I am shocked , somebody hates me so much he/she wanna tarnish my online image

@akangirl (2437)
India
June 26, 2011 9:21pm CST
It came as a big shock to me. I am member of two paid to chat site birejji and fro2g and in both i am not active much especially in birejji as earning is bit slow over there. As most of people who knows me knows that akangirl id is kinda like my online id for every site i join , its been above 3 years since i started using this id. Just yesterday i met a old online friend who happens to be member of both the site too, what he told me shocked me. Somebody made a id using my nickname which is vandy over in these site and this person tells everyone that he/she is akangirl and lives near delhi and tell my details exactly and badly abuses people . He/she is banned by the site due to bad behavior and abusive language. I am shocked who could be the person who hates me so much that he/she went so low. As far as i can remember i have never been rude or impolite to anyone.
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@toniganzon (53346)
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
I'm sorry to hear about that friend. Now i'm scared that somebody else is using my name and tarnishing my reputation. I hope it doesn't happen to me though. Identity theft on the net is so common nowadays. That person has a grudge on you as she or he specifically intends to destroy your reputation. I could be misled if i talked to him that it was you. I don't know how you'll be able to fix that problem. I just feel so sad that it has happened to you.
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@akangirl (2437)
• India
28 Jun 11
maybe the person holds a grudge or he thinks its funny to trouble people.admin has already banned him thankfully
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
dear sis, Oh my,what a bad news i got here for you. Some kind of profile assassination I guess that person knows you personally,but why and what is in the mind of that person to do those things and damaged your name and reputation online. I hope you will be able to sort these things and try at least to know who the person behind this. I hope you feel better with this hug my dear sis
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@akangirl (2437)
• India
28 Jun 11
I feel lots better with your hugs sis, been busy yesterday so replied today. during the week the work makes me very busy.
@insulin (2483)
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
Online world is not safe at all especially when it comes to you identity so if Im you,I will never give out online friends my information as its too risky.It's just like a jail thats open limited and everybody can stab you easily.That's how it works.
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@akangirl (2437)
• India
29 Jun 11
Yeah now i will be extra careful , thanks for replying friend
@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
27 Jun 11
There are still people who are weird and will do anything possible to tarnish the good name of others. They get the thrill of creating miseries on others. It is a natural human weaknesses and should be ignored otherwise you'll end up in worrying unnecessarily. Move on as there are better things to do than to agonize over trivial issues.
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@akangirl (2437)
• India
27 Jun 11
i am troubled because this is my online id , almost everywhere i use this only and gaining trustworthy friends online is no easy task. But no worries i already told my friends its not me. This was a act of coward and weak person. Thanks friend you are right i shouldn't agonize myself over this.
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
You really have to be careful giving out your personal information on-line. you cannot trust anybody. Most of the time, the peron who usually does this type of thing knows you personally or knows someone you know personally. Otherwise, how was that person able to know all your personal deatils. You should send s short message to your friends on those sites so that they would understand and would not be mad at you.
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@akangirl (2437)
• India
27 Jun 11
i try to be careful but telling your name or nickname is kinda obvious when we make new friends. but you are right i will be extra careful.I talked with my friends and conveyed them that it was not me and they had a pretty good idea its not me.
@hdc4free (264)
• United States
27 Jun 11
I had a girl try to do this once before, it turned out she was just jealous that I had made friends with a few people who she wanted to make friends with and hadn't. But they would try to contact her and she never responded! So dumb!!! Try not to worry about it, some people are just jerks and most people can tell. So what happened with this gal...nobody believed what she said about me anyway because I was nice and she wasn't. So hopefully the same will happen for you, try not to stress about it!
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
Hi Akangirl. This kind of things that happened to you is a form of cyber bullying. There are some people who finds these kind of acts very pleasing to them. You just cannot avoid this in cyberspace. What is important is that you know that it is not you that did those things. Just ignore them.
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@simonelee (2718)
• China
27 Jun 11
There are people who hates us even if we didn't do anything to them. There insecurities and hatred in life pushes them to do something unacceptable in the society. I think that person's anger eating him/her already. Now, you are puzzled who's that person misbehaving and using your identify to ruin your image. If possible you can ask the admin of that site if you can have the IP address of that person for you to trace and find out. But, i guess it would not be that easy. Anyway, good luck and may that person conscience eat him/her.
• China
27 Jun 11
i think maybe he/she does not hate you. but he/she just does things like that to other peopeo for some reasons. and he/she happened to know your personnel information so you are the the one . anyway be careful online. do not give others your information next time.
@aisha209 (45)
• United States
27 Jun 11
That is just how ppl are. They have nothing better to do then make other ppl look bad.Try not to let it worry you she just being immature.
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@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Jun 11
hi akangirl when I was young and idealistic I could not believe that some people could be so mean but now I am a senior citizen I have had to believe this as painful as it is. there are spiteful people akangirl who seem to thrive on spreading falsehoods. I hate this too as its so hard for the person picked on to live this down no matter how good a person you are. I am sure you have not done a darned thing to this nasty person at all but they just thrive on telling shoddy lies like that.Its very painful when someone attacks you like that and they are so cowardly they hide themselves from you.you know you are not any of that crap so hold your head up high and know your real friends will not believe those lies'either.Are there any admins or monitors on those two sites that you could go to and tell them what you have told us? Also are you sure about this online friend that he would not make up that stuff? I do feel for you as thats the most insulting degrading treatment a cowardly person could do to you. I mean was your friend really trying to help you whenhe told you all that? take care and I hope this all blows over for you.
@akangirl (2437)
• India
27 Jun 11
I am just thinking who could be this coward mean person but yeah you are right some people just do this kinda things for just fun of it.Yeah the id is banned from the site. The person who told me is trusted online friend but as i got a new job so i am not regularly online so i didn't knew. This person used to abuse and display a illicit behavior as i got to know.Now i am sure this can be a work of a coward only. Thanks a lot friend
@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
6 Jul 11
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope that person stops. It can be really hard to make somebody like that stop though. btw earnings are better at Birejji since Admin made all the recent changes.
@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
29 Jun 11
It is so very sad that there are so many mean spirited people in the world but the fact is that there are and there is not always a great deal we can do about it. I believe that these evil folks will receive their Karma in due course and in the meantime I hope you can send all your friends over there a message explaining what’s happened. What can you do? There are those with nothing better to do for fun than being nasty…