i believe being happy in career and in relationship or love is possible

@hotsummer (13835)
Philippines
December 26, 2011 9:00pm CST
some people don't believe that it is possible to have both. despite the fact i don't have any luck in career nor in relationship, i do still believe that any thing is possible. although i believe my failure in career and relationshipe was more of my bad choices in life and not because of any thing else. if i can turn back time , i would have done differently and i am sure i would have been more lucky in love and career.
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11 responses
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
30 Dec 11
Wow! Now you're really going to have to work hard. I thought having a happy family life was difficult. When I tried to have a happy work life, that was 3xs harder to achieve. Good luck, love this new and better attitude. Keep up the good work.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
27 Dec 11
I believe thaat you can have the best of both worlds. It should not have to be a choice of one or the other. It is possible to have a successful career and a loving relationship with that someone special. I think you can have that happiness in both areas of your life. you just really have to want it.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
27 Dec 11
There is always ample time to venture into something you like. Being negative minded is not going to improve your present standing. This world is so wide, when one door closes another will be open wide for you to venture.
• United States
27 Dec 11
Yes i agree that the choices we make in life directly relate to how well we prosper in careers and in relationships it takes lots of work to move forword in life some folks want to take the easy path which leasmds to little reward. Holding out for a good education can help a person have a good future. Choosong a mate with care is just as important. A mate should be a good match. A poor choice in choosing a mate can end with heartache.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
Hi hotsummer, Of course it is possible to be happy both in career and love. Some people thinks they cannot handle both of this at the same time. But we can - we just need to give balance and time for both. I do think that there is no need to feel bad about what happened in the past, what happened in the past is our choices and it happened I guess because it's what supposed to happen. We may feel we have made bad choices before but I guess it's gonna be the same if we are to go back in time. We still gonna choose the same thing. We can only learn from the past mistakes and bad decisions, and later in our life we'll find the luck and happiness we want.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
It is very possible. One would have to work in both his or her career and relationship! There has to be balance! It's like an investment, you have to choose carefully on what career and type of person you would be in relationship with, nurture your relationships and do your job well. It should be the right job for you, something you would like/love to do. And I think that's it.
@clanca (5)
• China
27 Dec 11
just have a faith and God bless you
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
27 Dec 11
I also suppose that i would be the lucky one to realize my dream.I'm working on it and make money so as to really had myself relaxed.Being happy is important cause i have my parents support me and i do love them.I really wanna being together when i even think about them.Have a nice day.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
27 Dec 11
I too believe it is possible to be happy with a career and with a relationship. It just requires a couple to be balanced and to know what is really important. When a couple are able to show love and respect towards one another, and at the same type enjoy their carrer things can go good. I hope that in the future you are able to have success with both as well.
@ShyBear88 (59286)
• Sterling, Virginia
27 Dec 11
I think it is possible to have both. Yeah some times you have to have a job you hate but you get the person that you love to be with. I have a job that I love and I have my husband and daughter. I'm a mom that is the job I wanted and love some days I wish I wasn't a mom but those a very far and in-between. My husband he doesn't really care for his job but it's a job he does Selma dn can go far in life that's why he loves it so much but hates it as the same time because its a hard job he could go to jail if he messes up on something.
@indi15 (888)
• India
27 Dec 11
I do not have a good career, i only try to make some money online from home in which i am still not very successful but relation wise , yes i am happy. Getting both the things and being happy in that is really a great thing.