What is the meaning of "true feeling".......
By Ramesh mylot
December 18, 2011 11:07am CST
friends, everyone in this world, having at least some selfishness, and everyone having some helping nature. Helping and selfishness both are good according to situations. But In every relationship, in every human communication there should be some lacking of true feelings. Actually What is the meaning of "true feelings"(according to you)?. Is it predefined, is it fixed? Is it depending upon age? How can we express true feelings?
• Garden Grove, California
20 Dec 11
hi rameshchow I think its different for each of u s but to true feelings are of unselfish love and respect and trust and also of a true love of self,known as self esteem, A person who has true feelings is a sincere person who loves unselfishly and honors and respects others too. if theres a bit of selfishness its only to build 'up their self esteem .we are all different, for me an introvert I had to learn to be a bit selfish, to gather some real self esteem as I had begin to feel really down on myself. my husband taught me to like and to love myself so I could fully love others too.
19 Dec 11
True feelings are feelings that you have within yourself. Sometimes you may not feel too intensely about something while at other time the intensity may be great.. Whatever the feelings are, they may not be voiced at all times. Suppose you feel very strongly against something , but you do not think it is your business to intervene or say it outright, then you may just keep quiet thereby hiding your true feelings. Sometimes you may have to silently tolerate someone else hiding your true feelings. An employee may not be able to voice his true feelings against his boss all the time because ‘discretion is the better part of valor”. Feelings can only be true ; there is no contradictory false feeling in any context. The affection you have towards many may be less intense than what you have for certain specific people., like children, parents, spouse etc..THis does not mean that other feelings are shallow; they are all less intense and can also vanish with time.
19 Dec 11
Hi rameshchow, True feelings are sincere, transparent and genuine feelings that one can exhibit openly. I think this is very difficult to do for as human beings we are afraid to reveal our true feelings for a number of reasons, whether valid or not. It could be a case of losing face, arrogance, pride or whatever. It would take a lot of guts and humility to express out true feelings. Have a nice day!
19 Dec 11
True feeling to me is the real feelings you feel deep inside for every situation. When you are happy, you cannot help yourself from grinning ear to ear all day, or simply just being talkative. It is a feeling that you would rather not keep inside of you, even if not that okay for others to see.
19 Dec 11
True feelings is differ from one person to another. For me to get the true feeling one need have sincerity in life. When we do things sincerely we will find that we are always happy in everything we do. Hard to find people with it and honestly me sometimes can't get away from being selfish. If one need to do it because he is forced to do so you could see from their act and face that there are not putting a whole heart to it hence they are not showing the true feeling of themselves.(^^)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
18 Dec 11
I think "true feelings" is something where is no lying. whatever I do for my best friend is from my heart and like to do but not only for make him/her happy. True feelings is quite hard to express what think. Like, I love my mother too much but never told I love her that much that she can't imagine. "True feelings is something what you can feel only."