relax that is why i am here on mylot! the boss is killing me, her demands does not stop!!! but then...inhale..exhale..i got to control
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 May 11
I think that would annoy me too. Maybe there are some headphones you could suggest for her..lol, I don't think she is being very considerate by playing music..especially the same songs over and over. I am pretty patient and I might be able to put up with it for a while, but after that, she might come in and find some ear buds on her desk..hehe.
• Philippines
25 May 11
Hello jazel, there are songs that actually annoys us if it's wrong timing and if it's not on the good mood for us. but you can tell you're co-worker to lower it down as it annoys you, i think it's not good when you loudly listen to it as if others will be joining to listen to the same song. i think she got addicted to it some how.otherwise, it would be rude of her not noticing that her listening to songs outloud is annoying indeed.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
25 May 11
Yes i believe she is addicted to it, she said she can't get enough of the music..but i still told her what i was thinking.. i do not know what she felt but i guess how i said it was nice..or not.. i said, "ayaw ko talaga pag ganyan kumanta si Charisse, parang matanda" lol for those who cannot understand , "i do not like if charisse sings that way, she sings like she is so old / mature" tama ba? lol oh well..atleast she stopped and she changed a song of bruno mars...that she knows i like lol.. i can be so bad
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
25 May 11
Couldn't you tell her to use earphones? I know that for most offices, you can play your own music as long as you keep to yourself.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
25 May 11
told her off - i tried to be nice
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
11 Jun 11
hi, i hate to hear and listen to a music that plays again and again especially if i dont like so much the singer of that song.actually i dont like so much Charisse.i know i could also feel what you had feel.
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
25 May 11
There are days when nothing seems to goo your way and it's easy to lose your temper;I guess it happens ton anyone to have such miserable days and it takes a lot of patience to stay calm in these circumstances,a patience which many people don't have.Anyway,when you have such a bad day you have to smile and think that the next day might be even worse!
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 May 11
yes i smiled and that day passed and yes this day is worse!
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
26 May 11
I have days like that too but today I'm perfectly in a happy mood. We didn't have any lectures today coz we had a huge thing in our school. It was fun lol any day without books and studies are fun actually . Anyway I hope your day brightens up. Have a great day!!
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
28 May 11
so true. i could remember also being cranky in school back then..i would like wish the day would end so easily so i could go home
@lajonez (477)
• Poland
25 May 11
if it's you try something good to eat if it wont help then you'll know you are fine and it's other people's fault ;)
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
25 May 11
actually i did eat my comfort food.. it relaxes me and devoid me of the stress