They should put age requirements for usage of computers/laptops

@davaome (1826)
Philippines
December 7, 2011 3:22pm CST
I don't know what came to my father's head when he bought two netbooks for my 2 little brothers. 1 at 6 years old, the other 2 years old. At first, i thought this would work out. but then, after 4 months of usage, i was shocked of the state of the netbooks. buttons (letters) were missing, it had plenty of scratches, it looked like it was abused. It's good that it was still covered by the warranty. And now it made me realize, that they should use it under adult supervision to prevent this from happening again. I observed them on what purpose was the netbook for them, they use it to play "plants vs zombies", angry bird, and some emulators. and the two year old brother of mine, would repeatedly watch movies that were placed their for his viewing. Then when it had an error he became angry and started hitting the netbook. I took it from him and scolded him. he cried so loud that only by giving his netbook back made him ok.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
7 Dec 11
I sort of think it is good for kids at such a young age more to play with and learn as they go and because they are not all brand new it doesn't matter if they are a bit rough, your little brothers will be computer experts by the age of 10, that is good.
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
That was my first impression at first but now, I'm thinking while their still young, they should enjoy playing outside, rather than staying at home playing with the computer. and it would help prevent further damage to the netbooks. happy mylotting
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
7 Dec 11
Absolutely correct and very well put... The kids need outdoor sports for their mental, physical and social growth... If they remain at home only then there are positive dangers of harm to health in any form.. Take care... Happy myLotting...
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@JER616 (545)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
I agree with you, Mr. Pearl [Harbor?]. I am a living example of such a kid who grew up remaining only at home. I had already an asthma at such a young age and my grandmother and mother didn't want me to go outside the house and play with the rest of the kids then for fear of having an attack due to exhaustion. The result? A miserable me who has become sickly instead of being healthy. Worse, I have not grown normally with other people around. This made me uncomfortable when with a large group of people.
@br3ndy (468)
• Indonesia
8 Dec 11
I guess two years old kids are not supposed to be given laptop/netbook yet. I think because they are too small too understand what laptop/netbok is for and they still can't handle it with care. The possitive is they will get to know and getting used to technology at early year but for me it is still too early to give them laptop/notebook.
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@br3ndy (468)
• Indonesia
9 Dec 11
Oh yeah you are right. Kids are better playing outside than just sitting next to computer everyday. By playing outside with their friend, they could learn communication with others and also it is healthy for their health.
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
I agree, but in my situation the best thing would be to make the most of it. I would rather let them play outside than play computer but, what i do now is give them just an hour for their computer and the rest of the day play outside happy mylotting :)
@Fortunata (1135)
• United States
8 Dec 11
I would not give young children netbooks or phones, until they are about maybe 11, 12 and up, and I could supervise what they do on them. In this day and age it is dangerous to allow children on the internet or to use a cell phone, because there are people who prey on kids and wish to harm them. Many kids get into trouble with cell phones, because their friends make them do stupid things, such as egg them on to take pictures of themselves, or text terrible things. A lot of parents have gotten into trouble over this, because the children are legally not responsible, the parents are. So I would never give a netbook to a child that young. It's a wonder the two year old didn't choke on those missing buttons you were referring about.
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@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
Luckily he didn't choke from the missing pieces...yet. but know we just got them back after being fixed and they look much better compared to what i saw it when i arrived and stayed home. I agree that at that age (11 or 12) would be the most appropriate age for them to be accustomed and be given privileged to have their own electronic gadgets such as netbooks and cell phones, but my father seemed to think otherwise. All i can hope for is they will have a great time, while i'm with them supervising them with their new "Toys". Hopefully they will be able to understand on how to take good care of their things soon, because probably by the time, i will leave them, when i come back, maybe it was thrown already. thanks for the comment Happy mylotting
@Lhenni (1242)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
Maybe your fathet just wanted to give all he can to all his children not much thinking the cons. He should be glad that you see things he can't see. Go, talk to your father what you find out to make him resolved. My kids ages 10 and 4 can play on PC for a limited time. No unli! 1 PC for our whole family to share. They have also 1 PSP to share it with. They should learn the word "sharing". We wanted our eldest to focussed on her studies but also not being ignorant on tekky things around. Proud to say that, since she studied she's consistent to be on top. We don't want her studies to be compromised if we let her to access those things easily. We want our kids to value their privilage... and more to basics! Happy day davaome.
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@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
I believe my father bought the two netbooks because it is assured that the other 1 will get jealous, but i think i will try to teach them about sharing and puting there computer time to a limited time only. Hope my little sister won't be like his 2 older brothers, because when the times comes, maybe my father will buy another one for her. Well i need to start teaching them about sharing, hmmm, the problem is the other is to young maybe he won't understand, anyway it's worth a try :) thanks lhenii, i think i will try your advice soon
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
8 Dec 11
I heard about this on the news, how kids are growing up too fast and using technology at such a young age. I reckon there should be n age limit. In my country on the news, they were planning on establishing a mobile phone license for kids as kids as young as 3 were using mobile phones and dialing calls. I remember watching a video proposed by a mylot member here in which a one year old kid tried to use a magazine like an ipad. She started to use her fingers and try to press and slide the pages over to turn but of course you have to physically grab the magazine page and flip it. It just hows how kids were so brainwashed by technology and the old ways don't exist anymore. What happened to kids playing football on the streets and taking walks with their family and pets. Kids these days are just glued on the screen inside the home. This will just lead to obesity and issues in the future. Kids tend to be aggressive too with technology so I reckon you should hold back the technology on your kids.
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@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
These are my sibling, and i agree that they should spend their childhood outside playing, rather than just being glued to the screens and doing whatever they like. I don't know with my father why he thought of this as a good idea, but i myself thought at first it was a good idea. but after the problem that they have caused. and literary trying to destroy they're netbooks, I thought, this was not a good idea after all. right now what i'm trying to do to my little brothers are to keep an eye on them and try to teach them to take good care of their things
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
I would never give kids that age those expensive gadgets to play with. There are educational 'netbooks' for children. I hope your dad won't give them those things at an early age, they might grow up spoiled and hate your parents if there are things they couldn;t give them. But those netbooks are already there, I think the best that you can do is to guide them and teach how to properly use those things.
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@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
That would be the only thing that i can do as of the moment. Hopefully i can teach them a thing or to thanks for the response have a nice day
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
7 Dec 11
Of course, kids require supervision all the time.. Whether its with netbooks or anything else... They are so playful and their responses are spontaneous... They must be supervised, from a suitable distance, all the time... :)
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@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
Yup, gotta remind my parents about that one. they seem to let them (my siblings) do almost every thing that they want. And while i'm here, and gonna put them on a strict leash. have a nice day :)
@GemmaR (8517)
10 Dec 11
I agree that not everybody should be able to have a laptop, but it's what you can do on it rather than the machine itself that is the problem. The issue is that a lot of schools now use laptops to do their work and this can mean that children do need access to one at home. However, there is an issue with the fact that they might be able to look at things which aren't suitable for them on the internet which might have a large impact on them and their mental health. You sometimes don't realise what an impact things have had on a child until much later in their lives.
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
19 Dec 11
Thank you for your response and it is something also to keep in mind. I will surely do a good job in supervising my little brothers, and hopefully they are able to learn useful things with the use of their laptops.
7 Dec 11
They don't put age requirements on them because it's pretty dumb to give expensive electronic equipment to children and expect them to look after it. They'll assume it's a toy and treat it as such. Just watch an upset 2-year-old with their teddy bear and you'll see the sort of treatment the computer will get. Thrown around, bits bitten off, bashed about, dragged around... I introduced my nephews to computers when they were around 3-5 years old but it was always with them sitting on my lap and being guided, helped and so on. NEVER alone. There's 240v going through the power supply, no way I'd leave a kid alone with it.
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@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
I wished my parents were thinking of that when they planned on buying those netbooks. Nothing I can do except be the "adult supervision" around them.
@garson (884)
• United States
19 Dec 11
I bought my first computer, which is a desktop 7 years ago. I would not be thinking of buying a desktop, laptop, or a netbook for little kids. Generally, I do not believe a 6 year olds and 2 year olds are responsible enough to take care of things. Sure, there is always a possibility of g-whiz, but how many kids are like that? Your dad might have already spoilt your brothers a little bit. He could have waited few more years unless he is rich. Your little can certainly use computer as long as they are monitored, supervised, and assisted.
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
19 Dec 11
Yes, I give the freedom to use there netbooks, as long as I am with them while they are using it and I give them just about 2 to 3 hours a day so that they can also play outside and not be glued to their netbooks
• United States
7 Dec 11
I agree with you that that is way too young for them to be receiving such expensive gifts. They are not responsible enough at that age to understand the true value of the gift so of course they wont take care of it as they should. Sadly parents today do whatever they can to keep their kids busy/active & quiet. The TV set has become the best babysitter for many a parent & now apparently w/ the introduction of laptops/IPads so have they as well.
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• Philippines
8 Dec 11
So you are okay now?About that netbook is working okay?Well,well, i think your fathere did not know about that...
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@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
Yup surely he didn't. I don't want to put his money into waste by just letting them(little brothers) destroy their netbooks. hopefully i will always be around to monitor them.
@rusale (647)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
I think it is fine that little children could have netbooks as long as the guardian/parents is fine with it. It is nice that a child could watch video on his own in his netbook. It is a great way to make him more knowledgeable about this technology. Maybe by his age now he'll do smashing the netbook but later he'll discover what was the purpose of that thing on his own.
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@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
I'm hoping that it will turn out that way. But, as long that i'm still here, i will be the one to look after them and make sure they don't break anything :) thanks rusale for the response have a nice day
@fakeboss (26)
• China
9 Dec 11
lol, i don't know what came to your father's head either.......... i mean, if you want your kids to learn through the netbooks, they don't even know how to use it........ how could they learn something..... and if you want them to learn ,then you should show them ,lead them , and it's no need to buy the netbooks for all of them just one is needed and what's more, don't you think that learning together will be more good than separating them with their own netbooks? i guess, your father is too busy to be there with them ,so he just bought something he thought would be good for his kids......... but, we should know, there's nothing good or bad, it's just how you use it ,how you look at it..........
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Thank you fakeboss, It would be best for me to take care of my little siblings, and i guess i should hide one netbook so that i could promote to them cooperation like what you said. thank you again for your response have a nice day
• China
9 Dec 11
i think you are a good brother........ have a nice day ;D
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
9 Dec 11
A two year old is too young to be left alone with a computer. A six year old can be taught to treat the notebook with respect, and put it to good use. my four year old son knows how to insert the power cable, starts, and shuts down a laptop. Apart from playing simple games he likes painting, and listening to online audio books. He accesses the sites via the Speed Dial button of the Opera browser. He understands the need to share.
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Good for your son that he is already educated on how to operate the laptop. my six year old brother knows those things as well and i think i can teach him more, but with my other brother who is still two, i'm not sure, because he wouldn't want to listen to me, all he does is do what he wants, but i'm planning to apply some strict rules on him and hope he will understand
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 11
Hi Davao, i think your young brothers should not have fun with net-books whole day. Firstly, it is not a cheap toy, to let them play and spoil those net-books. Secondly, young children should be allowed to enjoy life outdoors as much as possible. They should not be allowed to watch net-books or computer too often at such a tender age since it will spoil their eyes vision. I do allowed my son to learn educational programs and watch kiddies shows just for a few hours in a day. Most of the time, i prefer him to spend his time on other indoor and outdoor activity. Hope to hear positive progress from your side soon.
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
10 Dec 11
I actual give a very bad example to them :) i am with my netbook outside of our house while my 3 siblings are running around infront of me. But atleast I kept them away from their laptops :) But I have a helper to accompany me while doing this. :)
@emilytd18 (114)
• Philippines
10 Dec 11
awww.. In my opinion, it's not that good also to give such kind of gadgets to the toddlers or to the kids. I think it's just a matter of being responsible for the things that you have and normally, kids aren't mature enough to take good care of such things. I think your father should give them such stuffs when they come at a right age. And if ever that they will have to use it at a very young age, they really do need an adult supervision cause these youngsters don't know what they are doing. It's good that they are just using it to play games or watch movies, but once it's connected to the internet, that's when the role of the parents are most important. They might not want any of those kids to see any inappropriate things. ;-)
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
10 Dec 11
yes that's correct, when it connected to the internet that's the most important time to be very watchful of them :)