frankness and falsehood

@navtech (1776)
India
August 31, 2011 5:14am CST
"Being frank is always better than being falsely sweet.. Bcos by being frank in life, we may get lot of true enemies, bt surely not untrue frnds " What is your opinion ?
3 responses
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
31 Aug 11
Well this one is sticky...most people really don't like you to be totally frank with them....they like the sugar coated version of what you have to say. I am not sure you have true friends if you are totally frank....I think you might not have too many friends!
• India
31 Aug 11
Nobody likes a frank person. They feel that we are very rude. I am person who give frank opinions but people prefer pretence to frankness. You are right we gain a lot of enemies. But a person with falsehood and pretence gets more friends. But i do not wish to change my nature whatever may come. Happy mylotting.
@lazybug (273)
• Philippines
31 Aug 11
Frankness entails honesty which makes a relationship stronger. With it you can be really true to yourself and to others however being frank does not mean having a loose tongue. There is an appropriate time for everything. If frankness makes us stronger then being falsely sweet makes us a coward for in being frank we cast out fear however in being falsely sweet we let fear decide for us. We make enemies and friends by being true in what we say and how we say it.