The wax thing...

@saphrina (31552)
South Africa
November 30, 2011 1:48am CST
Okay, so i decided not to shave anymore. Mom decided we will try waxing instead. I must have been out of my freaking mind. Brave as i am, we went to buy those cruel wax strips. I mean really, the poor things look so innocent, but they can hurt like hell, i tell you. So, i followed the instructions, doesn't look that bad. YEAH RIGHT! A bit of advice, never let mom help you wax, anything. So, i applied the strip and made sure it was warm enough. As i waited for it to really get all those little hairs i read the pamphlet. What does mom do? Come past me and rip that damn thing of my leg. I tell you people, i nearly fainted. I never knew it could hurt that much. I know a lot of people wax and are use to it, but one thing i know, i don't think i will get use to this. I must be freaking mad doing this damn wax thing.
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@inu1711 (5285)
• Romania
30 Nov 11
Good choice to give up on shaving. Bad choice to switch to waxing. Have you tried an electric epilator? I'd vote for Braun products. You'll be very pleased with the results.
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@vandana7 (98834)
• India
30 Nov 11
This is why I like myLot. I was hoping somebody would come up with nice solution. I hate both waxing and shaving. I try to avoid both. Now that you tell me inu. Perhaps you could give a picture here, and other details.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
After all the pain i went through sweetie, now you tell me?
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@inu1711 (5285)
• Romania
30 Nov 11
Don't worry, Saphrina. Every girl goes through this at least once. Some get used to the pain and continue waxing, others search for other solutions. Here's a link for you vandana: http://www.braun.com/us/silk-epil-epilators.html I couldn't explain better then they do.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
30 Nov 11
I wonder sometimes... why god has offered hair on legs?
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@shibham (16977)
• India
30 Nov 11
already spanked.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
I know one thing for sure.... for your kittens plea to stay on your legs (hairs)
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
30 Nov 11
why god has offered hair on legs Did I read GOD Are you all ok mamu?
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• United States
30 Nov 11
When you waxed, did it get all the hairs or did you still have to shave? I have heard that waxing will still leave hairs unless you keep going over the same spot multiple times, which is not advisable and hurts more. They say as you keep waxing, though, over time it does get easier and eventually will get all (or at least almost all) of the hairs each time.
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• United States
1 Dec 11
That sounds like far too much pain and hassle for me. I subscribe to the firm belief that "beauty" should not be painful, and I refuse to waiver from this position, especially when I am the one that would have to be enduring the pain.
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@inu1711 (5285)
• Romania
30 Nov 11
As far as I remember (yeah, I did used wax for a few years back in my college days) you can't pluck all the hairs. The few hairs that remain after waxing can be easily plucked with tweezers.
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@inu1711 (5285)
• Romania
1 Dec 11
Well, I don't know how people see this subject over there but I will always remember how bad I felt when I was about 14 and went to a camp at the seaside. The few hairs I had on my legs seemed a blasphemy in the other girl's eyes. I think I was a little to childish for my age (or they were too mature for 14) because at that time I had never thought about removing that hair. I think in my people's mentality, it is normal for women to suffer for beauty. We even have an old saying "old ladies must suffer for beauty".
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@topffer (42156)
• France
30 Nov 11
I never felt the need to shave or put wax on my legs. Do you feel more pretty after this torture ? Some bruises on your legs ?
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
Top sweetie, it is just easier as i have a sensitive skin and shaving is bad for my skin. Anyway can i come and wax your legs, PLEASE?
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
Next summer? But....
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@topffer (42156)
• France
30 Nov 11
Please ? Winter is coming and I fear to get a cold if I have no fur on my legs. Ask me next summer.
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@zralte (4178)
• India
30 Nov 11
Nope, I never liked wax or wax strips. Tell you what, I've been using those Veet cream, I love them. No more pain, and I swear the hairs are getting less in number. I highly recommend the products. The other day, I thought I'd try out the Fem Hair removal cream, not as nice as Veet. I'm sticking to Veet. Oh....a little secret, Mom or no mom, those wax strips are going to hurt anyway, even if you strip them yourself.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
Hi sweetie. I tried veet for sensitive skin, but for some obscure reason it doesn't work with me. So waxing is in now. I screamed like a freaking horror movie star when i stripped them myself, imagine what it sounded like when mom did it.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
I did use ice sweetie. Anyway, it feels better today, not that red anymore, but smooth at least.
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@zralte (4178)
• India
30 Nov 11
Oh, that's too bad. Works wonderful on me. Wish I know other hair removal products to suggest, but that's it on my little knowledge. Try desensitising the skin with ice or something.
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@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
Wow! You're terribly brave!! I can never get my self to get a wax. Just thinking about makes me cringe! Sorry, turns me into jell-o when I think about it. Me and my good ol' razor. Together for life!
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
Hi sweetie. I always promised myself to never do it as it looked hurtful, but now i know what to expect next time. 4 weeks of not having to shave, well i am sure you get the point. Enjoy that shaver friends of yours. But do come and visit so we can wax together.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
You wouldn't?
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
Ouch!!!! Never! Never! Never! I mean, sure, I'll visit you. But I'm bringing my shaver with me!!! I'm sure I'll have fun watching you, though.
@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
4 Dec 11
Lordy...Lordy...HAVE YOU NOT heard of liquid anesthetic? Comes in clear liquids...like Vodka...Amberliquids like Scotch and Whiskey..EVEN purple like moonshine! EAsily purchased...no perscription needed! Easily administered...shot glass or glurg..no needles necessary! Promise you will completely EASE the pain! Can be applied topically..too, ingest by osmosis! Truly versatile products..not horribly expensive! Do you have hidden masochistic tendencies...saphy? Why so much torture? Time lapse.....INTERNET was down for 5 days! Winds huffed and puffed 'til they nearly blew my house down!
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• Canada
4 Dec 11
Gadzooks...PA...Thrilled to hear from you! Yup...my little world got "blown" about...just NOT used to dealing with 100+ mph winds (160khm) to me...brings up a whole new world of worry! Earthquakes are just a normal part of life...but have NEVER felt isolation like these winds! GONE, I hope...but not forgotten...ALL the monied folks, with waterfront took a bath--literally! Glad I'm on a hill and could watch it rush by! I did use my Generator, but after sharing with the neighbour & my tenant...I either had to choose my two small freezers or internet! Somehow food won out! I really hope this is not a precursor of things to come! Lotsa firewood...so I can keep the "moonshine" brewing...LOL! Missed ya....LOTZ!
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• United States
4 Dec 11
I am glad to see you back, Perga! I was wondering where you were and why I had not seen you around lately. I am glad to hear that it was nothing more than those dad-burn naughty winds whistling and whipping and taking down Internet connections like they own the planet and belong here or something.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Dec 11
I missed you, you know. No one can think all this out, but you. Anyway, the vodka didn't help, so i doubt all this on your list would have been any help. Glad your back.
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
30 Nov 11
Hi, saphy sweetie, I never thought there could be so much technology, stories and emotions behind this wax thing. bottomline; when you wax you should not have your mom with you, instead let your partner enjoy the whole drama
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
Sweetie, my partner is half around the world. How in hell should he enjoy this drama then?
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
30 Nov 11
Wunnerful. Wax me wax me!
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
Oh dear.
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
30 Nov 11
I think I will pass this think today....but I should consider it tomorrow.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
uuummm, why tomorrow sweetie?
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
30 Nov 11
When you look at the results I am sure you will gradually get used to it. That's what mothers say. One child and no more and slowly you will find them having sometimes 8 or 9 knowing the pain involved.
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
30 Nov 11
I am going to have a great time this season changing avatars galore!
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
30 Nov 11
The good news however in my case is I have a smooth skin.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
Cool avatar sweetie. Anyway, maybe i will get use to it. But damn it hurt,, you know. Wish i had a smooth skin though.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
30 Nov 11
Hi Saphrina Of course, I have zero idea on this... but as I read, it must have been quite a painful thing to do
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
sids Nice to see your new avatar- didn't you use wax to remove your hairs?
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
Painful sweetie, is not the word. You should be as drunk as a lord and insane to do such a thing.
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
ouch I can imagine your reaction when your mom stripped it thank goodness I don't have so much hair on my legs
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
Hi sweetie. Reaction, very bad. Wish i could say the same though. These things just freaking row.
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
That really hurt..Badly as in.I tried that once and swear to never do that again,Ever.So i am back to shaving again.. :-D
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
I think after bout 100 times one might get use to it, sweetie. Might, you know.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
30 Nov 11
Sure.
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
ugh. when you reached 100 i might go after you and to make a 100 then.. :-D
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
6 Dec 11
You want to talk about pain??? My daughter has her hoo-ha done, frontside and backside...aaarrrgggghghh!! Makes me glad for once that I'm older. Anyyow, who said if it was growing hair not on the head it must be waxed? Bet it was a bloke.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
7 Dec 11
Yep, hard to believe but you heard right. She said she was embarrassed for about 30 seconds. The whole thing (scuse the pun sweetie) is just bloody ridiculous if you ask me.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
7 Dec 11
LOL. She did what sweetie? I mean really, must have been a bloke who said it then.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
10 Dec 11
30 seconds? We live with ridiculous, sweetie.
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@AmbiePam (85528)
• United States
1 Dec 11
It's too bad we don't live in Europe where hairy legs are the normal for women.
@AmbiePam (85528)
• United States
2 Dec 11
LOL Me neither. Someone told me a lot of women, American women, let their leg hair grow in the winter because they aren't wearing shorts or short skirts. I'm thinking, a whole winter without shaving your legs? Look, no man is touching my legs, and I won't be wearing shorts, but I'm shaving my legs for me!
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
2 Dec 11
Hi sweetie. I don't think i could live with it.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
2 Dec 11
I heard about it, but never wanted to ask, you know. I always shaved, winter, summer, every damn time. Rather keep them smooth i always say.
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
2 Dec 11
I have to laugh, because I am getting to go my second time around today, because I have avoided this torture all my life, but with my busy schedule with school and family, I went too many times with hairy legs, so I figure if I wax, I can take a breather. Now I am not using a store bought product, I did some research and found a homemade wax formula, (don't know what kind of wax these store bought ones use, but mine is primarily sugar) Then I found a box reusable cotton strips online. Now because mine is homemade, I did have to do it a couple times, (with a few days in between for a rest) to get it all,) but I have to admit, after a while it wasn't that bad and I don't have the "bumps" one gets with shaving. My legs were smooth for a long time, so smooth that I didn't realize I had to do it again..lol So, yeah, it is probably best if no one else "pulled" the strip and if you continue, you might find it isn't as bad as the first time..
• United States
2 Dec 11
Well, since mine is homemade, like I said, it didn't get it all the first time around and if you like, I can PM you the links an tips along with the recipe I use..
• United States
2 Dec 11
That is, if you accept my friend request...
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
2 Dec 11
Hi sweetie. I still have about 3 weeks to go, before my next torture session. I will go and have a looksie online with what you use. Sounds better than what i am using and they say Veet is suppose to be the best though. I won't let mom do it again. Anyway, have fun with the next wax.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
Oh dear sweetheart, I can imagine how it hurts But you give me an idea.... I will do same thing when bhaby is wearing those strips shhhhhhhhhhh.....don't tell her (^_^)
@shibham (16977)
• India
30 Nov 11
Mail has sent to bhaby. hehehe....
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
shiby
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@shibham (16977)
• India
30 Nov 11
Yeah, yeah hurraaahhhhhhh
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
9 Dec 11
More power (and more strength and courage) to all the women that brave waxing themselves, and still have the strength to pull it out! And the men that do too! I'm glad I don't do it!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
10 Dec 11
I can do two things! I can do the application, and I can do the pulling!
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
10 Dec 11
Does that mean, you won't join me for a wax session, sweetie?
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
11 Dec 11
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
3 Dec 11
Here i go through the post of a (waxed) queen Can you please care not to make any kinda sounds when you undergo the same treatment next time btw your mom is so sweeeet ... admire her guts to hurt this freakin' devil of mylot :P
• United States
3 Dec 11
If you have such smooth hands, does that mean that you are too "delicate" for manly things?
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
3 Dec 11
Don't ya think my hands are too smooth for your rough legs
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Dec 11
OOOOHHH YEAH!!!! Wanna come and wax?