HAH! Done Commenting RESPONSES :D (for now)

Philippines
July 5, 2011 6:37am CST
Hello there, (what?!) You think I went back here and just roaming around the place looking for the best discussion? I don't know how hard it was but i forgotten how easy it was before to simply comment on discussions as detailed as possible. I have some users that stops commenting on their responses after three or four responses. The only thing that I need to comment now in full is the Cat discussion Wasn't as easy as I thought even though I feel motivated. simply just not to be accuse as a response collector. i hate being that status. Haven't been responding because I still see some responders in my discussion that keep my eye on But despite of that I've almost done it. Is it required? if you want people to keep going to your new topics I suggest you do so. otherwise, as a responder, I would go lazy going back to you if you don't comment on me, that's my thing about post. there has to be a conversation and that is response-comment talks.
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@sjvg1976 (13931)
• Delhi, India
5 Jul 11
Hello LK, This is not a point to dicussion that a person should not be response collectoras we should always respond to the comments we receive. More & more you penetrate in to the discussion more fruitful will be the discussion so we should always futher the discussion and always try to discuss till we reach to a conclusion thats what a discussion means in my opinion. I know sometimes if we don't get the comment back for our responses we become choosy & try to comment on those discussion from which we excpect will get a response.So MYLOTTERS wake up and don't leave any response do reply for all responses you got.
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• Philippines
5 Jul 11
Hello sjvg, Unfortunately, I have never had a chance to read the responses enough to conclude my best response. it seems that mylottes who responded to my discussions are mostly intelligent enough to make me dumb enough to having a hard time to choose which is the best. In my opinion, Either being choosy or don't comment at all. that's what I thinkbut i won't prefer either or both.
@sjvg1976 (13931)
• Delhi, India
5 Jul 11
Very strange but i always got the chance. May we all need to eat something & then start writting responses then.
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@alphenor (687)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
Congratulations on being able to comment on all of the responders in the discussions you've started. I have troubles with the last discussion I've started cause I'm having some comments in my mind but I already gave those comments :(
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@alphenor (687)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
But won't the people who responded in the discussion I created feel bad that I didn't reply on their responses? :(
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• Philippines
5 Jul 11
Hello alphenor, that's the challenge of posting in mylot. we gotta have new ideas to comment even if some response are almost similar or the same. . it was hard for me at first but you will get there and solve it yourself
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
Some words are fitting, the others were more of relating my ideas or experiences.
• United States
5 Jul 11
This is the reason for me that I do not start many discussions because I do enjoy commenting to all responders. I want to keep my same quality participation and find that I can only do this if I limit my own discussion. Congrats to you for diligently commenting back on all yours. It really is important as many who do not later find that not many members will respond.
@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
What do you think to our friend LK, is he sleeping in the night because I observed him everyday 3-4 discussions and he said and you said that all of his discussion responded back to all concern, that's amazing right?
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• United States
5 Jul 11
Me either. I don't like making lots of discussions per day. I don't want to make more than I can keep up with.
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• Philippines
5 Jul 11
Hello hardworkinggurl, Well, congrats to you as well for being able to be around all the time and responding to different people. i don't want to limit myself. . but unfortunately, it's like late in the morning when ever i do it.
@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
Im so envy to you now a days because I observed your very active on posting and posting several discussion in a day, keep it up my friend.. May be I missed some of your discussion to comment but I'm sure I always seen your user name around here. I will try to response your discussion so that may be in others you will response me back to my discussion also. See you and hope you will serve your purpose..
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
Hello Visavis, It's not really something to be envy about. IF i had work same as you I doubt I can have any kind of time i have to do mylot. I'd probably look over and sleep. The problem is that taking too much time to comment on responses has made me unable to respond to others discussion that much compare before. but am doing my best lately.
@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
Oh I see and I think your ok now and enjoying doing... keep it up
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
dear LK, That's good to hear. Then,you can start posting your comment to your friends topic also. Well,eversince i joined mylot I always tried my best to comment back to responses that I received in my topic,due that reason.."response collector" i don't want to be tagged like that. And I also know how does it feels when you keep commenting to a particular mylotter and never even received a single response back from that topic starter. You can start posting topic again
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• Philippines
6 Jul 11
Hello Sis Jaiho, It's very rare because commenting on responses actually takes more of my time than anything else. there are those topics that i dont' want to respond to if the user doesn't comment back later. i hated that part, so I have decided to chose topics to respond to. but now make discussions too. Have a nice day.
• United States
5 Jul 11
I've noticed where some folks just respond on a comment or two and ignore the rest. They must not realize that responding back allows them to earn more.
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• Philippines
6 Jul 11
Hello Pq, That's what I've noticed to some topic makers. but of course, if they have work and other things to do that's why they left it out there for now and then comes back later. though, some gets lazy and doesn't come back and thus, makes new discussions instead. but i do always come back in some discussions
@zandi458 (27954)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 11
Well done. As a responsible citizen of mylot you have done what you're expected to do, to acknowledge all who responded to your discussions.
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• Philippines
5 Jul 11
Hello zandi Well, This is how I make an example as a Mylotter. I may not be the brightest and smartest lotters on the community block, but I make sure that almost every one gets my attention, and that's how a mylotter is supposed to act.
@babyanna (1217)
• China
5 Jul 11
Hi,Letran! I'm still trying not to be the bad girl.I usually just respond to three or four comments a day.And then get back to the others later.I just find responding to all of them sometimes a really hard job.Maybe I do need some training for patience.Still can't stick to one thing for a long time.One good thing is,I am trying to be more active and up to now,I think I'm doing a better job than before. Anyway,I do have some posts that I only responded to a few comments.And I hope I will complete those soon.I don't want anyone to think that I'm not paying respect to what they have wrote.That would just be rude of me. Have a good night~
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• Philippines
5 Jul 11
Hello babyanna, What's got to do with being a bad/good girl? Well, I did mention that it's not easy and the thing about commenting on a response is you have to focus on one responder at a time. looking at one then looking at the other at the same time can really confuse you. well, if they are RUDE, just report them don't have to say anything.
• Mexico
11 Jul 11
Hi Letran Knight:No doubt about this point. That's the way we can keep making a discussion a good one, get some ideas and keepthe attention of our friends. At the same time we learn from our friends with their ideas and possibly our new discussion will be moreinteresting if that'spossible. I love participating,responding tomy friends discussions and also giving and answer to my friends participations on my own ones because that's the way we give them a value. ALVARO
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hello starsailover, I really missed responding, i don't know what made stop responding to my friends. probable excuse is that I've been busy with my own discussion but the truth is that i have been very very slow lately no matter how fast i am i ended up being slow. maybe i will exert more effort to keep myself phase up with others. have a nice day.
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
I'm totally the exact opposite. I tried, I did but it just never works. I'm so not good at responding to comments on my own discussion. It's like I've made my point on my main discussion already and if I'd agree to a comment, I just rate the comment, lol. I'm lazy like that. If I disagree, which seldomly happens, then I comment back.
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
Hello Abingabanger, Then the chance for people to respond to your discussion will be less. sometimes people don't get the topic and when they respond, they will just share their experiences and others. you have to give it a try to be more a bit more active in commenting, at least once.
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
hello Lk, I know you are not a response collector cause we hate it Well good for you if you already finished commenting back So more topics to come happy mylotting
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
Hello Bhabycatch, How are you? hope you're feeling well.It wasn't easy to begin with, normally i would get really lazy. for now, i wouldn't have any kind of topics to come some day. hope you have a good lotting too.
@SIMPLYD (74865)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
Hmm, i have noticed that you have started a lot of discussion these past days. and i must congratulate you because i can relate to almost all of them . Well, it is up to the discussion starter to make the exchange of comments alive actually. However, there are those who really would respond only , just for the heck of earning on that particular response. They cannot stay longer because they aren't that interested after all.
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
Hello Simplyd, Well, too bad because I ain't one of those who are going to come back to their topic again. I do hope that some day these response collectors would be active in commenting responses in their discussions.
@Rainegurl (2158)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
I'm a self-confessed response collector I promise to change my ways starting, um, right now. Mylot is starting to become more and more fun than ever.
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
Hello Raine, If you have a job, that's fine. to be honest i don't think i can comment or respond if i have work. some had explain it already why they can't comment on their responses. but don't worry take you're time most specially on week ends. i can understand the situation that you're having.
@Hatley (157770)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Jul 11
hi letran you are so right that if people will not comment back on my responses after awhile I cease to respond to some of them.I get to feeling like the poster did not think diddly squat of my response so he or she did not even bother to argue with me or anything else so next time I will omit responding to this poster's discussions. It works both ways really.
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
Hello Hatley, I have seen you done it better on your commenting you're own responses in your own discussion. though people have their own choices whether to respond or not. in my case, i prefer to take attention of all of them, besides, they have the right to hear my stand. have a nice day