When I get depressed I want to eat

@suspenseful (40193)
Canada
July 22, 2011 1:22pm CST
I do a lot of walking, and I do eat healthy, but once in a while or more then once in a while, I feel like eating a chocolate bar. Now it is mostly dark chocolate that is good for you, but even then that is not that good. And now I have had cravings for the white chocolate bar that I have to stay away from. But the worse is it is that I just love whole grain bread the one with 100 percent whole grain with no white flour and when I feel depressed, I just want to eat. I also eat salads and veggies, but when I feel blue, I do not want to munch of a stem of brocolli, pepper, or lettuce, for me well I guess I love carbs too much even the good carbs. And even though I am told that they will make you feel full, for me that does not work. How do you all handle this?
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@marguicha (215746)
• Chile
15 Dec 12
I could not agree more with you, suspenseful. And my problem is that I love to eat everything, that I love to cook and could not even tell you what are my comfort food: all are. I have my fridge full of all sorts of things so that I can eat what I want. But when apparently nothing calls me, I eat "just" some bread and butter
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
15 Dec 12
I find that some of the things that I love are not that good for me and I find tht the substitutions are more expensive. That sure does not help. I found that I hsve an intolerance to wheat and dairy, but not to gluten and that makes it hard.
@marguicha (215746)
• Chile
15 Dec 12
I understaful. The doctor told me lately that I might have lactose intolerance. So I have to vuy a milk that is not as tasty and a lot more expensive than my usual one. Have you tried to make your own bread? My sister does it and it`s not so expensive as you eat it all and you can`t eat a great deal as it is more filling.
@marguicha (215746)
• Chile
15 Dec 12
I see part of my answer got erased. I wrote: I understand, suspenseful. I wonder what key I pressed
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
6 Oct 11
No doubt food is comfort for me too especially when depressed but even when something is nagging at me and I can't decide which way to solve a problem. I used to smoke and that helped a lot..but of course i had to quit because it made allthings worse. I do exercise and I dance in place to music I like. I look silly but I do it pretty much when no one is watching..except my husband sees it but he is used to me acting silly For hunger I sometimes fill up with popcorn. It is good fiber and yes too many carbs, but it is a better choice than other things. I do allow myself to splurge at times because if I don't I start feeling sorry for myself and go on a food binge... I have enough days of eating sensibly to keep things in control..most of the time....
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• Pamplona, Spain
19 Feb 13
Hiya stary, So sorry I missed your comment about "my technique" and I am still using it otherwise I might be as big as the side of a house. Clean my teeth a little early drink a little water or an infusion and goodbye to those hunger brought on by stress feelings. Today could be one of those days too but I am working on it right now clean my teeth and no snacks apart from the fact that they are way too expensive and do not taste as good anymore. A water pik is a great gadget to use as well although I don´t have one yet but I will work on that one. Have a great week stary.xxx
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
22 Jul 11
i try to drink more water so i am not so hungry. as for being depressed, i try to do something that is non food but is still nice for myself.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
23 Jul 11
The trouble is that nice thing I would like to do, cost too much. I went out and bought some clothes and now I want to get an 3d TV and that would be nice, but still have to save for it. I usually get a songbook or book on how to improve my singing eery two months, but now because of the postal strike we had, one delivery was left at customs for almost a month and it came late, so the discount coupon has to be used next month. That made me depressed because I did not want to get one until two months time. And for my singing lessons, I do need the books. The water does help though, but then I have to run to the bathroom. So even doing those things wind up making me depressed
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
28 Jul 11
Water does not do it for me because if I am depressed it is usually for a reason. It is not just in my head. Something went on and actually even the chocolate bar would not do. I do find that a walk would help, but even then the problem still remains and cannot be solved at least not ion this life time. It is one of those nothing can compensate for it.
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
When I get depressed, I want to eat too, Like eat my favorite hamburger or dessert or perhaps cook something that would make me pour my heart into it so that I could let it all out. I don't want to be friends with depression because the most difficult enemy to handle it is yourself and with depressions, you get to fight with yourself everyday that's why I will do my best not to get defeated by depression.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
23 Jul 11
I would like a cheesecake right now, but really deep inside I know that food will not cure it, but what will cure it besides going to heaven is now impossible. I can think of way to cure it, like losing my memory, getting altezeimers, but those ways are more horrible then the depression itself. It is terrible how what you did when you were younger has effects that carry on.
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
26 Jul 11
haha I'm eating a chocolate bar right now. I'm not really depressed but sort of feeling a little down. I just got back from Las Vegas, last night, and I feel a little lost knowing it will be a year again before I go back. My daughter and I drove there so our holidays were for 10 days and now back to the old grind again. So I have been eating all day long. I don't know why really, just feeling a little blue. I am also a very healthy eater normally. I have lost 50 pounds in the last three years and live a very healthy life style but every once in awhile I eat and eat and eat. And that's right now.
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• United States
26 Jul 11
Or engage in some pleasant activity. Depression and anxiety are natural human emotions that simply reflect the events in one's life. And Chrislotz, when you feel like eating and eating and eating, just remember to eat fruits, nuts, veges and/or whole grains, and you will be alright. You can make sure you are always within this boundary by storing these healthy foods at home.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
28 Jul 11
I buy a lot of almonds, walnuts, pecans, etc. and the only reason I have not bought macadamia nuts that much is because of the cost. The trouble is that I love them so much that I had to put them down in the freezer so I wold not snack on them all day. Oh that pleasant activity may not work. It would work if the worry was about something imaginary but if the depression had a cause like a life experience or being a bad girl, etc. in the time when bad girls were punished more then they warrented -i.e. God's disapproval was not much for them - then going good things or engaging in pleasant experiences would not do much. The remembrance is still there. So I am still a little sad.
• Pamplona, Spain
4 Oct 11
Hiya suspenseful, Have just bought three Bars of Dark Chocolate up from the Shop but I won´t eat all of that. I usually clean my teeth earlier so it stops me from going to the Cupboard for some of it well only a little corner of the new packet really. But someone else will be in there for sure when I am not looking and after all I don´t mind as they are going through a very stressful time so they need a little comfort of their own. Have also bought up some mints with no sugar in so that they can much away on those as well me its apples for me if I get really hungry and a good cup of tea low on sugar though. Don´t like eating greens when I get the blues either its Chocolate I think of first and biscuits but never bread as its too heavy at this time of night. I walk it all off the next Day as well. Had a very long walk today and it was way too hot as well and I drank plenty of water as I always carry half a bottle with me.xxx Television and cleaning my teeth early however do keep me out of the Cupboard lol as I am too lazy to clean my teeth again after. xxx
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
5 Oct 11
I got as bar in the fridge, and trying not to eat it all, because well I am depressed. I am thinking of going for a walk, but a friend of mine from out of town said that she might drop in today. The reason I ask depressed is because I decided to buy some dvds after almost six months to a year, and as soon as I got them, my younger said that he was off for a day and we could pick up the projection lamp for the tv instead of my waiting until Dec. when I would have the whole amount to pay for it, and then the furnace started to leak, and after that the connection to the toilet broke. Now I heard that an order I thought had been cancelled now went through, son now instead of just one parcel, I will get two and do not know when they will arrive or whether the second order is for something else. I do not want to touch the basement money . So those chocolates look very tempting.
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• Pamplona, Spain
5 Oct 11
Hiya suspenseful, Oh dear sounds like you have not had a good Day at all have you? Those Packets have a way of turning up when you least expect them as well know the feeling one of those packets is coming here tomorrow just when we had given up on it. Quite honestly I feel like sending it back but I can´t so I will just pay them with a big grin on my face I suppose to hide the fact that I dislike paying for something that I have waited so long for. On top of that it had better work the last time it did not work like they said it would so lets see what their excuse is this time around. Apart from that its been People that have caused problems for us today as well nothing that cannot be ironed out with time I suppose. I get the blues as well you know but I think that I can be positive too so that helps pull me out of it somewhat as well. Its not easy to smile when you don´t feel like it. Hope you get everything fixed as well we have a Toilet on the Blink as well fingers crossed I don´t have to repair that as well before I leave here just touching wood now although I don´t believe in those things either. Hope your Day goes better now I am relaxing here a bit so I don´t take my problems to sleep in my Head. Going for a walk with your Friend will also help you a lot I think and distract yourself as much as you can when you get back to the House I know that feeling too. xxx
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@stary1 (6612)
• United States
6 Oct 11
Television and cleaning my teeth early however do keep me out of the Cupboard lol as I am too lazy to clean my teeth again after. xxx lovinangelsinstead21 that is a good technique. I floss, brush and use a water pick...If tempted sometime I remind myself of the drill they use in teeth cleaning..
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
23 Jul 11
I think every person that has ever suffered from depression can relate with this one. Because there are times I have been there, and usually not care about what I am wanting to eat as long as it helps me feel better. Eating is OK I guess as long as you stay in control, and not over eat as well. But with being Diabetic like we both are, trying not to over do it to where your Blood sugar levels go to high is sometimes the hardest as well.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
23 Jul 11
I do not want to go back to being pre diabetic or sort of diabetic. . I have been trying to find recipes that are healthy and yet suitable for one person, in that I can make extra and freeze them. I did cleanse my system and now I find that when I feel the sweetness more in things so I try to avoid them. And have been trying for the natural things. Then I take my measurement around my waist and no matter what I do, it is not going down past 39 inches and that makes me more depressed, but then I try for a walk.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
22 Jul 11
I wish I knew what to tell you but I have the very same problem. I am constantly feeding my depression and nerves. I have gained weight and I hate it but I can never have a stress-free day.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
23 Jul 11
The only things that can help me is if I am on a computer or playing the piano or singing, I do not want food around as the crumbs might ruin the keyboard, piano, or my voice. I go for a walk, but then wind up buying a licorace bar and eating it on the way home. And the only thing that stops me then is if I see someone walking up from the other side or cars nearby because I remember the photo of me as a little girl on a pony and they happened to take the shoot while I was eating a lollipop and when I was at a reception or a shower, that was the most of the time when they took my photo even though there were plenty of other times. But when I had my bad knee and could not get around, I could hardly do anything, so there was the fridge and the food. And I do not want to go for a walk all day when I have to clean the house and I do have to clean the kitchen where the temptation is.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
22 Jul 11
I have that problem, too. I keep my favorite sugar free jello on hand and individually wrapped pieces of Dove chocolate. The chocolate is very good, rich and satisfying, more so than regular chocolate bars. The jello helps, too. Something else that helps is to make my own bread. It's very dense and heavy and yet much more nutritious than pre-baked and sliced bread. With butter, one slice is still better for me, less calories and more satisfying than a chocolate bar. Especially if I put some fennel, sunflower seeds and other stuff in it!
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
23 Jul 11
I love those Dove bars they are so good. I have not made bread for a while. REally have to get a new bread machine. But with me even if I made bread, I would still eat and especially if it tasted good. I get this really good 100 percent whole brain bread with sesame seeds, caraway seeds, all types of flours, ancient grains, and yet although to others it is not that good tasting, but to me it is. And I love it with peanut butter and or honey. That is supposed to fill one up, but no, not me.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
for me i usually eat any food that are available in our refrigerator lol but if i were to choose what kind of comfort food i would like to eat, it would be pizza, pasta, salad and ice cream ;)
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
23 Jul 11
I love all those things. I make my own pasta, and add whatever sauce and meat to it,. And make my own salad. Do not have ice cream that much. I find that the small ones are kind of expensive and do not like eating it on the way home or having it in the freezer so I can have it all the time. I do buy chocolate bars, but it is usually the dark chocolate, bu once ina while I feel like I need to eat a white chocolate bar or one of those filled bars like the O'Henry or the :Peanut Butter cup. And that is what I should avoid,
@QeeGood (1213)
• Sweden
23 Jul 11
When I get depressed I drink alot of coffee and feel no hunger. Which is bad for my body. You're the opposite you eat, when you are depressed. It is interesting how different people act when having a depression.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
23 Jul 11
I used to not eat, but that was when I was way overweight, so did not feel the hunger. Now I do. I do find when I go for a walk, I do not want to eat because I still have not got over that photo when I was a little girl having a sucker on a pony. I do think those hunger pangs are not really hunger but pangs for something else.
• United States
23 Jul 11
When I'm depressed, I sometimes I want to eat and it's usually because I get hungry when I have depression. I don't exercise or eat healthy so junk food and processed food is my comfort zone. It's because of all that has happened in my life that I turn to the food I love because it makes me feel good. It's the high without the high. I know I should try to express how I feel with words but food is so much better than words.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
23 Jul 11
It is because what happened in my life. Sometimes I think food is the substitute for the baby my husband and I never had - somethiing has to go into my stomach and the trouble is that when I feel the emptiness in side that is when I should not eat. I found that when I feel that pang, and satisfy it, that is when I gained weight even if it is less then a pound. The only thing that helps besides doing something else, is thinking of the budget. I wish that my hunger symptom wold work and that the depression would not stop it.