If you home school your kids, why do you do it?

United States
September 13, 2011 4:22pm CST
My title is self-explanatory. Why do you choose to home school your kids? I can think of lots of reasons, such as financial... it can be expensive buying new clothes for 2 or 3 kids or even if you only have one child, it can be very expensive. There is also a lot of kids are shy, and they get picked on by other kids. If a family is poorer than the average family, buying clothes for kids can be difficult. There are kids who look down on you if you don't wear the name brands that they wear. I was made fun of really bad by one girl, and she tried to get my best friend to stop being friends with me, just because I didn't dress well, according to her. My friend told me about it. And this friend started a Hate (my name) Club.. that's what it was called.. I really wish there was homeschooling back when I was a kid. So if you homeschool, why do you do it? Is it do to your work schedule, or is your child sick and miss school a lot in public school? Please give me your thoughts and your reasons for homeschooling your kids.
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@Heffy7 (7)
13 Sep 11
I am against kids being home schooled they don't get and social interactions with other kids. I would definitely send my kids when I have kids to school so they will have more friends
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• United States
13 Sep 11
I had to respond just cause of your response. I hate the stereotype that homeschoolers are socially inept and have few friends. In my experience, exactly the opposite is true.
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
14 Sep 11
I home school my daughter and she gets plenty of socialization at home with the neighborhood kids. We also meet Twice a month for field trips and such for the children to interact.
• United States
13 Sep 11
I felt like I had no room responding until I read the comment made by the above poster. I'm a college student, and I've gone to public school all my life. However, the whole time I WISHED I was homeschooled. Begged my Mom to homeschool me, and got a no at least a dozen times. One for every year of torture. I was shy, soft-spoken, and never had many friends at school. I've gotten eons better since graduating, but I always hated the stereotype that homeschoolers were socially inept and didn't have many friends. When I first came to college, there was even a rumor running around that I'd been homeschooled all my life. HA!!!! The most social people I know are homeschoolers. I don't know a single homeschooler I wouldn't call a social butterfly. Granted, I am working from my sample within my corner of the world, but when I say I know a lot of people who were homeschooled, I mean it. The number's way past the dozens. They're all a very smart, sociable, well-adjusted people. I think if I had been homeschooled, I would have turned out a lot more like them.
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• United States
13 Sep 11
Thank YOU!!! I am so glad to read this! I'm writing a series of articles about home schooling. I've written two already. The client we were writing for is going to do something else, so I may use these articles for another purpose.. but I will continue to write them just for passive income at least.
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
14 Sep 11
I home school my youngest child and this is our second year doing so. Why? Well originally it was because the school district we were in was a rough one. She had been in private school her first 2 years of school. When I had to close my business we decided that I would just stay home and do home schooling. It has been a wonderful experience. She gets plenty if socialization with the kids in the neighborhood. The home school kids get together twice a month on field trips fir interaction. The K-12 program is wonderful, curriculum is top notch, the send you nearly everything you need. You also have a teacher assigned to you, if your child is struggling you can schedule one on one time with the teacher. I was never an advocate for hone schooling for many of the reasons above, but after starting I never want my child in a public school again. No where will she get the kind of education she is getting now. We actually discussed public school this year, since we have moved and are in a far better school district, but with all the budget cuts, if my daughter fell behind she wouldn't get one on one help from her teacher. She wouldn't get it in a private school either. We are very pleased with the program. It affords us to be flexible also. If we want to do school from 11 to 4 today an 9 to 3 tomorrow we can. We can schedule small trips and do long as we have access to a computer we can do school wherever were at. We aren't bound to s classroom, or your typical brick and mortar school. We can sit at the picnic table or out on the lawn. I truly think that my child is getting a first class education and it doesn't cost a fortune like the private school did. The k-12 public side i free. Our tax dollars are relocated to them for all her school books and aides that she needs. We buy paper, pencils, crayons and ink everything else is included. She has art and music also. How many elementary schools still have those programs. Also in Ca most schools no longer teach cursive writing, guess what we do. Again with all the books provided.
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
15 Sep 11
That is awful what happened to your god daughter, there is another reason for me to not put my child into public school. My daughter is a bit shy at times, but with a gentle push she does introduce herself to others. She enjoys the trips we take with others from the virtual academy, which is what our school is.
• United States
14 Sep 11
I fully intend for us to home school any children that we eventually have. My boyfriend and I are on the same page regarding that. There are many reasons why we believe in home schooling. One of the major issues is the fact that we could provide a far better education for our children. We have the pieces of paper to back up that assertion, too. I want for our children to be able to pursue their passions and be involved in the community. The public school schedule is too stifling for the way our family will be. I have to laugh when I come across people ranting about "socialization." Our children will be far from being hermits. Unlike public school students, they will have the opportunity to interact with people of all ages and a variety of backgrounds, rather than simply be locked away in a classroom all day with children of the same age and similar background.
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• United States
17 Sep 11
That is awesome that you will home school your kids when you have them. I hear a lot also about socialization.. I read a mixture of emotions about it. I think both sides have been stereotyped... I think it can be a good fit for some kids.
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@GemmaR (8517)
14 Sep 11
I don't have any children yet, but I am already thinking about home schooling them when I do have them. I am thinking about that because the schools that are near our house aren't very good, and I don't have the money to be able to send them to a private school. I know that people worry about children who are home schooled not making friends, but I would make sure that my children mixed with others and also that they joined clubs and things like that so that they would be able to meet other people who were their age; so they wouldn't miss out on anything.
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• United States
14 Sep 11
There are always activities and clubs in which they can get involved. I've looked at what is available in some of the areas that I would like to relocate to and raise a family, and there is just so much that is available; these aren't major metropolitan areas, either. Once my (future) kids are old enough, I plan for them to volunteer. I'd love to organize some time to volunteer as a family, too. Between religious activities, 4-H, Girl Scouts, community groups, and volunteering, I think that my kids might manage to meet a few people...
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• United States
11 Oct 11
Yes there are many different activities. So many folks have this idea that kids are isolated, when they aren't. I wish I could have been home schooled. My school life was terrible... I was bullied to the point of actually trying to kill myself a couple of times. College was much better but high school was terrible.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
14 Sep 11
honestly, I do not agree with the methods of homeschooling. On the other hand, we must teach children about the importance of community socialization, in addition we must also consider the legality of homeschooling method because we do not deny that at the world of work, the school diploma is the evidence formalities of graduation school and the school diploma also be valid as the main thing to apply for jobs at the world of work. A school diploma only be issued by institutions of formal education while, as I know in Indonesia, the institutions that organizing homeschooling methods have not been able to issue a school diplomas to their students.
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• United States
14 Sep 11
Home schoolers get a diploma. I believe they take the GED, which isn't easy. You must be able to all the things that a high schooler who is graduating would have to do. I took the GED test and did well on it. I was reading where colleges like to recruit the home schooled students because they get such good scores on the ACT. I wish I had had that option.
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@ily12011 (108)
• United States
14 Sep 11
From a Students Point Of view, Home school is not very social, but it all depends on how you get home schooled. Some Parents teach there kids, some use internet sites. Example Ecot which the main building is in Columbus, They have video class rooms where students and in like a chat room and there is a white board and the teacher will teach off of that. So That is a type of socializing with people in the same class and with your teacher.. but it has its downfalls on not being able to go to dances or extra stuff like yearbook staff or anything you could be apart of you cant really be apart of it when your home schooled. but it all depends on the reason for being home schooled, i was home schooled for personal reasons but if its just cause kids don't want to wake up and actually so then there is no reason to home school them.. hoping this helps. Students Point of View :)
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• United States
11 Oct 11
I've seen only a couple of students that didn't do well with home schooling, and that is mainly because their mom wasn't there much to oversee them. They were more goofing off than anything... but I've known other home schooled kids that did well and were very social because there are so many things for them to do.