i wanted to share a laugh...

I think she is a mess. I would not tell so many million people online how much of a failure she is at relationships. So there she is telling the world and showing them why she is a failure.

You have learned one of those things that most of us have to learn at some point. You have learned a bit earlier than some, QUITE a bit earlier than others... and I know more than a few who are nearing 50 who STILL haven't figured it out!

Hi, SomeCowgirl. Sometimes when a so- called friend is acting shady, you just have to leave them behind for them to sort out their own petty issues. I have been in this situation so many of times. The best thing to do with a person like this is to ignore them. I am very good with doing this myself. I have a second cousin that was on Facebook saying some really odd things. She would be sarcastic with her choice of words and it made me wonder whom was she referring to. I know that she was upset about something, but she did not want to come out and say what she really meant. So, I just ignored her. When my Birthday came, she never said "Happy Birthday", to me. Instead she posted on her wall about, how she has some things to say, but some things are better yet left unsaid. I was like, WTF??? She did not even bother to say, "Happy Birthday" to me, but instead she just acted like a silly little child. I don't know what her problem was, so I ignored her. I also know that I have not done anything to her either. I acted like she did not even say anything to me that would offend me. I went on with my day, jolly and gleeful. I wasn't about to let her or anyone else silly spoil my special day! Now, when her Birthday came, I posted a, "Happy Birthday" greeting on her wall. I did not say anything stupid like she did on my Birthday. One thing about me is, if someone does me wrong, I am not about to wrong them back. That is not ladylike. It is very childish, and this is what I am past. It is time that adults act like adults, if that is what they wish for others to refer to them as. If this girl on Facebook wants to act hatefully towards you, then just don't bother with her. I am sure that you have bigger and better things that you need to be doing instead of following up her animosity that she has against you.

Some people never grow up and never mature. They stay in their own little world and blame others and some even think that life owes them for some reason. People like this are not even to be pittied. They did it to themselves. Someday maybe they will grow up and look back on it as a learning curve. And maybe not.

I always say that in life, to each his own. I just live my life for me and my family. I do not care what people will say because the very same people would not help me in times of trouble.

I hate gossips and avoid them like the plague! I agree, we don't have to put every emotion we are feeling on Facebook. I often read comments thinking: 'What on Earth did you put that up there for? You just look stupid. Grow up!'

I think this is all silly

As we age, we generally shed various people from our lives. Your current circle of friends likely won't continue on for decades. People will get married, have kids, move, get sandwiched between aging parents and their own households, grow apart. Adulthood comes along when you aren't really looking. It doesn't magically show up when we turn 18 or 21. It is the point at which you are facing down stuff and realizing that you are operating without a net--that it really is on you (and your boyfriend or husband, if you have one at that time). It can be the birth of your first child, or it can be when you are looking at nursing homes/assisted living options for an aging relative.

I think the facebook rants are immature too. I have a facebook but I am hardly ever on there. I go if there is a message or something like that but not regularly. The thing is that there are a lot of people that post very personal feelings and situations. There are a couple of people that I know who just want to get into your business so they have something to talk about at work. I hate mixing professional and personal life. I hear them talking about pictures and statuses all the time. They really ruined facebook for me. There are always people out there that will ruin a good thing. Anyway...I wouldn't worry about it either. Sometimes there are people that you just can't be friends with.

In my opinion you should change your point of view to judge people or to see world that you are seeing now . may be you are much adult to see or to judge people but all the world is not same . there are different kinds of people in this world. Yeah you are right that to leave the trash at the curb but appart from this may be they can help you in some other day . so be polite be each and every people

better to ignore her totally. things like this would mess my day too if i were in your position. if she continues to be like this i'm done with her. no more foul statuses. gossips or whatever because that is so immature. what your doing is good never stoop down at her level you become a mess if you do. always keep your cool.

Well Being mature is really a effective way of moving on.. = )... And all those problems will be solve if you help yourself... So that's why all people have to move on to their problems... And we can't miss the praying to God to help us to face those problems with courage... I hope you guys help me back to my problem = ) anyone out there...or someone concern or have the same problem as mine.... please response to my post... thank you very much...